# Bad, bad, bad!

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [July 16, 2021, 7:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622 "2021-07-16T07:49:19Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 7:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/1 "2021-07-16T07:49:19Z")

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Well. Shit!

I may have undone a multitude of lifetime memories. Seems like a lifetime.

I may have unfixed realities.

I compromised my only real link to anyplace other than here in my house.  
I crossed a line.

Now. What do I do?  
I don’t think I can fix this.

Please, please some one help me.  
The Dope always comes thru for me.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 7:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/2 "2021-07-16T07:51:44Z")

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I’m sorry, Zo

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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 7:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/3 "2021-07-16T07:58:59Z")

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**Beck** , what’s going on?

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 8:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/4 "2021-07-16T08:10:26Z")

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Hey, @ Spoons.  
I’m sending a PM

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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 8:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/5 "2021-07-16T08:15:08Z")

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I’ll look forward to it, **Beck**.

In the meantime, I’m thinking “Unfixed Realities” would make a great band name. 🙂

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 8:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/6 "2021-07-16T08:17:11Z")

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You always help.

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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 8:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/7 "2021-07-16T08:31:37Z")

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And I’m always glad to. 🙂

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**Author:** ![LH75](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lh75/32/4438_2.png) [@LH75](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LH75)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 11:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/8 "2021-07-16T11:38:53Z")

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We have your back. {{{Beck}}}

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/9 "2021-07-16T17:01:10Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I may have undone a multitude of lifetime memories.

> And they all pretend they’re orphans and their memory’s like a train.  
> You can see it getting smaller as it pulls away.  
> And the things you can’t remember tell the things you can’t forget.  
> That history puts a saint in every dream

**Tom Waits** , _Time_

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 10:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/10 "2021-07-16T22:42:05Z")

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‘Undone’ is how I felt. It may have been a physical kinda of undone.  
I had my staples out and my incision wasn’t quite ready.  
I had to have it restitched yesterday.  
Man that was kinda horrifying.

I was super over medicated late last night. I don’t process pain meds like most people.

Sorry if, I once again, scared and upset people. I’m trying to not do that. It’s just so hard.

Thx, guys. Y’all always help me.  
Love and hugs to all❤️

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**Author:** ![kenobi\_65](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kenobi_65/32/13178_2.png) [@kenobi\_65](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kenobi_65)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 10:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/11 "2021-07-16T22:48:23Z")

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_hugs_

Apologies and sincerity are a way to start. Sometimes things _can_ be repaired.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 16, 2021, 10:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/12 "2021-07-16T22:57:43Z")

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You’re so right.  
It seems my bad feeling was a product of my own making.  
It wasn’t nearly as bad as I thought.  
The lil’wrekker has forgiven me. In fact she knew, as I should have, it was the meds talking.  
She’s such a good girl.

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**Author:** ![China\_Guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/779978/32.png) [@China\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/China_Guy)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2021, 5:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/13 "2021-07-17T05:00:38Z")

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Well, at least, I trust the meds were enjoyable even if they were talking a load of BS. 🤣

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**Author:** ![CorpusNeptune](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/corpusneptune/32/17561_2.png) [@CorpusNeptune](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/CorpusNeptune)\
**Post date:** [July 17, 2021, 5:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/14 "2021-07-17T05:12:33Z")

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Glad things worked out, Beck. Sending virtual hugs from the Midwest! 💙

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2021, 3:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/15 "2021-07-18T03:33:19Z")

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Try. You peeps are so nice.

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**Author:** ![BippityBoppityBoo](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bippityboppityboo/32/5745_2.png) [@BippityBoppityBoo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BippityBoppityBoo)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2021, 3:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/16 "2021-07-18T03:34:17Z")

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Some more {{{{{{{ }}}}}}} from da Midwest.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2021, 3:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/17 "2021-07-18T03:36:32Z")

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TY sweetie.  
I think me ,you, @nelliebly and @VOW are long lost quadruplets separated at birth

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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2021, 3:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/18 "2021-07-18T03:45:37Z")

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_Beck, I hear you calling,_  
_But I can’t make a post right now,_  
_Me and my cats are playing,_  
_Before they get their cold Cat Chow._

_Just a few more minutes,_  
_Before I send a post to you,_  
_But now my cats are meowing,_  
_Oh Beck, what can I do?_

_Beck, what can I do?_

😉

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2021, 3:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/19 "2021-07-18T03:56:29Z")

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Nice!  
I like it!

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**Author:** ![Spoons](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/spoons/32/3141_2.png) [@Spoons](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Spoons)\
**Post date:** [July 18, 2021, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bad-bad-bad/946622/20 "2021-07-18T03:59:59Z")

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_Beck, I know you’re reading,_  
_And I hope it’ll be all right,_  
_If me and my cats just keep playing,_  
_All night…_

Hope it made you smile, Beck. 🙂

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