# Barney Frank criticism of Democratic Party

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811>\
**Category:** Politics & Elections\
**Created:** [May 5, 2026, 6:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811 "2026-05-05T18:36:40Z")\
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**Author:** ![Sherrerd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sherrerd/32/8_2.png) [@Sherrerd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sherrerd)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2026, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/221 "2026-05-13T21:32:27Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> Pointing out that another poster is unable to maintain a cosistent position from one post to another is, I think, a germane observation in any debate.

Oh, I agree with that. I just think you utterly failed to make that case.

If you want to do so, you should use my _actual_ words–not paraphrases which distort my words. Paraphrasing to make it seem as though I said something I didn’t does not create an argument. It creates only a bullying (due to your position) frame-up.

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**Author:** ![Sherrerd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sherrerd/32/8_2.png) [@Sherrerd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sherrerd)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2026, 9:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/222 "2026-05-13T21:35:54Z")

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> [@PhillyGuy](#):
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> I wonder if it could go the other way. Maybe some Democrats tempted by the Greens would vote for a woman and/or person of color even if they sounded a bit like Barney Frank. Do I more than wonder? No, because how candidate identity helps or hurts is utterly impossible to know.

That’s all true.

But one pattern that seems to hold is: voters prefer the candidate that seems _stronger_. More confident.

(Also: taller. Which is certainly not something that speaks well for us.)

Harris didn’t come across as ‘weak’ in any respect, to me anyway. But I do wonder what might have happened had Donald been her exact height, instead of (with his lifts) over 6 feet tall.

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2026, 9:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/223 "2026-05-13T21:37:15Z")

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> [@Miller](#):
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> No, it wouldn’t. Using double quotes to paraphrase another poster’s argument is allowed, for mods and non-mods alike. What’s not allowed is using the _quote function_ to paraphrase another poster.
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> And I stand by my paraphrase of your posts.

Close, that last sentence is what doesn’t make it a rule violation,

> **Quoting.** Falsely attributing a quote to another SDMB user, or modifying another’s post in order to cast him/her in a bad light, is grounds for revocation of your posting privileges. We allow parody quotes under certain conditions. Here are the permissible options:
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> [SDMB rules 9/12/2023](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/sdmb-rules-9-12-2023/990013/1)

Where, IMHO, parody is more “offensive” than a paraphrase ever could be.  
And you paraphrased while providing direct quotes making it very easy to see if you were overstating the position.

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**Author:** ![Miller](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/miller/32/481_2.png) [@Miller](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Miller)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2026, 9:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/224 "2026-05-13T21:43:17Z")

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> [@Sherrerd](#):
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> If you want to do so, you should use my _actual_ words–not paraphrases which distort my words.

I did. Every paraphrase was preceded by a direct quote from one of your posts.

You may, at your own leisure, point out where any of my paraphrases were materially incorrect.

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**Author:** ![ParallelLines](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/parallellines/32/3575_2.png) [@ParallelLines](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ParallelLines)\
**Post date:** [May 13, 2026, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/225 "2026-05-13T22:23:24Z")

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**Moderating:**

If you feel anyone posting has violated the rules, FLAG it so a forum moderator can review - and a thank you to the poster who did for this discussion. @Sherrerd, that would have been the better route than discussing it in P&E. As such, I’m tabling the discussion _here_ where it’s a hijack AND Jr. Modding. I suggest you open an ATMB thread if you want to discuss it further.

To all, please do not address these points _here_, I’ll document the approximate start with a note as well.

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**Author:** ![DrDeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/b487fb/32.png) [@DrDeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DrDeth)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 12:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/226 "2026-05-14T00:58:14Z")

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> [@Dr.Drake](#):
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> What other jobs should be denied to people because of their ethnicity, orientation, or fashion sense?
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> The voters are always going to have an aggregate preference for whatever groups are socially prestigious, and a bias against women, minorities, and frumpy-looking people. The frumps and friends are perfectly well aware of this, and generally work pretty hard to compensate for it. Deciding right out the gate that only a white male can win isn’t necessarily as straightforward as you are suggesting, and also anathema to what we ought to stand for as a people.

Very solid post.

> [@Sherrerd](#):
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> I fear that’s correct. Democrats SHOULD use the clip of Donald saying “I don’t think about Americans’ financial situation.” But he’s made similar ‘I don’t care about you’ comments in the past, and they haven’t hurt him with his base.

We dont care about his deplorable base. 🙀

> [@Sherrerd](#):
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> Yes, the comment might bother some independents, and so should be widely broadcast by Democrats. But it’s not going to change the numbers much, I suspect.

Maybe, let us hope.

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**Author:** ![Sherrerd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sherrerd/32/8_2.png) [@Sherrerd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sherrerd)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/227 "2026-05-14T21:32:24Z")

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> [@DrDeth](#):
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> Maybe, let us hope.

It’s possible that the _ **combination** _ of his comment-of-indifference-to-Americans’-welfare, added to the very visible results of that indifference—the gas prices, the food prices, the ending of Medicaid in blue states\*, etc. etc.—might actually get through to some of the Base. The independents will surely be noticing how Donald’s self-absorption is harming us all. The base may be _starting_ to have difficulty in lalala-ing it away.

\*Medicaid:

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> … Vance said that the administration is also notifying all 50 states that it could freeze funding to their Medicaid Fraud Control Units “if they do not aggressively prosecute Medicaid fraud.” The units, which exist in each state, investigate and prosecute Medicaid provider fraud. “We are going to turn off the money that goes to these anti-fraud units,” he said, if they fail to do their job.
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> He also warned, “And if we continue to find problems, we can turn off other resources within their state Medicaid programs as well.”
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> “Now, we have red states and blue states that go after fraud aggressively. **But we also unfortunately have some states — mostly blue states, unfortunately** — that do not take Medicaid fraud very seriously,” the vice president said. …

> **[Vance announces suspension of $1.3 billion in Medicaid payments to California](https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/white-house/vance-announces-suspension-medicaid-payments-california-fraud-rcna344988)**
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> The Trump administration is also warning all 50 states that it could freeze funding for their Medicaid fraud units unless they investigate and prosecute fraud by providers.

my bolding in the quote

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**Author:** ![Velocity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/velocity/32/18006_2.png) [@Velocity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Velocity)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 9:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/228 "2026-05-14T21:46:39Z")

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I recall someone writing somewhere that, “Democrats are more interested in being the opposition party and criticizing the bigots in power, than in getting power itself.”

While a broad-brush statement, I think it does encapsulate a lot of the party and its strategy. The party would rather take a particular approach, feel good , and lose to the (R) bigots in elections, than change tactics a bit, win, and topple the bigots and take power to enact change.

And typically, a lot of Ds then respond by claiming that changing tactics would not lead to winning, which is meant to assuage pain and make them feel better about not having changed.

It’s kind of like Jerry Jones syndrome: _I want to win, but only if winning is done my way._

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**Author:** ![bump](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7c8e57/32.png) [@bump](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bump)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 9:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/229 "2026-05-14T21:58:36Z")

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While I think that there’s no reasonable or rational reason a woman or a POC can’t run for any office they choose, and should be just as electable as anyone else, that’s regrettably not how it works in today’s United States.

Look at Kamala Harris. The general consensus seems to be that two things doomed her. One, many voters felt like there was a cover-up going on with how bad-off Biden was, and that Harris was thrust upon them at the last second once the cover up was exposed. And two, she was a woman, and a person of color.

That second one unfortunately was a big deal to a lot of people, just like Barack Obama being a black man was a big negative deal to many people. Just like I suspect Pete Buttigieg’s sexuality will be a huge deal for many if he runs for national office again.

So with that in mind, it’s prudent, if not politically correct to not feed ther prejudices. I mean, I _love_ Colin Allred as a candidate for anything, but the color of his skin hinders him in elections around here. I think Jasmine Crockett’s outspokenness played into “sassy black woman” stereotypes that hurt her performance in the primary vs. Talarico.

Speaking of Talarico… he’s a perfect example of what I’m talking about- he’s smart, he’s competent, and he doesn’t give the other side hardly any ammunition to attack him with. He’s got a better chance than Beto O’Rourke did last time around, and likely because he’s not playing into their hands.

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**Author:** ![Der\_Trihs](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/der_trihs/32/233_2.png) [@Der\_Trihs](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Der_Trihs)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/230 "2026-05-14T22:02:26Z")

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> [@PhillyGuy](#):
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> When swing voters hear that a big reason Democrats nominated a white male Christian instead of Warnock or AOC will have been because Democrats think swing voters are bigots, said swing voters will be rightly insulted.

That’s just an argument that the Democrats should lie. Because those people _are_ bigots, that’s why it matters if the candidate isn’t a white male. The fact that they don’t like to hear the truth doesn’t change it.

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**Author:** ![bobot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bobot/32/21622_2.png) [@bobot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobot)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 10:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/231 "2026-05-14T22:05:39Z")

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If you believe that running a Black or gay candidate is “feeding” the prejudice of a bigot, then I have nothing more to say in response to you.

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**Author:** ![iiandyiiii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/iiandyiiii/32/7924_2.png) [@iiandyiiii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/iiandyiiii)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 10:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/232 "2026-05-14T22:12:38Z")

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Who is “the party” you’re speaking of? Democratic leaders in Congress? Democratic voters? The national committee? And who says “changing tactics would not lead to winning”?

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**Author:** ![Velocity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/velocity/32/18006_2.png) [@Velocity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Velocity)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/233 "2026-05-14T22:21:56Z")

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I think what he means is more that running a black or gay candidate means a lower chance of winning, because it gives bigots a better target to aim at. Running a white straight male like Talarico makes it harder for bigots to get ammo.

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**Author:** ![bobot](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bobot/32/21622_2.png) [@bobot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bobot)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 10:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/234 "2026-05-14T22:24:31Z")

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I think what he means requires no translation.

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**Author:** ![crowmanyclouds](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/crowmanyclouds/32/19884_2.png) [@crowmanyclouds](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/crowmanyclouds)\
**Post date:** [May 14, 2026, 10:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/235 "2026-05-14T22:33:09Z")

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I too long for a smart, competent, White, straight, cis, he/him Christian that doesn’t give the other side any ammunition to attack him with.  
If only to update this,  
‘Well, I think we may have lost the south for your lifetime – and mine.’ LBJ  
to this,  
‘Well, I think we may have lost the moderates for your lifetime – and mine.’

You can’t look at all the progress that was made in the 60s and the 70s, by Democrats, that’s currently being dismantled, or has already been dismantled, and continue to say ‘Those damned Democrats, if only they would do something to save us, from us…’

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**Author:** ![PhillyGuy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ed655f/32.png) [@PhillyGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PhillyGuy)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 12:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/236 "2026-05-15T00:11:02Z")

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> [@bump](#):
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> Look at Kamala Harris.

The presidential sample size is too small to be meaningful.

This is from the AFAIK reliable [Political Parity NGO](https://www.politicalparity.org/research/where-women-win/?utm_source=chatgpt.com):

> [@](#):
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> In the general elections since 2008, Democratic women win 52% of their races while Republican women win 44% of theirs.

I’ve seen claims that somehow the presidency is different from all other elected offices. That is implausible to me. But it there was a difference, couldn’t it be that progressives will be more interested to vote for a minority and/or female for president than for lower offices?

The Barney Frank significance is that whomever the Democrats nominate in 2028 is liable to say something, especially after the political conventions, along Barney Frank lines, that will rub strongly pro-trans Democrats the wrong way. If the candidate is other than a while male, might they not get a greater chance for forgiveness from the base?

Of course I am not really arguing for an ethnic or gender test for office. I’m only saying how little it makes sense to avoid candidates based on race or gender (or religion).

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**Author:** ![bump](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7c8e57/32.png) [@bump](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bump)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 3:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/237 "2026-05-15T03:30:19Z")

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That’s exactly what I’m talking about. Thank you!

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**Author:** ![Dr.Drake](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ad7895/32.png) [@Dr.Drake](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Drake)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 3:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/238 "2026-05-15T03:42:10Z")

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So, what you’re saying then is that it’s strategically wise to cater to bigots.

Can anyone in the class explain to **bump** why this is not a good idea?

(I’ll try, but I don’t know if I’ll do it well.)

One, this is an anxiety-driven assertion, not an evidence-driven one. You don’t KNOW that the electorate prefers white men in any given specific race, though you do know they prefer them in general because racism and sexism. But you can’t extrapolate from the general to the specific here.

Two, doing the wrong thing because you want to win is still doing the wrong thing. Let’s say you run a medical clinic, one of several in town, and you know some townspeople are racist. Would you refuse to hire Black staff because you suspected some customers would then patronize the all-white clinic across the street? That decision might make economic sense, but it would still be morally and ethically wrong (as well as illegal). You can’t just say “but it’s important!” and set your ethics aside.

I feel like there are better reasons than these two, but I’m hard pressed to articulate them.

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**Author:** ![RitterSport](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rittersport/32/6326_2.png) [@RitterSport](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RitterSport)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 5:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/239 "2026-05-15T05:53:51Z")

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Kamala Harris lost in an election where incumbents, or incumbent parties were losing all over the place. I wish the Democrats would stop beating themselves up over that. Liberal, conservative, didn’t matter – in Western democracies, incumbent parties took a bath due to inflation. If anything, the Dems _outperformed_ in the House during that election.

Hilary Clinton, notably not a straight white male, won the popular vote, after two decades of hate from the Republicans and an October surprise from Comey.

God, this place is like a parody site, constantly talking about the Dems in disarray.

If the Dems start catering to bigots, as Barney Frank suggests, they may as well hang it up, because that really is a recipe for disaster. If you want to be a bigot, there’s already a party for you. I agree with others above (and Mamdani) – address any questions about transgender folks directly (something like, “I think all Americans deserve equal rights and respect”) and change the subject to the economy, inflation, whatever. Don’t get bogged down in minutiae of high school girls sports or whatever.

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**Author:** ![Banquet\_Bear](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/banquet_bear/32/373_2.png) [@Banquet\_Bear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Banquet_Bear)\
**Post date:** [May 15, 2026, 8:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/barney-frank-criticism-of-democratic-party/1029811/240 "2026-05-15T08:55:19Z")

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> [@RitterSport](#):
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> I agree with others above (and Mamdani) – address any questions about transgender folks directly (something like, “I think all Americans deserve equal rights and respect”) and change the subject to the economy, inflation, whatever. Don’t get bogged down in minutiae of high school girls sports or whatever.

…I don’t think this works.

This is exactly what the Democrats are doing now. “Talking point, then pivot.”

So if they get asked “what do you think about school girls sports?”

They answer, “I think all Americans deserve equal rights and respect,” and then try to change the subject.

But what do they actually think about school girls’ sports? What’s the policy here?

This is exactly what they did in the last election on any controversial topic they wanted to avoid. And that’s what it looked like. They were hiding something. Which was _true_.

Mamdani and Polanski in the UK and Donald Trump all have the same thing in common. They don’t try and hide from the issues. They call it as they see it. They speak plainly.

And when the opposition has spent 200 million on anti-trans propaganda, the response shouldn’t be “I think all Americans deserve equal rights and respect…now how about the prices of bread?”

This isn’t “fighting back”. This is conceding ground. You can’t fight what is happening in sports if you stay silent on the issue. Because, as I said upthread you’ve got sports, you’ve got bathrooms and you’ve got healthcare. They are attacking all of them. But if sports falls…then they move to the next one on the list. So what will they say when it comes to bathrooms? Talk about the price of fish?

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