# Beck is .... Oh heck just talk to me ...bad bad bad or otherwise. I'm pitiful

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [March 27, 2021, 8:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836 "2021-03-27T08:45:22Z")\
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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 8:45am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/1 "2021-03-27T08:45:22Z")

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I need LOVE ❤❤❤❤

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**Author:** ![GreenWyvern](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/greenwyvern/32/2834_2.png) [@GreenWyvern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreenWyvern)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 9:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/2 "2021-03-27T09:06:10Z")

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I wish there was something I could say to help.

I know from experience that things can seem worse than they really are in the early hours of the morning. Our perception changes, but we just have to know that this happens, and that the reality is not as bad as it may seem at the moment.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 9:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/3 "2021-03-27T09:11:50Z")

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TY…  
You are very nice, greenie.

No, you’re not a dog treat.

I’m ok. Just being pitiful.

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**Author:** ![GreenWyvern](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/greenwyvern/32/2834_2.png) [@GreenWyvern](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreenWyvern)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 9:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/4 "2021-03-27T09:23:15Z")

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I would play a computer game, or do an [online jigsaw puzzle](https://www.jigidi.com/), or read a book to distract myself. But that’s just me.

Do something to absorb your attention in something else for a while, and you’ll start to feel better.

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**Author:** ![mbh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a6a055/32.png) [@mbh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mbh)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 9:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/5 "2021-03-27T09:33:31Z")

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Hang in there. This, too, shall pass.

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**Author:** ![FairyChatMom](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fairychatmom/32/21906_2.png) [@FairyChatMom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FairyChatMom)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 11:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/6 "2021-03-27T11:51:17Z")

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[Here.](https://tenor.com/view/cute-bunny-rabbit-heart-hug-gif-17186007) For you!

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**Author:** ![kayaker](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kayaker/32/441_2.png) [@kayaker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kayaker)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 12:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/7 "2021-03-27T12:29:40Z")

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[[Album] Rocco after a bath ![](https://i.imgur.com/PqDsXw9.jpeg?fb "Rocco after a bath") ](https://imgur.com/gallery/2eXpvgl)

Rocco after a bath. ❤

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**Author:** ![VOW](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/vow/32/3043_2.png) [@VOW](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VOW)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/8 "2021-03-27T15:18:52Z")

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I love you, Bekkers bay-bee!

I use the coloring app “Happy Color” to distract me when my neck is on the warpath, and the pain meds haven’t kicked in yet. There are some really GOOFY pictures to color there!

And if you have a teeny crush on Chris Pine of Captain Kirk fame, Happy Color has a category featuring Wonder Woman 85. \<\>

~VOW

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**Author:** ![kenobi\_65](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kenobi_65/32/13178_2.png) [@kenobi\_65](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kenobi_65)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/9 "2021-03-27T15:36:17Z")

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Sending lots of positive energy and good thoughts your way, my friend. \<3

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**Author:** ![P-man](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/p-man/32/3606_2.png) [@P-man](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/P-man)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 9:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/10 "2021-03-27T21:32:57Z")

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I won’t worry until you stop being bad.

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**Author:** ![pjd](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pjd/32/3009_2.png) [@pjd](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pjd)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 9:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/11 "2021-03-27T21:42:58Z")

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Ok, you asked for it …  
😘

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**Author:** ![carnut](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/carnut/32/3531_2.png) [@carnut](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/carnut)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 10:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/12 "2021-03-27T22:21:22Z")

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Beck, it’s hard to help from here but I’ll try. I would no longer be checking into this place without you. And I need to check in here to stay sane. If I could, I’d get in my car and drive down to see you. I’d have to stop to work a car race at a track in Oklahoma first because I’d be in big trouble if I didn’t. But hey, small stuff.

I think you are the bomb! 🤩

I second VOW’s recommendation for a coloring app. That, and a couple of other mindless game apps really help me when I’m having trouble with reality.

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**Author:** ![DesertDog](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/desertdog/32/11503_2.png) [@DesertDog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DesertDog)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 10:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/13 "2021-03-27T22:23:58Z")

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Hope this helps.  
[https://c8.alamy.com/comp/C96CMY/family-of-six-kittens-in-their-own-basket-C96CMY.jpg](https://c8.alamy.com/comp/C96CMY/family-of-six-kittens-in-their-own-basket-C96CMY.jpg)

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 10:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/14 "2021-03-27T22:35:42Z")

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Oh @carnut that’s very sweet.  
BTW there’s a stock car raceway close to me.  
Very redneck-y.  
But fun.

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**Author:** ![wolfpup](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wolfpup/32/10618_2.png) [@wolfpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wolfpup)\
**Post date:** [March 27, 2021, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/15 "2021-03-27T22:59:05Z")

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{{{{Becks}}}} Much love from the pupper here. ❤ ❤

I suggest you give big hugs to Bayliss. He’s a Very Good Boy and will give hugs back, in his own way. There’s a reason he was sent to you by Fate.

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**Author:** ![dropzone](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dropzone/32/7515_2.png) [@dropzone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dropzone)\
**Post date:** [March 28, 2021, 12:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/16 "2021-03-28T00:40:19Z")

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[changing my name to Bayliss]

Woof!

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**Author:** ![River\_Hippie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/river_hippie/32/26_2.png) [@River\_Hippie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/River_Hippie)\
**Post date:** [March 28, 2021, 1:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/17 "2021-03-28T01:20:25Z")

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Sending good thoughts, tough it out if possible.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [March 28, 2021, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/18 "2021-03-28T01:36:50Z")

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You guys!  
I’m feeling better.  
I’m amazed how much energy I have after only 2 sessions of dialysis.  
I’ll not be able to travel without extensive pre-planning. But that’s ok.

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**Author:** ![Beckdawrek](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/beckdawrek/32/3647_2.png) [@Beckdawrek](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Beckdawrek)\
**Post date:** [March 28, 2021, 1:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/19 "2021-03-28T01:38:35Z")

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I gardened a bit today. Got chigger bit. Itchy but happy.  
I cooked with Mid-daugter and helped clean up and I’m not even tired.  
Whoo-hoo!!

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**Author:** ![LSLGuy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lslguy/32/5813_2.png) [@LSLGuy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LSLGuy)\
**Post date:** [March 28, 2021, 2:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/beck-is-oh-heck-just-talk-to-me-bad-bad-bad-or-otherwise-im-pitiful/938836/20 "2021-03-28T02:11:42Z")

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> [@Beckdawrek](#):
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> I’m amazed how much energy I have after only 2 sessions of dialysis.

This is huge. Not much fun, but as or more important than eating, sleeping, & pooping. Skip any of the 4 and pretty quick you won’t be much good to anyone, least of all yourself.

Whoo-hoo indeed. Sounds like a busy day for a lady of comparative leisure like you should be becoming. Go Beck. We’re all pulling for you!

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