# Best Breakup Songs of All Time

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521>\
**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [November 24, 2014, 8:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521 "2014-11-24T20:52:42Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 19\
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**Author:** ![Finagle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/b19c9b/32.png) [@Finagle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Finagle)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2014, 6:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/41 "2014-11-25T18:02:55Z")

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> [@dasmoocher](#):
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> _[Wicked Game](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wicked_Game)_ by Chris Isaak

Is this one a breakup song? I alway thought it was a You’re So Damn Sexy That I’m Falling in Love With You Against My Better Judgement song.  
Anyway, my contributions are

Boots of Spanish Leather by Dylan

and

Ain’t Life a Brook by Ferron

“Just when I think life’s a polished stone,  
You give me a long drawn look,  
I know pretty soon you’ll be leaving our home”

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**Post date:** [November 25, 2014, 6:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/42 "2014-11-25T18:22:45Z")

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Depends on what you wish to express about the breakup, really.

Bonnie Raitt’s “I can’t Make You Love Me” is amazing, of course.

This is the song I actually sent to my ex via email when I realized we were truly over. It was my genuine feeling. Still is, despite everything, for which I’m eternally grateful.

[“I Wish You Love” - Rachel Yamagata version.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FjTd8Hzim9I)

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**Author:** ![gigi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a587f6/32.png) [@gigi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gigi)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2014, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/43 "2014-11-25T19:01:10Z")

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> [@Stoid](#):
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> Depends on what you wish to express about the breakup, really.
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> Bonnie Raitt’s “I can’t Make You Love Me” is amazing, of course.

Hootie and the Blowfish **Goodbye** is another sad one.

> **[Hootie & The Blowfish - Goodbye Lyrics | AZLyrics.com](https://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/hootietheblowfish/goodbye.html)**
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> Hootie & The Blowfish "Goodbye": Tomorrow used to be a day away Now love is gone and you're into someone far away. I never thought...

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**Author:** ![Kimble](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/kimble/32/19185_2.png) [@Kimble](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kimble)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2014, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/44 "2014-11-25T21:18:23Z")

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On the gutwrenching side of things, UK #1 “Dry Your Eyes” by The Streets ([video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TpyQi3SEuuY)) ([lyrics](http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/streets/dryyoureyes.html)). Nominally hip-hop, this is more like spoken word over acoustic guitars and strings.

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**Post date:** [November 25, 2014, 10:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/45 "2014-11-25T22:15:28Z")

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What? No _ **Somebody that I Used to Know** _? 🙂

I like _ **Black** _, by Pearl Jam.

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**Author:** ![TonySinclair](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/49beb7/32.png) [@TonySinclair](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TonySinclair)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2014, 11:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/46 "2014-11-25T23:12:30Z")

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> [@F.U.Shakespeare](#):
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> [Long Long Time](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKAtM9xS-fA) (Linda Ronstadt)

Ooh! Ooh! How could I forget _[Different Drum](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3Nq48sHF8M)_???

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 12:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/47 "2014-11-26T00:49:35Z")

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Raul Malo, The Mavericks, [I Don’t Care If You Love Me Anymore](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKoDt2U_3GY)  
Neil Sedaka [Breakin’ Up Is Hard To Do](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbad22CKlB4)  
Eric Clapton [Promises](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5SyDNiufo0)  
Everly Brothers [Bye Bye Love](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LRyrWN-fftE)  
Righteous Brothers [You’ve lost that loving feeling](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xEkB-VQviLI)

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/48 "2014-11-26T00:57:31Z")

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[Cruel You](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kxe-ZXrgRqY) by The Shoes.

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 12:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/49 "2014-11-26T00:59:33Z")

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> [@Alma](#):
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> Bob Mould, [The Last Night](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nw94s6dsgVs)

Or pretty much any other song he’s written since '87.

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 1:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/50 "2014-11-26T01:53:24Z")

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A couple by Todd R: _The Last Ride_ and _It Wouldn’t Have Made Any Difference_.

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 2:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/51 "2014-11-26T02:13:15Z")

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Another sad one, **Someone Like You** by Adele.

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**Author:** ![dasmoocher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/dbc845/32.png) [@dasmoocher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dasmoocher)\
**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/52 "2014-11-26T02:17:01Z")

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> [@Finagle](#):
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> Is this one a breakup song? I alway thought it was a You’re So Damn Sexy That I’m Falling in Love With You Against My Better Judgement song.

It was for me. And it has [these lyrics](http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/chrisisaak/wickedgame.html): “What a wicked thing to say, you never felt this way” and “And I never dreamed that I’d lose somebody like you,”.

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 3:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/53 "2014-11-26T03:21:11Z")

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No mention of “Positively Fourth Street” by Bob Dylan?

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 3:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/54 "2014-11-26T03:51:13Z")

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Paul Simon, _50 Ways to Leave Your Lover_

Pretty somber, really.

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 3:51am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/55 "2014-11-26T03:51:32Z")

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Clapton/Bonnamossa [Further On Up The Road](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0u03h73ClZ8)

The Clapton version helped me get through the big breakup in my life.

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 3:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/56 "2014-11-26T03:57:48Z")

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Heh,…I just started a thread for this one.

[The Salt In My Tears by Martin Briley](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=netMRfWRTTY)

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 4:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/57 "2014-11-26T04:07:25Z")

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Here’s a favorite break up song of mine at the moment: Joshua Radin’s [Winter](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G_ehjKigmlw).

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 5:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/58 "2014-11-26T05:23:51Z")

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Don’t Think Twice, by Bob Dylan

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**Post date:** [November 26, 2014, 6:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-breakup-songs-of-all-time/705521/59 "2014-11-26T06:59:23Z")

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Everything About You by Ugly Kid Joe!

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