# Best Falling-out-of-love songs

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [July 24, 2012, 8:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282 "2012-07-24T20:57:48Z")\
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**Post date:** [July 26, 2012, 11:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/61 "2012-07-26T23:41:31Z")

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Just thought of another:  
Throwing It All Away, Genesis

“Late at night when you call my name  
The only sound you’ll hear  
Is the sound of your voice calling  
Calling out to me”

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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [July 27, 2012, 1:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/62 "2012-07-27T01:33:16Z")

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> [@Nzinga\_Seated](#):
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> Hmm. Methinks he doth protest too much with that one.

I assume they’re in the early stages after breaking up, when he’s still smarting pretty badly and trying to pretend he isn’t. 🙂

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**Post date:** [July 27, 2012, 2:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/63 "2012-07-27T02:08:56Z")

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[Morning Sky](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bAAZ1Exv6tI) - Dan Fogelberg.

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**Post date:** [July 27, 2012, 2:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/64 "2012-07-27T02:15:00Z")

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> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#):
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> I assume they’re in the early stages after breaking up, when he’s still smarting pretty badly and trying to pretend he isn’t. 🙂

Yeah. Agreed. Loved that song, and some of its more creative covers.

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**Post date:** [July 27, 2012, 2:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/65 "2012-07-27T02:19:09Z")

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Mayer Hawthorne’s _I Can’t Go For That_ might apply. (Tho more “don’t” fall in love than “falling” out of love, it is passively hostile. :))

Other than that, whatever George Clooney sings in the car.

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**Post date:** [July 27, 2012, 4:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/66 "2012-07-27T04:00:22Z")

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[So Cruel](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6snI72LGfP4)– U2

[Please Me Like You Want To](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdgT7PjivT4)– Ben Harper

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**Post date:** [July 28, 2012, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/67 "2012-07-28T23:24:39Z")

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“Don’t Speak” by No Doubt

“Sick of You” by Iggy Pop

“My Girlfriend’s Dead” by The Vandals

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**Post date:** [July 29, 2012, 12:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/68 "2012-07-29T00:57:29Z")

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> [@Peter\_Morris](#):
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> Also, the sentiment should express hostility, contempt, or that he **no longer gives a damn about his former partner**.

The song that immediately came to mind:

[Jo Dee Messina - My Give A Damn’s Busted](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DFG9dwolo3Q)

ETA: She had another good one:

[Bye Bye](http://youtu.be/bNOUNFNYAmA)

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**Post date:** [July 29, 2012, 1:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/69 "2012-07-29T01:15:35Z")

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If you could read my mind = Gordon Lightfoot

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**Post date:** [July 29, 2012, 3:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-falling-out-of-love-songs/629282/70 "2012-07-29T03:50:03Z")

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[“I Want You to Die,” Storm Large.

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> This is a love song. I know everyone thinks it’s all about killing…But really the essence of love is violence and revenge. The better the love, the deeper the hate when it’s over.

]([http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjFrtmvIh\_g](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjFrtmvIh_g))

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