# Best Songs To Have Sex To

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [August 15, 2003, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440 "2003-08-15T18:48:50Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 4:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/21 "2003-08-16T04:26:08Z")

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Dammit, I forgot Prince - Sexy Motherf\*\*\*\*\*, I Wanna Melt With U

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**Author:** ![Roadwalker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e19b73/32.png) [@Roadwalker](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Roadwalker)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 4:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/22 "2003-08-16T04:34:21Z")

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> Douglas Adams talks at length in _So Long, And Thanks For All the Fish_ about some Dire Straits album, I’ve always wondered which one that was. \*\*

Adams is quotes as saying the song is _Tunnel of Love_

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**Author:** ![Ranchoth](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ranchoth/32/1066_2.png) [@Ranchoth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ranchoth)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 5:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/23 "2003-08-16T05:29:41Z")

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Make that a second on _Carmina Burana_…although I’d suggest “Tempus es iocundum” rather than the title track.

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**Author:** ![Mudshark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f04885/32.png) [@Mudshark](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Mudshark)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 5:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/24 "2003-08-16T05:37:48Z")

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**Orange Skinner** and I made this list a while back.

1. Dogs - Pink Floyd
2. Rejoyce - Jefferson Airplane
3. Echoes - Pink Floyd
4. Nights in White Satin - Moody Blues
5. Playground Love - Air  
6.\_ Long, Long, Long - The Beatles
6. All of My Love - Led Zepplein
7. Don’t Let Me Down - The Beatles
8. Strawberry Fields Forever - The Beatles
9. Brain Damage/Eclipse - Pink Floyd
10. Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Part One) - Pink Floyd

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**Author:** ![MadPoet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8c91f0/32.png) [@MadPoet](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MadPoet)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 5:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/25 "2003-08-16T05:44:59Z")

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> Douglas Adams talks at length in So Long, And Thanks For All the Fish about some Dire Straits album, I’ve always wondered which one that was.

Yah, it was Tunnel of Love off the Making Movies album, which should make this list in its entirety, as should almost anything Mark Knopfler has ever touched.

The Pink Floyd album “Wish You Were Here” works well, also.

Or Dead Can Dance, maybe Towards the Within?

I’m out of shape, so I like slower music.

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**Author:** ![Zoe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/a4c791/32.png) [@Zoe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zoe)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 5:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/26 "2003-08-16T05:50:13Z")

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John Williams’s rendition of _Dixie_ followed by John Phillip Sousa’s _Stars and Stripes Forever_.

On alternate Thursdays: _the 1812 Overture_

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/27 "2003-08-16T05:54:49Z")

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Again, albums, not songs, but we’ve had good luck with some of Tori Amos’s stuff (the more bass- and loop-heavy material, like _From the Choirgirl Hotel_) and Radiohead’s _The Bends_.

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 6:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/28 "2003-08-16T06:05:54Z")

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The CD is _Making Movies_, eh? I’ll be at the record store tomorrow. 😉

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**Author:** ![BornOfStardust](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/bc8723/32.png) [@BornOfStardust](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BornOfStardust)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 6:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/29 "2003-08-16T06:07:19Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Marley23 \*  
> \*\*Again, albums, not songs, but we’ve had good luck with some of Tori Amos’s stuff (the more bass- and loop-heavy material, like _From the Choirgirl Hotel_) and Radiohead’s _The Bends_. \*\*

Mmmmmmmmmhm. 😃 Can’t get much better than _From the Choirgirl Hotel_, IMHO–driving, sensual beats, rich instrumentation, Tori’s amazingly sexy voice. And _The Bends_ is a good ANY-time album really.

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**Author:** ![Olive\_The\_Other\_Reindeer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/f9ae1b/32.png) [@Olive\_The\_Other\_Reindeer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Olive_The_Other_Reindeer)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 1:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/30 "2003-08-16T13:31:02Z")

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Bizet’s “Carmen” - everytime I hear it, I think of Duddley Moore trying to do it with Bo Dereck in “10”. Puts me in the mood, and it’s exactly the right ‘beat’

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**Author:** ![mouthbreather](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a698b9/32.png) [@mouthbreather](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mouthbreather)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 1:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/31 "2003-08-16T13:42:28Z")

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Ween’s “Spinal Meningitis (got me down)”

Sexxayy.  
OK, seriously?

A third vote for Mezzanine.  
PJ Harvey’s To Bring you my Love.  
My Bloody Valentine’s Loveless  
Dead Can Dance’s Spiritchaser

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**Author:** ![robgruver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/13edae/32.png) [@robgruver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/robgruver)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 1:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/32 "2003-08-16T13:46:51Z")

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I once had sex to Type O Negative’s _Bloody Kisses_.

That was intense.

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**Author:** ![Rashak\_Mani](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ea666f/32.png) [@Rashak\_Mani](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rashak_Mani)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 1:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/33 "2003-08-16T13:49:26Z")

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Loreena McKennit… most celtic music is pretty good.

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**Author:** ![handy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b5a626/32.png) [@handy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handy)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 3:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/34 "2003-08-16T15:42:28Z")

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I don’t think that I have ever used music; but exactly how does this work & why would it be better than say listening to your partner?

I suppose one would not choose “I  
Heard it through the grapevine” ?

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**Author:** ![Insomnomad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/e68b1a/32.png) [@Insomnomad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Insomnomad)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 4:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/35 "2003-08-16T16:22:47Z")

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_I Want You (She’s So Heavy)_ by the Beatles.

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**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 4:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/36 "2003-08-16T16:39:14Z")

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\*In the Evening \*  
Led Zeppelin  
_Baby Did a Bad Bad Thing_  
Chris Isaak  
\*You Can Leave Your Hat On \*  
Joe Cocker  
_All Lovers Are Deranged_  
David Gilmour  
_Pride and Joy_  
Coverdale/Page  
_Emotional Rescue and Miss You \*  
Rolling Stones  
 As Wicked As It Seems  
Keith Richards  
 No One Knows  
Queens of the Stone Age  
 Wildflower  
Cult_

Oops… you meant one song, right? I’ll stop now, though my list is much much longer. In The Evening, though- that is my favorite.

(gee whiz, these are stripper songs and not very romantic, are they? and I’m a girl!!! What does that mean?)

_takes cold shower_

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**Author:** ![Eva\_Luna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/e495f1/32.png) [@Eva\_Luna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Eva_Luna)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/37 "2003-08-16T16:51:20Z")

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Much depends on the mood and the commpany, but I have very fond memories of Ofra Haza’s _Kirya._ Also, the Rustavi Choir. Actually, the new Jack Johnson album, which I have on right now, wouldn’t be half-bad (_On and On_). All these are on the mellow side, though.

Damn, now you’ve got my mind wanderig again…

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**Author:** ![Sinshine](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f04885/32.png) [@Sinshine](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sinshine)\
**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 5:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/38 "2003-08-16T17:03:48Z")

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Vote #1 for Van Morrison’s Moondance

any male vocal with a deep raspy voice and a slightly hypnotic beat

The Doors, Pink Floyd, some Meatloaf (only the cheesy stuff though!). Some Led Zeppelin. Mark Knopfler. Some Def Leppard. You get the general idea.

And my Thunderstorm CD by Solitudes. I don’t know why, but instead of putting me to sleep, it starts me up. 😃

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**Post date:** [August 16, 2003, 8:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/39 "2003-08-16T20:26:27Z")

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The 5th Element OST is pretty good too… particularly the opera/synth piece.

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [August 17, 2003, 2:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/40 "2003-08-17T02:34:53Z")

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Okay, just picked up _Making Movies_. This, uh, should do nicely. The instrumental end of Tunnel of Love is really cool, and so are the volume swells on Skateaway. I also got myself Isaac Hayes’ _Hot Buttered Soul_. 🙂

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