# Best Songs To Have Sex To

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**Category:** Cafe Society\
**Created:** [August 15, 2003, 6:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440 "2003-08-15T18:48:50Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![Typo\_Negative](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/typo_negative/32/484_2.png) [@Typo\_Negative](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Typo_Negative)\
**Post date:** [August 17, 2003, 7:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/41 "2003-08-17T07:41:53Z")

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**Avalon** by _Roxy Music_.

And anything by _Joe Satriani_.

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**Post date:** [August 17, 2003, 7:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/42 "2003-08-17T07:43:48Z")

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Slow Hand by the Pointer Sisters.

😛

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**Author:** ![Hey\_It\_s\_That\_Guy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6f9a4e/32.png) [@Hey\_It\_s\_That\_Guy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hey_It_s_That_Guy)\
**Post date:** [August 17, 2003, 7:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/43 "2003-08-17T07:48:47Z")

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Roxy Music’s Avalon album  
Anything by Portishead and Massive Attack  
Anything by Chris Isaak  
The Cure’s Disintegration album  
Dave Matthews Band’s Crash album (if you’re currently in college)

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**Post date:** [August 17, 2003, 8:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/44 "2003-08-17T08:19:18Z")

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Magic Fire Music from Der Walkure by Wagner  
Siegfried’s Rhine Journey from Siegfried also by Wagner

LOTS of Sarah MacLachlan’s stuff

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**Post date:** [August 17, 2003, 9:58am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/45 "2003-08-17T09:58:36Z")

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Well, it’s a little late, but…

_All is full of love_, by Bjork.

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**Author:** ![frookah](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/94ad74/32.png) [@frookah](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/frookah)\
**Post date:** [August 17, 2003, 10:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/46 "2003-08-17T10:04:49Z")

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Hehe-

The Squirrel Nut Zippers, Billy, Ella, Nina. Oh, cold shower-quick!

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**Author:** ![sjc](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e5b9ba/32.png) [@sjc](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/sjc)\
**Post date:** [August 20, 2003, 11:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/47 "2003-08-20T23:49:08Z")

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Just checking in to see if anyone has mentioned Ravel’s Bolero. I’ve never actually tested it, but someone once mentioned to me that it would make good sex music and I tend to agree. (Although it might come off a little cheesy. On the other hand, is there any music that isn’t cheesy when played during sex?)

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**Author:** ![Morgainelf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/71e660/32.png) [@Morgainelf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Morgainelf)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 12:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/48 "2003-08-21T00:11:29Z")

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For songs,  
_World in My Eyes_, Depeche Mode  
_In Your Eyes_, Peter Gabriel  
_Dancing Barefoot_, U2 or Patty Smith  
_The Chauffeur_, Duran Duran  
_Lay it Down_, Ratt (just for those metal nights…)

For albums…  
_Kiss me, Kiss me, Kiss me_, The Cure  
_Violator_, Depeche Mode  
_Happiness_, The Beloved  
_Passion_, Peter Gabriel  
_Floodland_, Sisters of Mercy  
_Welcome to the Pleasure Dome_, Frankie Goes to Hollywood

and a second for _Bloody Kisses_, Type O Negative. Hot.

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 1:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/49 "2003-08-21T01:29:22Z")

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Oooo… I second World in my Eyes.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 2:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/50 "2003-08-21T02:26:27Z")

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Put down a #3 for “World in my Eyes”.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 2:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/51 "2003-08-21T02:50:47Z")

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I’ll just second _Violator_ and have done with. Cassandra Wilson’s _New Moon Daughter_ is also enjoyable. Love her voice.

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**Author:** ![Orange\_Skinner](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/3be4f8/32.png) [@Orange\_Skinner](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Orange_Skinner)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 3:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/52 "2003-08-21T03:40:31Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Mudshark \*  
> \*\ ***Orange Skinner** and I made this list a while back.
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> 1. Dogs - Pink Floyd
> 2. Rejoyce - Jefferson Airplane
> 3. Echoes - Pink Floyd
> 4. Nights in White Satin - Moody Blues
> 5. Playground Love - Air
> 6. Long, Long, Long - The Beatles
> 7. All of My Love - Led Zepplein
> 8. Don’t Let Me Down - The Beatles
> 9. Strawberry Fields Forever - The Beatles
> 10. Brain Damage/Eclipse - Pink Floyd
> 11. Shine On You Crazy Diamond (Part One) - Pink Floyd \*\*

Yup. We also had a much smaller list, Fast Songs to Have Sex To ( **Mudshark** and I are all about lists). So in addition to those, I’ll say:

_Tell Me You Love Me_ - Frank Zappa

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_Somebody to Love_ - Jefferson Airplane

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**Author:** ![SlickRoenick](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e68b1a/32.png) [@SlickRoenick](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SlickRoenick)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 5:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/53 "2003-08-21T05:30:40Z")

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I’m still a virgin but when the time comes i’ll put on **The Beautiful People** by Marylin Manson.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 6:29am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/54 "2003-08-21T06:29:36Z")

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john cage – 4’33"

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 12:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/55 "2003-08-21T12:15:02Z")

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_She’s Waiting_ - Eric Clapton For the beat, not the lyrics.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 12:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/56 "2003-08-21T12:18:58Z")

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And _#1 Crush_ - Garbage

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 1:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/57 "2003-08-21T13:02:49Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by sjc \*  
> \*\*Just checking in to see if anyone has mentioned Ravel’s Bolero. I’ve never actually tested it, but someone once mentioned to me that it would make good sex music and I tend to agree. (Although it might come off a little cheesy. On the other hand, is there any music that isn’t cheesy when played during sex?) \*\*

Actually Bolero is SUPPOSED to represent a sexual encounter.

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**Author:** ![KarlGrenze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/dbc845/32.png) [@KarlGrenze](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KarlGrenze)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2003, 11:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/58 "2003-08-21T23:25:48Z")

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_Papito_, by Manu Chao.

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**Post date:** [August 22, 2003, 12:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/59 "2003-08-22T00:15:18Z")

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**SlickRoenick** - don’t hurt anybody when you do it to MM’s _Beautiful People_

Seconding these that were already mentioned:

_Crazy on You_ (only if the woman puts it on)  
_Dark Side of the Moon_ - 'nuff said.  
_Shine On You Crazy Diamond_ - Once again, 'nuff said.  
_Carmina Burana_ - Oh Fortuna! Awesome. (Robert Shaw conducting with the Atlantic Symphony Orchestra & Chorus)  
The first _Enigma_ CD. It was the Barry White of my college days.  
_Bolero_. Yes, I have. It was cool.

Ones I suggest. I get into classical / contemplative space music (for that sort of thing), so…

Any episode of _Echoes_ or _Music From the Hearts of Space_ on NPR. Check your local listings.  
The original _Star Wars_ score. Once again, yes, I have. A fantasy come true. Call me a Geek. At least it wasn’t Star Trek. WARNING - Do NOT do it to Empire or Return of the Jedi. Yoda’s theme will kill it INSTANTANEOUSLY!!!  
_The Division Bell_ - Pink Floyd. Pretty cool. Really not for the lyrics on that one, but the music.

Oh, and anything that happens to be on at the time.

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**Post date:** [August 23, 2003, 12:31am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/best-songs-to-have-sex-to/195440/60 "2003-08-23T00:31:06Z")

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Painted on my Heart- Cult

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