Nick Lane’s “The Vital Question” has a lot of material that will be useful to you, I think. He doesn’t speculate much on alternative biochemistries, but he has some good thoughts on what we should expect to be universal.
Specific questions about “could X do the job of Y” are really difficult, I don’t have that level of expertise I’m afraid. Unless you can find some literature on the specific question that your concerned with, I think you’d need an expert biochemist in the specific field to give you a cogent answer.
This depends somewhat on the kind of science fiction you want. I’m rather dismayed that the science is incidental to a lot of sci-fi. Many sci-fi stories could be set in Victorian England or Chicago in the 1950s, but just happens to be set on Omicron Persei 8 in the distant future. I’m much more interested in sci-fi where the science and its radical implications are the story.
Perhaps I should have written polysiloxane instead of silicone. Anyway, it seems that Si-Si-Si- structures are much less stable than C-C-C- or C-C-N- chains, while Si-O-Si-O- chains are almost too stable. I guess Si-C-Si-C- and Si-N-Si-N- chains are also alternatives. In any case, the side chains (analogs of amino acids or nucleotides) would derive from just C,O,N,H and presumably not Si.
A big difference between carbon- and silicon-based life is that the analog of CO[sub]2[/sub] — a waste gas easily disposed of — is SiO[sub]2[/sub] (silica) which is a solid. Many plants use silica phytoliths or frustules for structural support, e.g. in cell walls.
A sulfur diester would have no charge, so quite a big difference in hydrophilicity and character of the proposed SDNA. I think the main problem, though, is that they would be too labile. Not sure how much more, but phosphate diesters are rock-like - phenomenal half lives in water under neutral conditions. Obv enzymes can cleave them, but if you just stick a strand of DNA into water at physiological conditions, it’s extremely stable.
Someone published a very high profile paper in Science a few years ago claiming a strain of bacteria that could grow and metabolise arsenic, and directly inferred arsenate DNA linkages and arsenylation - supermassive discovery if true, even held a press conference. Alas, through either ignorance or malice, it was just a bunch of arse. Paper got torn to shreds in about 5 mins - the primary reason [amongst many] that it sounded like bollox was that AsO4 diesters are known to be extremely labile in water. So there would need to be some profound rationalisation of this fact for the work to be taken seriously, and there was none.
I was slightly disingenuous when I mentioned my science fiction epic. (Oh, I’d like to write that book, but my To Do list is already long and time is running out.) I mainly thought “exo-life” would be an interesting topic to discuss and hope those who’ve responded also find it interesting.