# Blowjobs--Women who Don't and Women who Won't **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [July 15, 2009, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/blowjobs-women-who-dont-and-women-who-wont/503152 "2009-07-15T21:08:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 8
**Author:** ![Shagnasty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@Shagnasty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shagnasty)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 6:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/blowjobs-women-who-dont-and-women-who-wont/503152/141 "2009-07-22T06:21:46Z")
> [@marshmallow](#): > > The human mind is an amazing thing. It is. The relevant concept is called sexual orientation. Lots of gay males say they are repulsed by the thought of having sex with a woman even on a bet but that doesn’t apply to heterosexual males. There are lots of things that some people are interested in sexually and others are not. It has little to do with the physical organs themselves. ---
**Author:** ![Shagnasty](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9dc877/32.png) [@Shagnasty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shagnasty)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2009, 6:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/blowjobs-women-who-dont-and-women-who-wont/503152/142 "2009-07-22T06:23:58Z")
> [@Qadgop\_the\_Mercotan](#): > > Something along the line of “Guys who don’t give oral”? Are you trying to form a support group good doctor? ---
**Author:** ![JonathanR](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/9e8a1a/32.png) [@JonathanR](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JonathanR)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2016, 4:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/blowjobs-women-who-dont-and-women-who-wont/503152/143 "2016-07-18T16:51:51Z")
I am 55 and happily married. When I say no BJ’s I mean No BJ’s with a happy ending. She does preform oral sex as foreplay, but never as the final act. I think she is afraid (or grossed out) about have me “finishing” in her mouth. In most other respects we have a healthy sex life. I SHOULD be grateful. But ladies, I don’t know how to express this, but a man’s orgasm from oral sex is different than from intercourse. Think of oral sex as filling up a water balloon until it bursts. With intercourse the balloon fills up and goes from big to boom rather quickly. With Oral sex the balloon fills up slower. There is a point right before the balloon bursts (before orgasm) that is the most intense. It is an incredible feeling for a man . It is the point of no return. It is the point right before spasm. Time comes to a stop. You can think. Your whole body is filled with this moment. It last only a second or 2 in real life. With oral sex it can last several seconds. Or you get to that edge and come back, and get to the edge again. You can not achieve that level of intensity with intercourse. It was been almost 30 years (and with my ex girlfriend) since I experienced that pleasure. Ladies, please please do not deny the man that you love, this awesome form of pleasure. I not saying you have to be a BJ queen. But a BJ makes the perfect birthday gift. We men recognize it is work. It is called a Blowjob not Blowplay. But it is so good ---
**Author:** ![rsat3acr](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a3d4f5/32.png) [@rsat3acr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/rsat3acr)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2016, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/blowjobs-women-who-dont-and-women-who-wont/503152/144 "2016-07-18T18:28:11Z")
Zombies like head, BOTH. ---
**Author:** ![Asimovian](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/asimovian/32/172_2.png) [@Asimovian](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Asimovian)\ **Post date:** [July 18, 2016, 7:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/blowjobs-women-who-dont-and-women-who-wont/503152/145 "2016-07-18T19:10:18Z")
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