# Bosda's father has died \[updated title\] **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [December 18, 2012, 12:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416 "2012-12-18T12:20:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![twickster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ec9cab/32.png) [@twickster](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/twickster)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 12:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/41 "2012-12-24T00:08:56Z")
> [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](#): > > Moderator: Please retitle this tThread. Bosda’s Dad Dying. Done. Wishing you peace and strength as you deal with this. **twicks** ---
**Author:** ![koeeoaddi](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/koeeoaddi/32/408_2.png) [@koeeoaddi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/koeeoaddi)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 12:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/42 "2012-12-24T00:10:37Z")
**Bosda** , I am so sorry to hear this. You and your dad will be in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 12:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/43 "2012-12-24T00:26:08Z")
I’m very sorry, **Bosda**. ---
**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 12:32am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/44 "2012-12-24T00:32:39Z")
I’m very sorry, **Bosda Di’Chi of Tricor**. ---
**Author:** ![aceplace57](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/aceplace57/32/3500_2.png) [@aceplace57](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/aceplace57)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 12:35am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/45 "2012-12-24T00:35:44Z")
Best wishes Bosda Di’Chi of Tricor. I know how hard this must be for you. I lost my dad last year. ---
**Author:** ![GuanoLad](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guanolad/32/42_2.png) [@GuanoLad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GuanoLad)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 1:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/46 "2012-12-24T01:04:52Z")
Oh ☹ I lost my Dad when I was young, and still miss him. And all this at the suckiest time of the year. Best thoughts as you go through this. ---
**Author:** ![Taters](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/taters/32/2845_2.png) [@Taters](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Taters)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 1:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/47 "2012-12-24T01:24:44Z")
**Bosda,** I am so sorry to read this. Having just lost my Dad less than a month ago, and having watched him suffer the last month of his life, I can empathize. The whole having to work because the leave is being sucked up, being worried about your Dad, exhaustion, guilt because you feel like you need to be there, but can’t always be there, stress; all of it just wears a body down. Please take care of yourself as well. I hope you can find some peace and strength. ---
**Author:** ![Fionn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/a587f6/32.png) [@Fionn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fionn)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 1:30am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/48 "2012-12-24T01:30:48Z")
I’m very sorry. Best wishes for you and your family. ---
**Author:** ![Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sticks_and_scones/32/16951_2.png) [@Sticks\_and\_Scones](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sticks_and_Scones)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 1:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/49 "2012-12-24T01:56:16Z")
I"m so sorry to hear this about your dad. ---
**Author:** ![Infovore](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/infovore/32/420_2.png) [@Infovore](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Infovore)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/50 "2012-12-24T02:02:05Z")
I’m sorry. **Bosda**. ☹ My thoughts are with you and your family. ---
**Author:** ![SerafinaPekala](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecae2f/32.png) [@SerafinaPekala](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SerafinaPekala)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/51 "2012-12-24T02:04:16Z")
My thoughts are with you too Bosda. So sad. ---
**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 2:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/52 "2012-12-24T02:21:04Z")
I’m truly sorry to hear about this, Bosda. I hope for the best possible outcome for you, whatever that may be. ---
**Author:** ![Digital\_is\_the\_new\_Analog](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a88e4f/32.png) [@Digital\_is\_the\_new\_Analog](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Digital_is_the_new_Analog)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 2:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/53 "2012-12-24T02:36:50Z")
Have I said “Crap” yet in this thread? **Bosda** , still thinking of you and your family. May you find strength through these days. -D/a ---
**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 3:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/54 "2012-12-24T03:01:01Z")
My codolences. I lost my father in the month of April but after he’d had an aneurysm just after Thanksgiving. I know how weird the holiday season must be feeling for you right now. ---
**Author:** ![mbh](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/a6a055/32.png) [@mbh](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mbh)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 3:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/55 "2012-12-24T03:13:12Z")
> [@](#): > > There is probably no more terrible instant of enlightenment than the one in which you discover your father is a man - with human flesh. > –Frank Herbert > [@](#): > > Your father loves you, Faramir, and will remember it, ere the end. > –J.R.R. Tolkein My condolences. ---
**Author:** ![StGermain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/stgermain/32/2868_2.png) [@StGermain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/StGermain)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 3:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/56 "2012-12-24T03:25:57Z")
I’m so sorry, **Bosda**. I’m wishing you strength in the coming days. StG ---
**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 4:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/57 "2012-12-24T04:23:21Z")
I’m sorry, **Bosda**. Peace. ---
**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/58 "2012-12-24T16:34:22Z")
I wish there were something helpful I could say. I can only let you know that I’m wishing you both the best. ---
**Author:** ![Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bosda_di_chi_of_tricor/32/16845_2.png) [@Bosda\_Di\_Chi\_of\_Tricor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bosda_Di_Chi_of_Tricor)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 11:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/59 "2012-12-24T23:05:20Z")
My Father, the finest man I ever knew, died today at 1:30 Pm, Central. Christmas Eve. ---
**Author:** ![Quartz](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quartz/32/267_2.png) [@Quartz](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Quartz)\ **Post date:** [December 24, 2012, 11:09pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bosdas-father-has-died-updated-title/644416/60 "2012-12-24T23:09:02Z")
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