adbadqc, you still aren’t understanding the problem as stated.
Consider the choices:
RR
RB
BR
BB
What you’re saying is if one is revealed to be R, then there’s a 50-50 chance the other will be revealed to be B. However, this is only true if the one which was revealed was chosen at random. In the following, I will show that this problem (as stated) has the one which is revealed chosen systematically, which changes the odds.
First, consider the case where we reveal a card at random. Without loss of generality, we can rewrite the pairs so that the revealed card is on the left. So the possibilities are:
RR
RB
BR
BB
all equally likely.
Of the cases where the revealed card (the left one) was R, the other card is B half the time and R have the time. 50-50, like you said. But this isn’t the same as the given problem, for the reason I’m about to tell you.
In the given problem, the parents tell you whether they have at least one girl child. In other words, if they have even one girl child, they will systematically choose that child as the one to reveal. This is equivalent to systematically chosing to reveal a red card if you have one.
So, the four equally probable possibilities (with the revealed card placed on the left) are:
RR
RB
RB
BB
Note that the BR flipped to a second RB, because they never reveal a B when they have an R.
So now, there are three cases where an R was revealed, and in two of the three the other one was a B. The odds are 2/3.
The point here is that answering the question “Do you have any girl children?” is not the same as answering the request “Tell me the sex of one of your children.” In one case, you systematically reveal a girl child (if you have one), in the other you reveal one at random (presumably).
Although on further review, perhaps I’m being unfair. Cecil orignally said “You have been told they have a daughter,” which is ambiguous as to whether they systematically revealed a daughter or just happened to reveal that child by chance. His subsequent explanation makes it clear that he meant it to be revealed systematically (as it would be if you had asked them “Do you have any daughters?”) but he probably should have been more clear in the original statement.