# breakfast delivered **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 7, 2011, 5:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800 "2011-03-07T17:24:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 4
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 12:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/61 "2011-03-24T00:21:40Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > \ It isn’t hard, and it doesn’t need words… Heh heh heh. Why, yes, I AM a 13-year old! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![LurkerInNJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ed655f/32.png) [@LurkerInNJ](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/LurkerInNJ)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 2:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/62 "2011-03-24T02:00:01Z")
> [@BigBertha](#): > > Just asking for opinions. A guy friend comes over, you tell him you just got up, he offers to go home, make you breakfast and bring it over. He does, lots of pancakes, eggs, toast, biscuits. Is this just a friendly gesture or more? It depends. I’ve done things like that for friends of mine who were overwhelmed, feeling down, needed some TLC asap, or were even depressed. Sometimes to just say thank you for what you did for me. It’s a sign of love, compassion or gratitude. ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 2:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/63 "2011-03-24T02:16:53Z")
> [@KinkiNipponTourist](#): > > Is this the same fella that left you waiting for a promised ride IN HIS NISSAN on several occasions? Why yes. And? ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 2:17am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/64 "2011-03-24T02:17:56Z")
> [@LurkerInNJ](#): > > It depends. I’ve done things like that for friends of mine who were overwhelmed, feeling down, needed some TLC asap, or were even depressed. Sometimes to just say thank you for what you did for me. It’s a sign of love, compassion or gratitude. Most posters here seem to disagree with you. ---
**Author:** ![Count\_Blucher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/c5a1d2/32.png) [@Count\_Blucher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Count_Blucher)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 2:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/65 "2011-03-24T02:56:03Z")
> [@BigBertha](#): > > So now he came over the over night with two huge steaks for me and my son. Yes, we have enough food, and hes on food stamps. I think he likes you. I hope you like him back. As for the rest…well its Spring. 'Nuff said. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![KinkiNipponTourist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e9bcb4/32.png) [@KinkiNipponTourist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/KinkiNipponTourist)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 2:06pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/66 "2011-03-24T14:06:01Z")
> [@BigBertha](#): > > Why yes. And? Well, according to your posts, which I helpfully outlined in my post on page 1 of this thread, this guy treated you like shit. I guess I’m just wondering why you let people treat you that way. That was why I asked my question repeatedly. Other posters chimed in as well. Why did you not answer any of us? Were you embarrassed that why yes, you are indeed letting this guy treat you like shit? Again. > [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > …ETA: I hope this wasn’t that dickhead who abandoned you and your friend out somewhere recently. > [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > I hope it wasn’t the dickhead you posted about before because he’s proven himself to be an unreliable dickhead. > [@KinkiNipponTourist](#): > > Hi BB! > > On the off-off-chance that this feller is [the same guy](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=565315) referred to by **CatWhisperer** and\*\* MOL\*\* above, I went back and dug up your earlier thread on him (I’m home from work sick today, so I had time) to remind you of some highlights (bolding mine). \ > > Dear BB, if the guy you’re asking about here is indeed this same guy, your stove isn’t the only thing that’s malfunctioning. > [@faithfool](#): > > Just agreeing with the others that it means way more. Also agreeing that if it’s the same guy, you better be extremely careful. > [@tumbleddown](#): > > Agreeing completely with **KinkiNipponTourist**. This guy wants your goodies, so he brought you goodies. If it’s the guy from before, he’s a flake, and please, be wary. Very wary. \ > [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > If that is the same guy, I’m not sure why you’re even giving him the time of day at this point, but I guess it takes all kinds to make the world go round. Look at all that concern. Can you understand now why I am asking if it is the same guy? I was concerned about you. I wonder why it took you so long to answer that why yes, it is the same guy. Also, while I have your attention, will you also post again when he treats you as badly as he did the last time? Best of luck. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 4:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/67 "2011-03-24T16:22:43Z")
> [@Cat\_Whisperer](#): > > Heh heh heh. Why, yes, I AM a 13-year old! 😃 I would have been heartbroken if nobody had caught that. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 4:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/68 "2011-03-24T16:40:56Z")
> [@KinkiNipponTourist](#): > > Also, while I have your attention, will you also post again when he treats you as badly as he did the last time? > > . If you want me to. ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2011, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/69 "2011-03-24T23:34:20Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > I would have been heartbroken if nobody had caught that. 😃 Well, you know what they say - a dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste. 🙂 Jeeze, I was on a bit of a dickhead kick there, wasn’t I? ---
**Author:** ![ShelliBean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f9ae1b/32.png) [@ShelliBean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ShelliBean)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2011, 3:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/70 "2011-03-25T03:59:26Z")
Dickhead kick = too much penis on the brain ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2011, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/71 "2011-03-25T05:49:56Z")
I would say hes been treating me well lately. I’ve seen him 24 days in a row now. He took a drive to NY the other day and asked if I wanted to come along. Being spontaneous, I went. ---
**Author:** ![Erdosain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/erdosain/32/7284_2.png) [@Erdosain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Erdosain)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2011, 6:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/72 "2011-03-25T06:04:40Z")
Well, if you do make a move, I recommend locking the bedroom door first. He’s liable to get up during to go to the bathroom and never come back. And later ask for condom money. ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [April 18, 2011, 5:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/73 "2011-04-18T17:17:44Z")
I know y’all don’t want me to update but I’m going to. Today I had an interview for a place thats about a 3 minute walk right Past his house. He walked over to My house to walk me to it. Completely out of his way. ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 4:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/74 "2011-04-28T16:33:17Z")
Last week, before he left, he initiated a hug and held it til I let go, and said we need to be professional in public, we can have feelings but, so I am guessing he is saying he also has feelings. Also, he said (about some job) “You can see me every day then…I want to see you.” Every day, I said? Yeah. ---
**Author:** ![Fear\_Itself](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fear_itself/32/19637_2.png) [@Fear\_Itself](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fear_Itself)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 4:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/75 "2011-04-28T16:45:03Z")
Oh for gosh sakes. Invite him for dinner, and tell him to bring his toothbrush. ---
**Author:** ![GrandWino](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grandwino/32/67_2.png) [@GrandWino](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GrandWino)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2011, 4:53pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/76 "2011-04-28T16:53:12Z")
> [@KinkiNipponTourist](#): > > Well, according to your posts, which I helpfully outlined in my post on page 1 of this thread, this guy treated you like shit. I guess I’m just wondering why you let people treat you that way. That was why I asked my question repeatedly. Duh, free steak! ---
**Author:** ![BigBertha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/d78d45/32.png) [@BigBertha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigBertha)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2011, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/77 "2011-05-15T20:56:19Z")
I finally e mailed him and he said just friends, politics really. and he hasnt coem voer for 11 days ---
**Author:** ![An\_Gadai](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/d6d6ee/32.png) [@An\_Gadai](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/An_Gadai)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2011, 9:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/78 "2011-05-15T21:21:04Z")
So no tube steak? ---
**Author:** ![BigT](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bigt/32/12044_2.png) [@BigT](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BigT)\ **Post date:** [May 15, 2011, 10:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/79 "2011-05-15T22:59:01Z")
Sorry, BB, that he’s such an asshole that he pretended to like you romantically to get ahead. But choose to remember the journey, not the destination. You seriously seemed like you were having fun. If you are devastated, go ahead and grieve, but then pick yourself right up and use your new experience to find a better guy in the future. The pictures I’ve seen of you look like this woman I had a crush on in high school, and I believe you are a little bit older than that. I bet there are plenty of guys who would love to get to, ahem, know you a little better. Good luck! > [@Enderw24](#): > > Then, if I may be so bold as to inquire about something that doth perplex me: > > Why the fuck did you ask the fucking question in the first place? > > Never mind. It doesn’t perplex me. I know exactly why you asked. Wah, someone’s not doing exactly what I tell them! They must have nefarious intent! She’s nervous because she’s with a guy she likes. She wanted encouragement to do it, or advice on why not to. That’s it. And, guess what? The actual opinion given in this thread was wrong: he didn’t like her. (The other one, that he’s a douche, was right, but, hey, she likely knew that.) There’s absolutely no reason someone has to take the advice they are given. Just because I ask for your opinion doesn’t mean you become my master. Not all people will follow your advice. Get over it. ---
**Author:** ![handsomeharry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e9c0ed/32.png) [@handsomeharry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/handsomeharry)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2011, 2:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800/80 "2011-05-17T02:06:07Z")
> [@BigBertha](#): > > Yes, but I could be a gay male. 🙂 So, why did you choose the het female? Best wishes, hh [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800.md?page=3) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/breakfast-delivered/573800.md?page=5)