# British soldier celebrates his gay marriage in the regimental mess

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**Created:** [March 29, 2010, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/british-soldier-celebrates-his-gay-marriage-in-the-regimental-mess/534202 "2010-03-29T12:35:17Z")\
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**Author:** ![SanVito](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sanvito/32/2805_2.png) [@SanVito](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SanVito)\
**Post date:** [March 29, 2010, 12:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/british-soldier-celebrates-his-gay-marriage-in-the-regimental-mess/534202/1 "2010-03-29T12:35:17Z")

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With all the hoo-ha over DADT going on across the pond, I thought I’d share this lovely story from the UK. [Linky](http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/a-very-modern-military-partnership-1928748.html)

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> One groom wore ceremonial uniform with his Iraq medal, the other morning dress with an orchid. Surrounded by silverware and paintings commemorating great battles, Lance Corporal James Wharton, 23, and his new husband enjoyed their first dance to Tina Turner in the warrant officers’ mess of the most prestigious regiment in the land.
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> The Household Cavalry, famed for escorting the Queen during state occasions and the fact that it counts both her grandsons among its officers, celebrated its first gay wedding in style. L/Cpl Wharton was joined in a civil partnership with his boyfriend, the Virgin air steward Thom McCaffrey, 21, surrounded by members of L/Cpl Wharton’s regiment, the Blues and Royals.
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> “The entire regiment has been really supportive,” he said. “When I went to ask the Squadron Leader, Major Nana Twumasi-Ankrah, for permission to get married, he just said ‘This is fantastic, congratulations’.”
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> “The lads joked it was the gay event of the year. Everyone was excited. It was the talk of the barracks. This generation of soldiers is completely liberal,” added the junior non-commissioned officer, whose only regret was that some of his friends would not be back from Afghanistan in time to enjoy the nuptials.

Fair brings a tear to my eye. They’re even getting married serviceman’s accommodation. 21st century army in progress!

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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [March 29, 2010, 2:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/british-soldier-celebrates-his-gay-marriage-in-the-regimental-mess/534202/2 "2010-03-29T14:56:42Z")

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Major Nana Twumasi-Ankrah? Must be Welsh.

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**Author:** ![EddyTeddyFreddy](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/eddyteddyfreddy/32/18796_2.png) [@EddyTeddyFreddy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/EddyTeddyFreddy)\
**Post date:** [March 29, 2010, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/british-soldier-celebrates-his-gay-marriage-in-the-regimental-mess/534202/3 "2010-03-29T15:00:07Z")

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> [@Colibri](#):
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> Major Nana Twumasi-Ankrah? Must be Welsh.

😃

Thanks – I needed that.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [March 29, 2010, 3:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/british-soldier-celebrates-his-gay-marriage-in-the-regimental-mess/534202/4 "2010-03-29T15:45:07Z")

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> [@Colibri](#):
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> Major Nana Twumasi-Ankrah? Must be Welsh.

Does that mean the whole mouthful is pronounced Lui?

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> married quarters, which were renamed Service Family Accommodation with the introduction of civil partnerships in 2005.

And one of these centuries us horrid Continentals will get them re-renamed married quarters 😛

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**Author:** ![SanVito](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sanvito/32/2805_2.png) [@SanVito](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SanVito)\
**Post date:** [March 29, 2010, 6:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/british-soldier-celebrates-his-gay-marriage-in-the-regimental-mess/534202/5 "2010-03-29T18:50:17Z")

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> [@Nava](#):
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> And one of these centuries us horrid Continentals will get them re-renamed married quarters 😛

Touché!😃