# Bush Laments that Ob-Gyn's Can't Practice Their Love with Women

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**Created:** [September 7, 2004, 1:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426 "2004-09-07T01:14:23Z")\
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**Author:** ![Fear\_Itself](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fear_itself/32/19637_2.png) [@Fear\_Itself](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fear_Itself)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/1 "2004-09-07T01:14:23Z")

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[The President’s speech in Poplar Bluff, Missouri (Sept 6)](http://www.kfvs12.com/Global/story.asp?S=2264626&nav=8H3xQcTg)

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> Too many OB/GYNs aren’t able to practice their love with women all across this country.

What does he think goes in in that exam room, anyway?

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**Author:** ![Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e47c2d/32.png) [@Biffy\_the\_Elephant\_Shrew](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Biffy_the_Elephant_Shrew)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/2 "2004-09-07T01:22:06Z")

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Hey, _I_ don’t get to practice my love with women all across the country either, and I don’t hear Bush making a fucking speech about it!

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**Author:** ![pantom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/34f0e0/32.png) [@pantom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pantom)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:36am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/3 "2004-09-07T01:36:19Z")

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I’d be content with practicing my love with women all across my _county_.

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**Author:** ![MsRobyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/90ced4/32.png) [@MsRobyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MsRobyn)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:42am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/4 "2004-09-07T01:42:16Z")

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Speaking as a woman, I’m damn glad my GYN doesn’t practice his love with me. I mean, he’s not bad-looking, but I’m married and AFAIK, so is he. 😃 😉

Robin

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**Author:** ![FaerieBeth](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e95f7d/32.png) [@FaerieBeth](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FaerieBeth)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/5 "2004-09-07T01:48:41Z")

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Okay, I followed the link and read the quote in context. Can someone please tell me what he thought he was trying to say? Why would you even use the words gynecologist, women, and love in the same sentence? Even if you are an expert, silver tongued orator, isn’t that just _asking_ for misunderstanding?  
Was that part of the written speech? Or did he just stumble over the words and come out with that turn of phrase?

As you can see, I have many questions. Mostly because I am fucking bewildered, and a little concerned because _my_ OB/GYN is a woman. I thought the GOP frowned on those sorts of things! :eek:

FB

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/6 "2004-09-07T01:54:36Z")

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I think the transcriptionist heard the sentence wrong. Obviously Bush is not advoctating sex between patients and doctors.

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**Author:** ![Nawth\_Chucka](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c57346/32.png) [@Nawth\_Chucka](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nawth_Chucka)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/7 "2004-09-07T01:57:11Z")

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Once again, W’s speech writer’s didn’t do their research, or else they’d have seen that all TOO often, male gynecologists DO practice their love on their patients, most recently -

[http://www.jdnews.com/SiteProcessor.cfm?Template=/GlobalTemplates/Details.cfm&StoryID=24971&Section=News](http://www.jdnews.com/SiteProcessor.cfm?Template=/GlobalTemplates/Details.cfm&StoryID=24971&Section=News)

> **[Suspended obstetrician faces new allegations](https://www.seattlepi.com/local/article/Suspended-obstetrician-faces-new-allegations-1151493.php)**
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> The state Health Department added another patient's allegations to a list of sexual...

And I personally had an experience in my teens when a male gynecologist reached under my shirt, while I was sitting up on the table still dressed before the pelvic exam and gave me a breast ‘exam’ (no nurse present back in the1980’s yet) where he caressed them and asked me to tell him how good it felt.  
I was 19, inexperienced, and just said, “I dunno, should it feel good?” He said, “If nothing’s wrong it should.”  
I was still under the misperception that doctors only wanted to do what was best for you and had no agenda. Two more shitty male gynos later, I only go to women now. They’re not rough, they don’t shove, and they don’t shrug off your problems and call you ‘Sweetie’.

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**Author:** ![Fear\_Itself](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/fear_itself/32/19637_2.png) [@Fear\_Itself](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Fear_Itself)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/8 "2004-09-07T01:57:46Z")

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> [@ivylass](#):
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> I think the transcriptionist heard the sentence wrong. Obviously Bush is not advoctating sex between patients and doctors.

Nope, I saw the video of it on _Countdown with Keith Olbermann_ on MSNBC tonight. It is absolutely accurate, and believe me, it was even more awkward on videotape.

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**Author:** ![ivylass](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/9de053/32.png) [@ivylass](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ivylass)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/9 "2004-09-07T02:02:22Z")

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Hmmm. Okay, not having seen the videotape, I’ll have to reserve judgement. That does seem a very odd thing to say, to say the least.

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**Author:** ![The\_Devil\_s\_Grandmother](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/74df32/32.png) [@The\_Devil\_s\_Grandmother](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Devil_s_Grandmother)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/10 "2004-09-07T02:06:32Z")

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I’m trying hard to be charitable towards a president I loathe, so I’m, going to guess that he meant “practice in the profession they love, _for_ women all across the country.”  
What’s wrong with those Bush guys anyway? How the hell can Barbara promote literacy, and Laura be a librarian and stand to be married to those sentence-thrashers? You’d think they’d be visibly cringing every time their husbands spoke.

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**Author:** ![interface2x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/c0e974/32.png) [@interface2x](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/interface2x)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/11 "2004-09-07T02:16:21Z")

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> [@FaerieBeth](#):
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> Even if you are an expert, silver tongued orator, isn’t that just _asking_ for misunderstanding? :eek:

Speaking of “silver tongued”… 😃

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/12 "2004-09-07T02:20:36Z")

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Maybe Barbara advocated literacy because of her son? You know, thinking he might actually get a clue?

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**Author:** ![percypercy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8baadc/32.png) [@percypercy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/percypercy)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/13 "2004-09-07T02:24:57Z")

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The transcript of the speech is up on Bush’s website as well. With “practice their love” and all.  
-Lil

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/14 "2004-09-07T02:28:41Z")

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Sliver tongued?

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**Author:** ![Brutus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@Brutus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Brutus)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/15 "2004-09-07T02:34:34Z")

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Ah, the love that dare not speak its name…

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:37am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/16 "2004-09-07T02:37:27Z")

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Hey, perhaps Bush was **BronzeLION**?

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**Author:** ![Purd\_Werfect](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/e47c2d/32.png) [@Purd\_Werfect](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Purd_Werfect)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:39am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/17 "2004-09-07T02:39:24Z")

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I can see what he probably meant, but what a delightfully unfortunate way to phrase it.

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**Author:** ![Otto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/bbe5ce/32.png) [@Otto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otto)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:46am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/18 "2004-09-07T02:46:09Z")

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> [@Dubya](#):
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> The tax code today is a complicated mess. It’s more than a million words long and filled with loopholes for special interests.

The man knows no shame.

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**Author:** ![ultrafilter](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/3d9bf3/32.png) [@ultrafilter](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ultrafilter)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/19 "2004-09-07T02:52:38Z")

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> [@Brutus](#):
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> Ah, the love that dare not speak its name…

…is a vast improvement over the love that can’t remember where it parked its car, or the love that can’t stop saying “meteorologically”, mais oui?

> [@Purd Werfect](#):
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> I can see what he probably meant, but what a delightfully unfortunate way to phrase it.

Care to enlighten the rest of us?

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**Author:** ![OttoDaFe](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ottodafe/32/356_2.png) [@OttoDaFe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OttoDaFe)\
**Post date:** [September 7, 2004, 3:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/bush-laments-that-ob-gyns-cant-practice-their-love-with-women/263426/20 "2004-09-07T03:10:19Z")

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> [@ultrafilter](#):
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> Care to enlighten the rest of us?

Not having read the transcript—hey, I’m supposed to keep my blood pressure under control—I can only offer a WAG: that because of the innumerable gazillion-dollar frivolous lawsuits foisted on society by the Evil Personal Injury Lawyers (not naming names, you know, and _certainly_ not referring to anyone running for national office), countless OB/GYNs are forced to leave the profession they love and abandon their cherished patients.

Or something like that. . . .

(Sorry, this is kind of a sore point with me. The greatest satisfaction my father took in the practice of medicine was delivering babies—and he had to abandon it due to insurance company BS years before the term “tort reform” was even coined.)

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