Trying to suggest that this action is homophobic is just idiotic, as has been pointed out.
I know y’all want to paint Bush as a homophobe. For all I know he is. You can’t tell from this. It doesn’t do anything against homosexuals.
Doma. That’s homophobic. “Don’t ask don’t tell.” That’s homophobic. Clinton signed both. For all I know he’s not a homophobe.
But, if we’re talking about actual actions against homosexuals, actual legislation, correct me if I’m wrong, I don’t think Bush has actually done anything.
Bush is clearly trying to cater to his social conservative constituency with this, though. There’s little doubt of that. Clearly the social conservative agenda is actively homophobic, and clearly he can’t afford to piss these people off. He has to do something for them.
As misguided as they are, they at least have a good premise at heart as regards marriage. They seem to be in favor of stable marriages that are good places to raise children.
So, rather than put down homosexuals, Bush has chosen to cater to this group by promoting such marriages.
That said, I tend to agree with the sentiment that marriage counseling isn’t really the purview of the government despite the societal benefits.
But I might be wrong.
Recently my wife had a child. At the hospital we were literally forced to watch this video about shaken baby syndrome. It seems some numb nuts don’t know that violently shaking infants will damage them, and they require education.
It was a pretty horrible and depressing video. I resented being compelled to watch it and sign an affidavit that I did so. I didn’t think it was the government’s purview.
I expressed this sentiment to the nurse. She told me that she could understand that. She also told me that shaken baby syndrome was a real problem. They would see it quite a bit. Apparently shaken baby syndrome is down 75% IIRC in PA since they started compelling people to watch this video. Since these kids often die or are brain damaged for life, I can’t help but wonder if maybe my resentment is misplaced. Maybe I should be pissed that we need to show this video rather than at the people showing it.
By that same token, if this legislation can prevent Britney Spears from saying “oops I did it again,” maybe it’s not all bad. Maybe if they’re telling people “look stupid getting married doesn’t mean you can rape and beat your wife,” and drives the point home, it might not be such a terrible thing. Maybe if it counsels people on basic economics of starting a household and on respect for your partner, it might not be so terrible.
Never underestimate the number of truly incredibly stupid people out there. It is maybe possible that done properly, this might be a good thing. It might avert disasters.
I personally doubt it, though. Sounds like bullshit to me.
But maybe we are so stupid that this is a good idea. After all, we need the government to tell us that shaking infants is bad. You think some idiot that would do that couldn’t use some marriage counseling?