My position is perhaps a little different from the OP’s, but I have a question which I think this thread is still relevant to: so far as the mathematics goes, I understand linear algebra, Hilbert spaces, Fourier theory, and all that. I have, I think, all the requisite mathematical background to understand basic quantum mechanics (or at least, enough that I could quickly familiarize myself with whatever I need).
And so, when I read things like how “states” correspond to lines in some Hilbert space, with “observables” corresponding to linear operators on that space, the eigenvalues of which are possible “measurement results”, etc., etc., I understand the mathematical bits just fine. I know what those words refer to. But I still don’t understand how to connect up the “states” and “observables” and so on with anything in the real world. I’m never able to figure out how the mathematics of quantum mechanics connects with an actual physical situation. I have no idea why all this mathematics is relevant to quantum mechanics (other than just knowing by fiat that it is), and how to translate back and forth between the two.
It’s as if I understood calculus and someone told me “force is mass multiplied by the second derivative of position with respect to time, etc., etc.”, but I had no ordinary language understanding of what words like “force”, “mass”, “position”, and “time” amounted to, so all of Newton’s laws were just meaningless definitional tautology to me; I could understand the math just fine, but I would have no idea how to interpret it into actual claims about the behavior of moving bodies.
As a contrast, for general relativity, which I also don’t know anything about, it seems easy enough to understand how the math and the physics matches up; spacetime is some manifold, inertial paths can be thought of as its geodesics, the phenomenon of gravity amounts to some equation describing the relationship of its curvature to mass, bam. It’s easy enough to see why and how you would use differential geometry to model all this.
But with quantum mechanics, I have basically no idea why and where Hilbert spaces and self-adjoint operators and all that come up in the first place; I just know that they do because I keep hearing that they do. I have no idea what situations involve Hilbert spaces and self-adjoint operators, what spaces and operators to use in those situations, what to do with them, how to interpret the results in empirical terms, and why physicists were led to work in this whole “Measurement results are eigenvalues, etc., etc.” formulation in the first place.
I guess I’m being both rather repetitive and rather vague about where my confusions lie, but, to take one last inarticulate stab, it’s something like this. Over at this Wikipedia link, you can find a selection of what are apparently the basic postulates of quantum mechanics. I understand all the mathematical words in them, but I have no idea what any of this has to do with the behavior of particles in the world. “Every physical system is associated with a topologically separable complex Hilbert space with inner product…” Well, that’s great, but it doesn’t tell me anything about what the actual association is. And so on for all the rest of it. It’s like a long list of “Here’s some mathematics that can be applied” without a clear explanation of quite how to apply it.
So, my question is… what’s a good resource for someone like me to patch up this deficit and learn how to interpret the mathematics in quantum mechanical terms? Whenever I go looking for a “Quantum mechanics without the math ripped out”* primer, I never make it beyond the same sort of state that Wikipedia link leaves me in. I always feel like if I just had some physicist friend who I could ask questions of in person, they could explain these things to me quite quickly, but alas, I have only this board. So, uh, point me in a helpful direction.
*: And of course, “quantum mechanics with the math ripped out” just means “quantum mechanics with the quantum mechanics ripped out”, which is not of any use to me either…