# can someone send me hugs? **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [September 4, 2007, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056 "2007-09-04T23:00:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![justpassingthrough](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/bcef8e/32.png) [@justpassingthrough](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/justpassingthrough)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 12:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/21 "2007-09-05T00:59:03Z")
((((mhairi2222)))) My sympathies on the loss of the relationship you hoped for. But congratulations on gaining the freedom to go and build an even better life. ---
**Author:** ![freckafree](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/freckafree/32/3050_2.png) [@freckafree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/freckafree)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 1:40am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/22 "2007-09-05T01:40:26Z")
**{{{{mhairi2222}}}}** Count me in the “good riddance” crowd. ---
**Author:** ![Alice\_The\_Goon](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Alice\_The\_Goon](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alice_The_Goon)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 1:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/23 "2007-09-05T01:43:51Z")
I’m not a big hugger, so I’ll just pat your back and make comforting sounds. There, there, it’ll be okay. Sounds to me like maybe he’s a sex addict, and we all know that addicts must come to a rock bottom, right? So I’d be a good friend to him and go ahead and let everyone know about what he did, so that he might reach that bottom sooner, and then the sooner he can get help. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mhairi2222](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ee7513/32.png) [@mhairi2222](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/mhairi2222)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 1:44am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/24 "2007-09-05T01:44:32Z")
i would sqee at the kitty pics, but i’m too busy missing my own cat, that he has at his parents. I miss my kittie very much. **Cervaise No, she should upload the video to Youtube and send a link to his mom.** I’ve already told his mum what was going on, She’s probably the best thing that came out of us. Anyhoo, i’m gonna rise above the whole thing. I’d love to cut up his suit, but alas, i’m not going to. I’m going to rise above as much as i can. find a hot guy to snog!! thats my plan! take care xxxx ---
**Author:** ![thirdwarning](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ecccb3/32.png) [@thirdwarning](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/thirdwarning)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 7:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/25 "2007-09-05T07:11:35Z")
[QUOTE=mhairi2222] I’m just so sad about the life that we have lost. I can’t believe how much I hate him.QUOTE] Here’s another hug or two, and a fistfull of tissues should you need them. Go ahead if you feel like it. But don’t be too sad about the life you’ve lost. Think about what it really would have been like, with him still doing this kind of thing. Hang around here, get the support you need, cry if you need to, but don’t waste too much energy hating him. He’s just not worth your time. And there’s better out there. ---
**Author:** ![Leah\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/57b2e6/32.png) [@Leah\_M](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Leah_M)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 7:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/26 "2007-09-05T07:28:50Z")
Hugs from me, also, and I wish you the best. What a creep. ---
**Author:** ![Ice\_Wolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/dfb087/32.png) [@Ice\_Wolf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ice_Wolf)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 9:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/27 "2007-09-05T09:13:21Z")
Got tons of hugs for free, right here. {{{{{ **mhairi2222** }}}}} ---
**Author:** ![bbs2k](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/e495f1/32.png) [@bbs2k](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/bbs2k)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 9:24am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/28 "2007-09-05T09:24:49Z")
Yikes, huggles you mcuh. ---
**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 11:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/29 "2007-09-05T11:12:16Z")
Sending supporting thoughts your way! ---
**Author:** ![Dung\_Beetle](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dung_beetle/32/7945_2.png) [@Dung\_Beetle](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dung_Beetle)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 12:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/30 "2007-09-05T12:58:46Z")
Well, I sort of know what it’s like. The internet hadn’t been invented back then, so my fella had to settle for waving his thing around at various girls in real life. Eventually our fourteen year old neighbor felt guilty enough about “borrowing” my boyfriend to tell me about it. Feels like a punch in the stomach, doesn’t it? I’m sorry you had to deal with this jerk, but congratulations on your escape! ---
**Author:** ![Sunrazor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2acd7d/32.png) [@Sunrazor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunrazor)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 1:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/31 "2007-09-05T13:17:25Z")
I never pass up a chance to hug a pretty girl. Just something refreshing and life-affirming about it. So, ((((((mhairi2222)))))) Okay, now, let me see if I understand: The man in your life was making video of himself engaged in onanism, then sending the video to other women? Is that something women want to see? I mean, what the …??? ---
**Author:** ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 2:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/32 "2007-09-05T14:14:57Z")
{{{{{{{mhairi2222)}}}}}}} Sending you hugs and chocolate - and know that you’re better off now and free to find a guy who treats you the way you SHOULD be treated. ---
**Author:** ![Zeriel](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/58956e/32.png) [@Zeriel](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zeriel)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 2:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/33 "2007-09-05T14:22:43Z")
[QUOTE=Sunrazor] I never pass up a chance to hug a pretty girl. Just something refreshing and life-affirming about it. So, ((((((mhairi2222)))))) Okay, now, let me see if I understand: The man in your life was making video of himself engaged in onanism, then sending the video to other women? Is that something women want to see? I mean, what the …??? [/QUOTE] Chicks on the internet are (or can be) weird, man, and sometimes want to see weird things. That’s all I’m going to say to sum up my “long-distance-relationships with people I’ve never met in person” days (back in the heady days of the early internet, before being nerdy was cool). **mhari2222** , I never understand what possesses people to go and do things like that–shouldn’t everyone know by now that internet goings-on are just as real as phone or letters or whatever? Regardless, _hugs_. ---
**Author:** ![Autolycus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/22d042/32.png) [@Autolycus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Autolycus)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 4:10pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/34 "2007-09-05T16:10:42Z")
\*Glomps **Mhari2222**! Good vibes going your way. ---
**Author:** ![nashiitashii](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/7c8e57/32.png) [@nashiitashii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/nashiitashii)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 4:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/35 "2007-09-05T16:21:03Z")
{{{{Mhari2222}}}} I had one serious boyfriend in high school. Should’ve broken up with him when I graduated and went away to college, but somehow my lust drive and my emotions got mixed up and I decided to see if a long distance thing would work. Not more than a month after I am away, he starts seeing another girl and having sex with her. Sometimes when you’re in the middle of a relationship, you can’t see the danger signals well enough to get the heck out of there. I suggest you sell the ring for as much as you can get and use it toward your driving lessons. The best revenge is to be better off without them. ---
**Author:** ![BaneSidhe](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/c5a1d2/32.png) [@BaneSidhe](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BaneSidhe)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 4:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/36 "2007-09-05T16:25:00Z")
[big hugs and lots of chocolate] I so hope karma comes around to bite him in the ass big time! ---
**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 4:49pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/37 "2007-09-05T16:49:09Z")
Gee, reminds me of when I found out a certain “gent” who’d been asking me to marry him and bear his children had been going hunting any and every night I wasn’t “available” (and God was he a lousy lay!). On one hand it was “man, smoke does get in your eyes, anybody got eyedrops?” and on the other the main feeling was relief that I’d found out before we actually went and got hitched 😛 Hugs, chocolate and bad movies! ---
**Author:** ![Zebra](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/c0e974/32.png) [@Zebra](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zebra)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 5:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/38 "2007-09-05T17:42:27Z")
Since when is cyber wanking a deal breaker? Man some women are so picky. I wonder if your ex realizes that the young women he sent those videos to were actually old men. {{{{Mhari2222}}}} ---
**Author:** ![Kythereia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/e8c25b/32.png) [@Kythereia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Kythereia)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 6:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/39 "2007-09-05T18:44:58Z")
I’ve got a spare arrow here, if you want to stick it any place… _many, many hugs and some Bailey’s_ ---
**Author:** ![Sunrazor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2acd7d/32.png) [@Sunrazor](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sunrazor)\ **Post date:** [September 5, 2007, 6:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056/40 "2007-09-05T18:52:22Z")
[QUOTE=Zebra] I wonder if your ex realizes that the young women he sent those videos to were actually old men. [/QUOTE] 😛 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056.md?page=1) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/can-someone-send-me-hugs/418056.md?page=3)