'88 Grand Am.
Wire harness— Metra part #70-1858 if memory serves. $17 full retail; about $4-6 wholesale, depending on the dealer’s buying power.
Antenna adapter— Metra #40-GM10. $11 full retail; about $1-2 wholesale.
Dash kit— The best kit to use is the Metra 99-4544, $17 full retail; about $6-8 wholesale.
The 99-4544 has a variety of front faceplates for the installer to choose from. One is flat and looks nice. The other ones stick out of the dash and look lousy, but this is to allow for more mounting depth.
On all the Grand Ams I’ve done, I’ve managed to use the flat face, occasionally having to trim away a few plastic bits inside the back of the Grand Am’s dash in order to do so.
There are plenty of other dash kits available for these cars, including the Metra 99-4500, but they all have bumped-out faces. I don’t like the look of them, but you might not mind.
It is highly likely your installer will have another customer’s GM vehicle that is being worked on. If you’re at all concerned about the appearance of the dash kit, ask to see how it looks in a similar car.
Speaker harness—I forget the part number for those, but they are available. $5 full retail; $3 wholesale.
Other things to keep in mind:
Most likely, the radio you buy will have a detachable faceplate, to deter theft. All radios except the low-end Pioneers will come with a plastic case for the face. The store may offer to sell you a fabric or vinyl case, and they are pretty stylish and durable.
But some people never both taking the face off anyway—if you’re not sure if you’ll do it, live with the regular case for a while before shelling out for the nicer one.
Also, I’m pretty sure those cars take a 3 1/2" in the dash, which is a very small speaker. It might be possible to shoehorn a 4" in there, but they’re going to charge you extra. 5 1/4" isn’t going to happen. Not unless you want to go with a non-factory location, such as cutting them into the doors.
Since your front speakers are so small, you might benefit from a radio that includes a crossover—that is, a device that will prevent low bass from making its way to the front speakers.
If you feed bass to those little speakers, they won’t make much bass sound anyway, and they’re likely to sound distorted from trying.
Higher-end Pioneer radios (including their three MP3 models—the DEH-P7400MP, 8400MP, and 9400MP) have this feature.
Also, you mentioned that your current system loses reception sometimes. It is hard to say whether this the fault of the radio itself, the antenna, or the antenna’s wiring. Since you plan to replace the radio anway, just go ahead and do it—and it is most likely the radio that is bad, anyway. But you’ll find out for sure after you replace it.