Robby, I am glad you did not intend to say anything hurtful, and sorry I overreacted.
>People could have been killed in either case, and you were evidently content to watch it happen.
>If I watched … not be able to live with myself…
>However, I see the situation with the mother and the baby carriage pretty clearly as one where any bystander is obligated to do something…
>In my opinion, this is worse than someone who witnesses a crime and fails to call the police.
Surely you can see these are terrible accusations. While I don’t know how this point got confused, let me explain that I am not content to let a mother and baby be killed. Please let us not debate my justification in letting innocents die.
>In the cases the OP presents, the OP’s actions can actually prevent the accident.
This is the whole point, here. How do you know this? Don’t just tell me to read the OP again. My understanding of the OP is definitive here. The entire point of my posting was to find out whether taking action would make the situation better or worse.
> It seems pretty cut and dried to me, because I think that most people’s first reaction to a nearby honk would be to freeze and look around for danger.
>honking sure couldn’t hurt, and is likely to help in the vast majority of situations.
>Honking, yelling, etc., in the vast majority of cases, I think, help to make people look around and pay attention to what is going on around them.
OK, if you believe hearing a horn makes most people freeze and look around for danger, then you also would think sounding the horn was the best strategy. But my posting was about that belief versus the alternative, not about whether to bother lifting a finger to save lives. I re-emphasize: the horn could also distract somebody from the hazard, which as far as we know at the time they might otherwise notice. Clearly, both views have some merit and some adherents here in this thread and elsewhere.
I think my first reaction when I hear a horn is to direct my attention towards where the sound seems to be coming from (unless perhaps I’ve just been having this particular conversation). I don’t recall anyone ever sounding their horn to warn about some hazard other than themselves, so it’s not like this expectation is necessarily imbedded by driving experience.
Even in Quartz’s posting, I think it looks like:
>“Use only while your vehicle is moving and you need to warn other road users of your presence.”
and
>"…except when another road user poses a danger."
endorse opposite answers this question (Quartz’s bolding notwithstanding). They also appear to be contradictory (though perhaps only because we don’t have the whole context here). I think I would lump these two quotes into the “no horn” and “yes horn” camps, based on what is here.