I beg to dfiffer. It sounds to me like you got a bad religion.
Like many other faiths, although not all, Catholicism teaches as a matter of doctrine that it is the one and only true religion, and all others are false. In my opinion, this is prejudice and bigotry, pure and simple. The fact that you have encountered a thoroughly bigoted attitude within the Church is, to me, no more remarkable than saying you went to a fish market and saw some fish. What else is one to expect?
The Catholics who are chiming in with the ‘Hey, you just got at bad example’ excuse don’t know their own theology. If this man has been ordained as an RC priest, then according to Catholic teaching he has been blessed with the gifts of the Holy Spirit, which are supposed to include wisdom. Anyone round here impressed with this guy’s wisdom? Nope, didn’t think so.
The requirement to raise any children within the Catholic faith comes as standard with any Catholic marriage. This is just a standard mechanism for trying to ensure the brainwashing process is carried out from an early age, before children develop the necessary emotional and intellectual defences to realise when people are shoving intolerant, superstitious medieval clatrap down their throats. It’s a very effective trick. Many people, infected with the meme at an early age, never manage to escape it.
In my opinion, it was perhaps a little naieve to expect any other response from this ‘man of God’ (ho ho ho). Do you expect an RC priest to say that although he has decided to follow Catholicism, there are nonetheless many other faiths that have just as much if not more going for them, are certainly one hell of a lot less neurotic about sexual relationships, are less irresponsible regarding the propaganda about birth control in developing nations with endemic levels of AIDS infection, and so you’re entitled to pursue a different faith (or none) as a thinking human being with an intellect and some adult common sense?
Also, in my opinion, going to an RC priest for advice about relationships is no smarter than going to Bill Clinton for advice about celibacy. You have to ask, what would HE know about it? The greatest teacher in this life is experience. By defintion, RC priests have no experience of marriage.