# Catholics and Anal Sex

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750>\
**Category:** Great Debates\
**Created:** [April 20, 2003, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750 "2003-04-20T01:57:58Z")\
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**Author:** ![TJ555\_The\_Golfer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/41988e/32.png) [@TJ555\_The\_Golfer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TJ555_The_Golfer)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 1:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/1 "2003-04-20T01:57:58Z")

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Can married Catholics have anal sex without it being a sin? What about unmarried Catholics?

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/2 "2003-04-20T02:04:01Z")

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I don’t know about married Catholics, although I’m sure it’s not a sin.

Unmarried Catholics, d’uh, of course not.

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**Author:** ![spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@spectrum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/spectrum)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 2:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/3 "2003-04-20T02:04:20Z")

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Since the point of marital sex is procreation, and the potential for procreation must be allowed in all sex acts, I do not believe that anal sex amongst married Catholics would be licit.

Sex of any kind for unmarried persons is considered sinful under Catholic doctrine.

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**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 2:12am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/4 "2003-04-20T02:12:36Z")

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> \*Originally posted by spectrum \*  
> **Since the point of marital sex is procreation, and the potential for procreation must be allowed in all sex acts, I do not believe that anal sex amongst married Catholics would be licit.**

Does this mean that sex between unfertile or elderly couples is a sin?

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**Author:** ![g8rguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/7cd45c/32.png) [@g8rguy](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/g8rguy)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 2:16am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/5 "2003-04-20T02:16:10Z")

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I am not a Catholic, but I believe it’s that the purpose of sex is procreative or unitative, isn’t it? In which case, sex between unfertile or elderly couples is certainly okay in its unitative aspect. I don’t know for sure, however.

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**Author:** ![spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@spectrum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/spectrum)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 2:25am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/6 "2003-04-20T02:25:33Z")

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Sex between those who cannot bear children due to age or health, what have you, is not sinful. However, fertile people having sex in such a way that is not open to procreation is always sinful.

Now, this may mean that elderly, married Catholics can have anal sex. I’m not quite sure.

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**Author:** ![John\_Mace](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/john_mace/32/185_2.png) [@John\_Mace](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/John_Mace)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 2:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/7 "2003-04-20T02:38:18Z")

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Spec:

Too logical. I’m sure it’s still a sin.

TJ:

Thanks for making my evening!

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**Author:** ![JRDelirious](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jrdelirious/32/9531_2.png) [@JRDelirious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JRDelirious)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 2:38am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/8 "2003-04-20T02:38:31Z")

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AFAICT, the rule is that , the sex act must not preclude the possibility of procreation, IF you were capable of reproduction. The rule forbids acts that are non-procreative _by design of the act_ as opposed to due to a condition of one of the spouses. The usual reading of this is that any “unnatural” sex is out of the question.

However I am not clear on what the position is on, say, oral contact as _foreplay_ leading to consummation of “proper” natural intercourse.

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**Author:** ![Horatio\_Hellpop](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/e5b9ba/32.png) [@Horatio\_Hellpop](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Horatio_Hellpop)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 3:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/9 "2003-04-20T03:02:34Z")

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As a point of information, does _any_ religion endorse anal sex?

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**Author:** ![Dr.Lao](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/2bfe46/32.png) [@Dr.Lao](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dr.Lao)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 3:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/10 "2003-04-20T03:08:38Z")

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And if not, can we start one?

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**Author:** ![JRDelirious](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jrdelirious/32/9531_2.png) [@JRDelirious](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JRDelirious)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 3:11am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/11 "2003-04-20T03:11:01Z")

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I’ve heard the Cathar heretics of the Middle Ages did.

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**Author:** ![TJ555\_The\_Golfer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/41988e/32.png) [@TJ555\_The\_Golfer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TJ555_The_Golfer)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 3:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/12 "2003-04-20T03:27:41Z")

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What about anal sex as foreplay? Can a Catholic married couple have anal sex until it time for the man to orgasm and then switch to vaginal sex for the orgasm?

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**Author:** ![Davebear](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bcef8e/32.png) [@Davebear](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Davebear)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 3:33am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/13 "2003-04-20T03:33:13Z")

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I dunno what the church says about that switcheroo, but healthcare professional will tell you it’s not a good idea. Going from vaginal to anal is fine, but anal to vaginal can lead to recurring yeast infections, among other unpleasant things.

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**Author:** ![Blackeyes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f6c823/32.png) [@Blackeyes](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackeyes)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 4:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/14 "2003-04-20T04:07:31Z")

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[hijack]  
To the OP: Weren’t you banned recently?  
[/hijack]

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**Author:** ![TJ555\_The\_Golfer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/41988e/32.png) [@TJ555\_The\_Golfer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TJ555_The_Golfer)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 4:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/15 "2003-04-20T04:13:19Z")

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“[hijack]  
To the OP: Weren’t you banned recently?  
[/hijack]”

Not that that I am aware of.

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**Author:** ![spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@spectrum](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/spectrum)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 4:15am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/16 "2003-04-20T04:15:37Z")

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Heh. You ever see _Escape From New York_?

“Hey… Snake… Man, I heard you were dead…”  
“Snake Plisken? Aren’t you dead?”

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**Author:** ![Khadaji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/9e8a1a/32.png) [@Khadaji](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Khadaji)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 4:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/17 "2003-04-20T04:19:20Z")

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The story that was told in the locker room when I was young was that you should date Catholic girls because they would let you take them from behind - they had to remain virgins, but anal sex was not a sin.

I never personally verified this at the time, I’m just passing on the locker room “wisdom”

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**Author:** ![shijinn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/cc9497/32.png) [@shijinn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/shijinn)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 8:22am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/18 "2003-04-20T08:22:32Z")

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how about the various forms of birth control? since it disrupts procreation it would be a sin too?

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**Author:** ![hajario](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/hajario/32/171_2.png) [@hajario](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hajario)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 8:28am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/19 "2003-04-20T08:28:39Z")

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Artificial birth control is not allowed by the Roman Catholic Churc.

Haj

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**Author:** ![Freyr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/freyr/32/5763_2.png) [@Freyr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freyr)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2003, 9:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/catholics-and-anal-sex/169750/20 "2003-04-20T09:48:52Z")

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> [@](#):
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> \*Originally posted by Krokodil \*  
> \*\*As a point of information, does _any_ religion endorse anal sex? \*\*

I don’t know of any religion that specifically _endorses_ anal sex. But many don’t seem to mind non-traditional sexual practices as long as they don’t violate marriage vows or incest taboos.

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