# Celebrities who have a surprising spouse or girl/boyfriend

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**Created:** [August 20, 2021, 1:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213 "2021-08-20T13:20:49Z")\
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I laughed my ass off when I read on her Wikipedia that

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> Martha Stewart dated [Anthony Hopkins](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anthony_Hopkins) but ended the relationship after she saw _[The Silence of the Lambs](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Silence_of_the_Lambs_(film))_ . She stated she was unable to avoid associating Hopkins with the character of [Hannibal Lecter](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hannibal_Lecter).[[90]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martha_Stewart#cite_note-90)[[91]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martha_Stewart#cite_note-91)

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Hervé Villechaize and Susan Tyrrell.

[![](https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/s/4y2hu1r0kl471mo/Herve.png?dl=0) ](https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/s/4y2hu1r0kl471mo/Herve.png?dl=0)

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 4:13pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/63 "2021-08-21T16:13:12Z")

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These are a bit ‘tabloid’ but:

Singer **Elton John** (then admittedly bisexual but widely considered as gay) marrying recording engineer Renate Blauel was a surprise. After it ended four years later John declared he was gay.

In a similar fashion **Michael Jackson** ’s dubious sexuality meant his marriages to **Lisa Marie Presley** and Debbie Rowe looked unlikely. Although he had previous relationships with **Tatum O’Neal** and **Brooke Shields**. He supposedly proposed marriage to **Elizabeth Taylor** but she declined.

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Mika Brzezinski and Joe Scarborough

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**Author:** ![lobotomyboy63](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/lobotomyboy63/32/2900_2.png) [@lobotomyboy63](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lobotomyboy63)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 5:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/65 "2021-08-21T17:01:56Z")

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> **[Maury Povich and Connie Chung Share the Secret of Their 36-Year Marriage](https://www.oprahdaily.com/entertainment/a34508396/maury-povich-wife-connie-chung/)**
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> When it comes to the talk show icon, she IS the wife.

Mr. Tabloid married Miss Serious Journalist

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 5:04pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/66 "2021-08-21T17:04:52Z")

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> [@nelliebly](#):
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> When I saw Gene Wilder in _Blazing Saddles_ , I thought, “How have I missed seeing how attractive this man is? Those blonde curls, those twinkling blue eyes!” He’s not classically handsome, but classically handsome can be du

This. 100%. I thought he was deeply sexy as Willy Wonka. Is that weird?

I also think Gilda Radner was fine looking. She was too skinny, but I don’t know if that was because of her cancer.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 5:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/67 "2021-08-21T17:14:11Z")

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> [@nelliebly](#):
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> The marriage of James Carville and Mary Matalin has always puzzled me.

Well they’ve both said they don’t talk politics at home. It must have worked since they’ve been married almost 30 years now.

I guess it helps to have someone who knows how demanding being on the campaign trail is.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/68 "2021-08-21T17:25:10Z")

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> [@lobotomyboy63](#):
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> Holland Taylor (b 1943) and Sarah Paulson (b 1974)

[Tread carefully](https://hellogiggles.com/news/sarah-paulson-girlfriend-holland-taylor-ageist/).

> Anybody says anything about any person I love in a way that is disrespectful or cruel and I want to cut a bitch

Full disclosure, I didn’t read the article, and I don’t know what interview that quote came from, but it’s been circulating for a while. Sarah is, understandably, annoyed with people pointing out their age difference.

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Ric Ocasek and Paulina Porizkova.

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> [@ISiddiqui](#):
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> For a long while people wondered how in the world Pete Davidson was dating Arianna Grande. Of course then Davidson started dating Phoebe Dynavor (of Bridgerton fame).

This guy with anyone. I don’t even know who he is but he always shows up in my Google news feed entertainment dating a different gorgeous woman. It’s not his looks and the dating all seems to be short term. Maybe he’s a good drug source or his charm wears off quickly.

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> [@mordecaiB](#):
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> This guy with anyone. I don’t even know who he is but he always shows up in my Google news feed entertainment dating a different gorgeous woman. It’s not his looks and the dating all seems to be short term. Maybe he’s a good drug source or his charm wears off quickly.

Maybe he’s hung like a mule. Seriously, a face and a personality like his, I’m guessing that when he unzips his fly two hooved legs and a large head that brays jumps out.

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Could be that too. The guy looks like he’s either going into or getting out of drug rehab. Doesn’t look like he’s well acquainted with soap or shampoo either.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/73 "2021-08-21T19:44:33Z")

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> [@ISiddiqui](#):
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> Well they’ve both said they don’t talk politics at home. I

Yes, and back in the day, I admired their restraint. Since then, much of daily life has become politicized, including COVID measures, so I imagine conversations must get pretty tricky. Then again, the views they express publicly might be more passionate than their views outside the media.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 8:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/74 "2021-08-21T20:56:05Z")

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Kellyanne and George Conway.

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Zach Braff and Florence Pugh  
Flavor Flav and Brigitte Nielsen  
Tom Cruise and Cher dated for a while. Not long, I don’t think.

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**Post date:** [August 21, 2021, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/celebrities-who-have-a-surprising-spouse-or-girl-boyfriend/949213/76 "2021-08-21T21:08:46Z")

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> [@Hari\_Seldon](#):
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> Kellyanne and George Conway.

That one’s hard to beat.

> [@Rick\_Kitchen](#):
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> Tom Cruise and Cher

Cher and Gregg Allman  
Cher and Gene Simmons

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Alan Greenspan and Andrea Mitchell.

I have met Alan Greenspan, and I can’t imagine anyone being attracted to him.

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> [@Mundane\_Super\_Hero](#):
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> > [@mordecaiB](#):
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> > This guy with anyone. I don’t even know who he is but he always shows up in my Google news feed entertainment dating a different gorgeous woman. It’s not his looks and the dating all seems to be short term. Maybe he’s a good drug source or his charm wears off quickly.
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> Maybe he’s hung like a mule. Seriously, a face and a personality like his, I’m guessing that when he unzips his fly two hooved legs and a large head that brays jumps out.

I listen to radio shows and podcasts made by his friends who are comics. The all agree he is, as Bernie Mac called it, “blessed.” And Ariana Grande was pretty open about it. I know you were dying to know.

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> [@Loach](#):
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> I know you were dying to know.

It is good news, in a way. Since he doesn’t seem to be with anyone for a long period of time, maybe size _doesn’t_ matter to women. That makes me think that guys like me, who only have a 12" penis, have a chance with the likes of Kate Beckinsale.

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I went to the Counting Crows concert the other night, and was reminded that Adam Duritz dated both Jennifer Aniston and Courtney Cox. Both of those are far more disparate than Lyle Lovitt and Julia Roberts.

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