As a pilot, I was trained to fly an airplane and talk on a radio at the same time.
When I first got a cellphone, I thought “Gee, driving is simpler than flying an airplane, I should be able to drive and talk at the same time”. Uh… no. talking on a cellphone was MUCH more distracting than talking on the airplane radio, even though times when I was talking on the radio - such as landing - involved doing some complicated things that required good focus.
I talked to a bunch of my pilot friends and it seems this is a common phenomena amongst us.
I sat down and I thought about WHY this would be so - in flying, having a radio and talking to other people enhances safety, why would the opposite be true in a car?
Then it hit me - in the airplane, I’m talking about what I’m doing, at that moment. The conversation is all here I am, there I’m going, this is what I see happening right now. It’s not a distraction, it actually helps keep me focused by not allowing my mouth to run on about trivia to the passenger next to me. And aviation radio is required to stick strictly to the business at hand, casual conversation is not only discouraged, it can incur penalties.
Cellphones, on the other hand… you can talk about anything. Including emotionally charged items that only further distract you. The conversations tend to be about anything BUT what you’re doing. And I think that’s really the problem - what it does to your mind. And that’s why hands-free sets don’t make much difference. It’s not so much what your hands are doing, the problem is your mind is elsewhere. That, really, is the problem with ALL driving distractions - it takes your mind off driving, which is far more dangerous than taking one hand off the wheel.
Then there is the tyranny of the phone - I’ve had people yell at me because I didn’t answer their call instantly - nevermind my voice mail message specifically says I will NOT answer the phone while the car is moving. So the phone rings. I wait the few minutes until it is safe to answer. I call the person back. I get screamed at. Too effing bad - my safety is more important than anything you have to say to me. But there is this cultural thing where people feel they have to answer that ring IMMEDIATELY. No, you don’t - trust me, the world will not end if you wait. Likewise, there was one occassion where I was driving and talking (yes, I still do it on side streets or stopped in a traffic jam) and literally dropped the phone to deal with a situation. Person on the other end went ballistic. Gee, I guess I was supposed to engage the time stasis device to allow me to complete the call/explain WTF was going on? No - driving takes precedence, sorry. But while I will drop the phone, literally, without taking the time to explain many other people will not, due to training in politeness and such. I’m all for politeness, but not when it’s a hazard, which is can be in some situations.
As for older drivers… yes, there should be testing of driving skills and reflexes after a certain point. Personally, I’m all for this at ANY age. But if you don’t have alternatives to driving you’ll only wind up with illegal drivers.