What exactly do you think motivates people to risk arrest, beating, or death at the hands of police to tear the statues down in defiance of the law? This isn’t just talk, people are taking to the streets to damage or destroy these monuments to rape, torture, murder, and exploitation of black people. Your snide dismissal of the feelings of black people is not unexpected, but says a lot more about you than it does about the people fighting the memorialization of white supremacy.
The City of Seattle does not have a monument to Stalin. The statue you’re talking about is of Lenin, as has been pointed out, and is privately owned, so is completely different from monuments owned and maintained by governments and sitting on government buildings. It was bought by a private individual as a collector’s item and is held on their property, there’s no government action keeping it there. Further, despite right-wing propaganda, there is no credible evidence that the city of Seattle is preparing to implement a Leninist government. There is abundant evidence that the states with statues celebrating confederates had white supremacist governments and continue to have strong influences along those lines in government - the statues themselves are a stark indicator.
And again, people aren’t ‘falling to their knees weeping in self pity’, they’re grabbing ropes and taking down the statues since appealing to the decency of Republican legislatures has proven to be a fool’s task. Your attempt to paint them as whiny snowflakes doesn’t match reality at all.