# Child with SS parents barred from San Diego (private) school.

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088>\
**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [September 30, 2015, 10:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088 "2015-09-30T22:57:10Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 13\
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**Author:** ![TriPolar](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tripolar/32/3008_2.png) [@TriPolar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TriPolar)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 7:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/81 "2015-10-01T19:14:42Z")

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> [@Merneith](#):
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> You need to read this article:  
> [Kindergarten Student Kicked Out Of Mt. Erie Christian Academy Because She Has Two Moms - Inquisitr](http://www.inquisitr.com/2456838/kindergarten-student-kicked-out-of-mt-erie-christian-academy-because-she-has-two-moms/)
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> The parents are not at fault here. The child attended the school’s pre-school and pre-K programs. Then the school rewrote the rules over the summer.
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> The school changed the rules. If anyone’s plotting something, it’s the school.

That’s very interesting. I suppose then the parents were acting reasonably, and the school is using the child and her parents to prove they are True Christians.

Dear Parents of this child,

I apologize for calling you idiots.

Sincerely,  
TriPolar

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**Author:** ![Shodan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9f8e36/32.png) [@Shodan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shodan)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 7:15pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/82 "2015-10-01T19:15:22Z")

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The school is plotting to keep the children of same-sex couples out. I don’t think that is very secret.

Regards,  
Shodan

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 7:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/83 "2015-10-01T19:27:44Z")

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> [@Shodan](#):
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> Setting up the parents by rejecting the daughter so that other people would GoFundME for their tuition somewhere else?

Setting up the parents so other people would GoFundMe _for the school_, as with Kim Davis, the anti-gay pizza shop lady, the wedding cake baker, and so on.

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**Author:** ![Algher](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Algher](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Algher)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/84 "2015-10-01T19:44:26Z")

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> [@TriPolar](#):
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> Why did a same sex couple send their child to a Christian school? Was it not obvious that it was the kind of place that would act in that way?

I send my son to a private Christian school, and there is at least one same sex parenting couple there, who I know because they also attend my church.

It is not always obvious where a school falls on the spectrum.

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**Author:** ![Smapti](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/smapti/32/17938_2.png) [@Smapti](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smapti)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 7:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/85 "2015-10-01T19:44:37Z")

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> [@not\_what\_you\_d\_expect](#):
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> San Diego is pretty liberal, isn’t it?

If it is now, then the political climate has shifted considerably from when I was a lad.

We did elect Roger Hedgecock, after all.

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**Author:** ![davidm](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/davidm/32/225_2.png) [@davidm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/davidm)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 7:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/86 "2015-10-01T19:54:52Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> \*“I love my two moms.”
> 
> Those were the words of a little girl, who sat in front of a coffee table drawing pictures of her family instead of sitting in a kindergarten classroom at Mt. Erie Christian Academy with her peers.\*
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> [http://www.10news.com/news/team-10-girl-barred-from-san-diego-school-due-to-lesbian-parents](http://www.10news.com/news/team-10-girl-barred-from-san-diego-school-due-to-lesbian-parents)
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> A woman… described herself as the director of Mt. Erie [the school], told Team 10 the school has a non-discrimination policy. …“The Bible says homosexuality is a sin. We don’t condone any sinful lifestyles.”\*
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> Non-descrimination my ass. I honestly thought we were above this shit already. But allowing this to happen to a little child who, by all accounts, is innocent of any wrongdoing is insane. Big {{{hug}}} to the child.
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> I think the Bible says something about those without sins throwing the first stone too.

“We’re using the fundamentalist Christian definition of the term _non-discrimination_, meaning that we define the word in a way that doesn’t include people we find icky”.

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**Author:** ![jasg](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jasg](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jasg)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 8:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/87 "2015-10-01T20:08:21Z")

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> [@VinylTurnip](#):
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> Tell me I’m not the only person who clicked this thread to find out how the hell a kid could have 55 parents.

I wondered about Stainless Steel parents…

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**Author:** ![Ethilrist](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/ethilrist/32/4604_2.png) [@Ethilrist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Ethilrist)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 8:21pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/88 "2015-10-01T20:21:20Z")

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> [@simster](#):
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> aren’t we all sinners based on 1 person eating 1 damn apple?

Well, the Jewish people are…

I think it’s darned nice of this school to point out to people that they’re going to blame kids for things they know they didn’t do. Saves a lot of time, really.

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**Author:** ![Drunky\_Smurf](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/drunky_smurf/32/449_2.png) [@Drunky\_Smurf](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Drunky_Smurf)\
**Post date:** [October 1, 2015, 8:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/89 "2015-10-01T20:34:15Z")

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> [@TriPolar](#):
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> I apologize for calling you idiots.

No, the parents are still idiots. They enrolled their child in a school that is/was going to teach their child, for years, that her parents are evil and will burn in hell forever.

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**Author:** ![Bridget\_Burke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/7cd45c/32.png) [@Bridget\_Burke](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bridget_Burke)\
**Post date:** [October 2, 2015, 12:09am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/90 "2015-10-02T00:09:28Z")

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> [@Drunky\_Smurf](#):
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> No, the parents are still idiots. They enrolled their child in a school that is/was going to teach their child, for years, that her parents are evil and will burn in hell forever.

The school hadn’t updated their rule book when the kid started attending. Only after she’d been there a while did they start discriminating against THAT SORT of sinner–& their offspring.

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**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2015, 4:23am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/91 "2015-10-03T04:23:07Z")

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> [@Morgenstern](#):
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> _“We don’t condone any sinful lifestyles.”_

Generally speaking, church-based/religious-based educational institutions in the Western world (i.e., most of them of pre-Enlightenment foundation, and post-Enlightenment a great many) have no very consistent track record for inquiring into the moral character of students’ parents. **Nor could they survive if they did.**

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**Author:** ![BrainGlutton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@BrainGlutton](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BrainGlutton)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2015, 4:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/92 "2015-10-03T04:27:05Z")

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> [@VinylTurnip](#):
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> Tell me I’m not the only person who clicked this thread to find out how the hell a kid could have 55 parents.

I’m sorry, but, yes, you are.

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**Author:** ![Jackmannii](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/jackmannii/32/311_2.png) [@Jackmannii](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jackmannii)\
**Post date:** [October 3, 2015, 2:51pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/child-with-ss-parents-barred-from-san-diego-private-school/733088/93 "2015-10-03T14:51:36Z")

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[QUOTE=Morgenstern]  
“I love my two moms.”  
[/QUOTE]  
Heather? Is that you?

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