We were middle class, but I had no clue. When my parents split up, apparently then we were poor. I didn’t realize we were poor until mom told us she couldn’t afford to give us lunch money (at a mere $0.50 a pop for lunch; we’re talking $2.50 a week) so she had us put on the free lunch program. I didn’t even realize that meant we were poor until the first time I went through the lunch line. When you’re middle class, you got to go to the lunch room once a week and go buy a meal ticket for the week–but you had to keep track if it all week by yourself and if you lost it or forgot it, too bad so sad. Each lunch, the lunch lady would punch your ticket. Except if you were on free lunch, you were evidently not to be trusted to keep track of your meal ticket so the lunch lady kept the free lunch kids’ tickets right there in her little lockbox. When you got up to her in the line, she’d nod, pull your ticket out, punch it, and send you on through the line. All the other kids knew that, if you didn’t carry your own ticket, that meant you were poor. And, of course, this was an upper-middle to high-class school so the poor kids were made fun of quite a bit.
So I didn’t know I was poor until the snotty rich kids started making fun of me for it. Which could possibly be why I still have a bit of chip on my shoulder with wealthy people. I assume they were the same douchebags who made fun of me when I was little and they’ve grown up, but that means they’ve just learned to hide their derision better. Probably totally illogical, but I really don’t know that many rich people. Whenever I do though, I always get this sense they are looking down their noses at me.