# Cindy McCain is truly an awful human being

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [June 23, 2008, 2:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868 "2008-06-23T02:53:13Z")\
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**Author:** ![ArizonaTeach](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/45deac/32.png) [@ArizonaTeach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ArizonaTeach)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 12:55am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/141 "2008-06-25T00:55:28Z")

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[QUOTE=AimeeB]  
Cindy? Is that you?

Thanks for the links. Among the CEOs and Investment Bankers, she is the least professionally-experienced member of the CARE Board. She also stands beside plenty of CEOs, corporate founders and co-founders on the Operation SMILE Board. Really, is there any comparison? Inheriting a company your father started doesn’t count, for me, as a professional accreditation. She’s basically no more than a high-school special ed teacher with a lot of money. And, while I do respect special ed teachers, they’re no intellectuals. Among her activities in university, she was a cheerleader and a sorority member. That’s not exactly math club.

According to wikipedia, she spent most of McCain’s 2000 campaign “impress[ing] Republican voters with her looks and elegance at coffee shops and other small campaign settings, where she frequently referred to her children, carpooling, and charity work.” Well, thanks for that, Cindy. I mean, let’s face it- is there any depth to this woman whatsoever? If there is, I don’t see any evidence of it.  
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Un-fuckin’-real. I just want to get this straight. So, no, you don’t have any evidence that she’s a bimbo, and all of her charity work and the fact that, even though she was already rich she went through at least six years of college to get a degree in special education and taught special education at a low-income public school for several years, you still have the gall to say she has no depth? And, at least, you do acknowledge that the members of those boards aren’t socialites. Thanks for that. But for some reason, you think that Cindy McCain is the exception. Your partisanship is blinding you.

Call her a druggie, call her a thief, call her a homewrecker, whatever, I won’t argue. But by calling her a trophy-wife bimbo you’re showing your misogyny, and frankly, you should be ashamed.

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**Author:** ![ArizonaTeach](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/45deac/32.png) [@ArizonaTeach](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ArizonaTeach)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/142 "2008-06-25T00:56:50Z")

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[QUOTE=Squink]  
Is this not pretty typical of how offspring inherit companies? Putting quote marks around inherited does not make the fact of her inheritance any less true, it just makes you look pointlessly combative.  
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Was quoting the post. Was that wrong?

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**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 1:00am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/143 "2008-06-25T01:00:29Z")

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[QUOTE=BrainGlutton]  
Can I write in Elizabeth Kucinich?  
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Sure, if Dennis lets you get the pen in there…

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**Author:** ![elucidator](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/8edcca/32.png) [@elucidator](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elucidator)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 1:03am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/144 "2008-06-25T01:03:26Z")

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Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. But not this time.

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**Author:** ![Squink](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b5e925/32.png) [@Squink](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Squink)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 1:07am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/145 "2008-06-25T01:07:21Z")

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[QUOTE=ArizonaTeach]  
Was quoting the post. Was that wrong?  
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It looks more like a [scare quote](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scare_quote) than anything else when you quote a single word without “attribution”\*.

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\*I’m sure someone, somewhere said this once, so I’m putting quotes around, just to let everyone know I didn’t come up with the word all on my lonesome. 😉

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**Author:** ![Monty](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/monty/32/47_2.png) [@Monty](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Monty)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 7:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/146 "2008-06-25T07:26:06Z")

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[QUOTE=eleanorigby]  
But I’ve had enough fun at Cindy’s expense–I could pick on her name as well (can’t she at least be Cynthia? When I hear Cindy, I think Cindy Brady), but I’m done now. That felt good. 🙂 (need an evil smiley)  
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[Take that up with her parents.](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cindy_mccain)

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**Author:** ![eleanorigby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/ee7513/32.png) [@eleanorigby](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/eleanorigby)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/147 "2008-06-25T15:18:41Z")

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[QUOTE=Monty]  
[Take that up with her parents.](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cindy_mccain)  
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I read the Newsweek article last night and found out her name is actually Cindy Lou.

may god have mercy on us all… She is now Cindy Lou Who to me.

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**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 6:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/148 "2008-06-25T18:08:14Z")

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[QUOTE=ArizonaTeach]  
She has a masters in special education from USC, had a career teaching Down Syndrome children at a local high school before she took over the family business, is the chair of Hensely & Co. and on the board of directors for Operation Smile, CARE, and the HALO Trust. There’s lots of things you can call Cindy McCain, but bimbo is **not** one of them.  
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Depends on how you define bimbo - one definition I use is any women who sleeps with another woman’s husband. You can have a PhD in Theoretical Physics, but knowingly sleeping with another woman’s husband makes you a bimbo. i.e. not all definitions of bimbo imply dumb.

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**Author:** ![Tabula\_Rasa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a9adbd/32.png) [@Tabula\_Rasa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Tabula_Rasa)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 8:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/149 "2008-06-25T20:12:13Z")

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[QUOTE=Diogenes the Cynic]  
Plus she’s a plagiarist.  
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It’s true: the whole drug addiction/theft/homewrecker thing had been done to death way before she showed up on the scene.

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**Author:** ![AimeeB](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/c89c15/32.png) [@AimeeB](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AimeeB)\
**Post date:** [June 25, 2008, 10:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/150 "2008-06-25T22:35:42Z")

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[QUOTE=ArizonaTeach]  
Un-fuckin’-real. I just want to get this straight. So, no, you don’t have any evidence that she’s a bimbo, and all of her charity work and the fact that, even though she was already rich she went through at least six years of college to get a degree in special education and taught special education at a low-income public school for several years, you still have the gall to say she has no depth? And, at least, you do acknowledge that the members of those boards aren’t socialites. Thanks for that. But for some reason, you think that Cindy McCain is the exception. Your partisanship is blinding you.

Call her a druggie, call her a thief, call her a homewrecker, whatever, I won’t argue. But by calling her a trophy-wife bimbo you’re showing your misogyny, and frankly, you should be ashamed.  
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what I said was that every socialite is on some sort of charity board, not that charity boards are exclusively comprised of socialites. :rolleyes: and no, I don’t consider a teaching degree and some socialite charity work to be indicative of any particular depth.

From the Safire [article](http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9F06E6DA1031F932A35756C0A962958260&sec=&spon=&pagewanted=all) on trophy wives:

The term trophy wife, now firmly ensconced in the language, was coined by Julie Connelly…[who] wrote: “Powerful men are beginning to demand trophy wives. . . . The more money men make, the argument goes, the more self-assured they become, and the easier it is for them to think: I deserve a queen.”

McCain’s first wife, disabled and his age, apparently wasn’t the queen he felt he deserved after returning from overseas as a war hero. No, he deserved a slim, blonde, rich, special ed teacher (read: sweet and patient) who was also a former pageant winner, cheerleader, and sorority girl. Oh, and who was also 20 years younger than he was. And he didn’t just want a girlfriend, he wanted a different WIFE, and pretty badly- they got married just a month after he divorced Carol, and less than a year after meeting each other.

If that’s not the definition of trophy wife, I dunno what is. Also, she quit teaching after they got married and hasn’t since. No, now she smiles in pictures of disabled children in third-world countries and sits on the board of her father’s company. Yes, that’s very proactive of her. She’s a real go-getter, so independent and motivated!

You seem to be going out of your way to give her the benefit of the doubt.

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**Author:** ![Yeticus\_Rex](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/y/a698b9/32.png) [@Yeticus\_Rex](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Yeticus_Rex)\
**Post date:** [June 30, 2008, 10:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/151 "2008-06-30T22:18:24Z")

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Sounds like you (Aimee) should be more pissed off at John instead of Cindy, for giving her the opportunity to be a “bimbo”. Eh, whatever.

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**Author:** ![Sam\_Stone](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecccb3/32.png) [@Sam\_Stone](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sam_Stone)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2008, 3:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/152 "2008-07-01T03:18:01Z")

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I’m curious - does being a ‘bimbo trophy wife’ also include [adopting a dying child from Mother Theresa’s orphanage in Bangladesh](http://foreverparents.com/2008/06/john-mccain-adopted-one-of-his-children-from-bangladesh.html)?

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> Dadmag: Your youngest daughter Bridget is adopted. Why did you decide to adopt Bridget?
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> McCain: Well it was primarily my wife Cindy’s idea. She was in Bangladesh and she and some of the medical personnel visited Mother Theresa’s orphanage to try and help the children there. There were two little baby girls there. One had a heart problem the other a severe cleft palate. Cindy was very concerned about their ability to survive and their need for medical treatment, so she decided to bring them here for medical treatment. She fell in love with both of them. We decided to adopt Bridget. Two close friends of ours, adopted Mickey, the other child.

That little girl is now a senior in high school - after much medical expense paid for by the MCains. And the friend who adopted the other sick little girl? He said that he never saw a bill for the extensive medical services she needed. John and Cindy McCain arranged to pay for it all.

To John McCain’s credit, very few people know the story because he refuses to use his kids for political gain. Just like his three sons in the military, one of which is in Iraq.

Yes, please keep going after John and Cindy McCain’s character. It makes you look petty and foolish. And note that Barack Obama doesn’t seem to share your low opinions of John and Cindy McCain. Smart man.

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**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2008, 12:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/153 "2008-07-01T12:00:21Z")

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[QUOTE=Sam Stone]  
I’m curious - does being a ‘bimbo trophy wife’ also include [adopting a dying child from Mother Theresa’s orphanage in Bangladesh](http://foreverparents.com/2008/06/john-mccain-adopted-one-of-his-children-from-bangladesh.html)?

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It doesn’t create an exception. I’m an adoptive parent, I know a lot of adoptive parents - and adopting a special needs kid does not make you a saint. In fact, adopting is a very selfish thing to do in a lot of ways.

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**Author:** ![Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/b38774/32.png) [@Attack\_from\_the\_3rd\_dimension](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Attack_from_the_3rd_dimension)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2008, 1:03pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/154 "2008-07-01T13:03:28Z")

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[QUOTE=Cluricaun]  
Oh great, so how we’re going to invade British Columbia too?  
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Duuuuude. Just c’mon up dude, like, it’s Canada Day now, and we’re all home getting like, totally toasted. Later we’re gonna go see the fireworks, man, and it’s gonna be awesome.

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**Author:** ![RTFirefly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/c77e96/32.png) [@RTFirefly](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/RTFirefly)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2008, 1:12pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/155 "2008-07-01T13:12:33Z")

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[QUOTE=Sam Stone]  
I’m curious - does being a ‘bimbo trophy wife’ also include [adopting a dying child from Mother Theresa’s orphanage in Bangladesh](http://foreverparents.com/2008/06/john-mccain-adopted-one-of-his-children-from-bangladesh.html)?

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Yes, please keep going after John and Cindy McCain’s character. It makes you look petty and foolish.  
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Does the fact that John McCain has cheerfully sucked up to the people who were happy to take political advantage of attacks at him through that adopted child say anything about his character?

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**Author:** ![Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e99b99/32.png) [@Diogenes\_the\_Cynic](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Diogenes_the_Cynic)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2008, 2:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/156 "2008-07-01T14:54:00Z")

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[QUOTE=Sam Stone]  
I’m curious - does being a ‘bimbo trophy wife’ also include [adopting a dying child from Mother Theresa’s orphanage in Bangladesh](http://foreverparents.com/2008/06/john-mccain-adopted-one-of-his-children-from-bangladesh.html)?  
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In this case, sure it does. Why can’t a trophy wife adopt a baby. Rich women do that all the time.

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**Author:** ![Boyo\_Jim](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/87869e/32.png) [@Boyo\_Jim](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Boyo_Jim)\
**Post date:** [July 1, 2008, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/157 "2008-07-01T15:00:02Z")

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Ok, this may be a hijack, but does anyone know what McCain’s position is on adoption by gay couples? I noticed in the story Sam linked to that McCain was bothered by questions about his sex life during the adoption process.

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**Author:** ![Siam\_Sam](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d78d45/32.png) [@Siam\_Sam](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Siam_Sam)\
**Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 4:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/158 "2008-07-20T04:10:56Z")

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Not sure if [this Snopes entry](http://www.snopes.com/politics/mccain/cindy.asp) has appeared in this thread yet – I don’t see it – but I think it provides some balance.

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**Author:** ![GameHat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ed655f/32.png) [@GameHat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GameHat)\
**Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 5:43am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/159 "2008-07-20T05:43:06Z")

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Even though I dislike McCain and his party, I’ve mentioned in another thread:

Cindy McCain developed an addiction. She did some bad things. But she got found out, she apologized, made all the amends that I would consider necessary and has stayed clean AFAIK for many years.

In my mind, the issue is closed and I don’t hold this against her.

Now, whether she looks like an animated corpse is another matter :rolleyes:

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**Author:** ![calm\_kiwi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9fc348/32.png) [@calm\_kiwi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/calm_kiwi)\
**Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 11:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/cindy-mccain-is-truly-an-awful-human-being/453868/160 "2008-07-20T11:18:49Z")

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I don’t understand why there is so much interest in the spouse.

Our current Prime Minister has been in for 9 years (ok this is probably her last year). From her bio [http://www.primeminister.govt.nz/frame-biography.html](http://www.primeminister.govt.nz/frame-biography.html) we no little about her other half, it’s just never been relevant.

Why does their spouse even matter!

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