# Circumcision - advice sought

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830>\
**Category:** Great Debates\
**Created:** [May 27, 2009, 6:54pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830 "2009-05-27T18:54:26Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 7\
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**Author:** ![Dog80](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/6bbea6/32.png) [@Dog80](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dog80)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 11:13am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830/121 "2009-06-22T11:13:40Z")

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> [@fisha](#):
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> My opinion? I like cut men, I like the appearance and the feel.
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> My husband is cut, my 2 boys are cut.
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> Minor procedure, not a big deal.
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> You are free to do what you like with yourself and your own boys. So am I.

You had your 2 boys cut because you prefer the appearance, right? So you wouldn’t object if your husband wanted your boobs filled with silicone if he prefers the appearance. Besides, breast implants are safe and routine procedure too nowadays. Is your husband free to do whatever he likes to you? :dubious:

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**Author:** ![ashman165](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8e8cbc/32.png) [@ashman165](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ashman165)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 6:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830/122 "2009-06-22T18:28:45Z")

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> [@Dog80](#):
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> You had your 2 boys cut because you prefer the appearance, right? So you wouldn’t object if your husband wanted your boobs filled with silicone if he prefers the appearance. Besides, breast implants are safe and routine procedure too nowadays. Is your husband free to do whatever he likes to you? :dubious:

I’m sure that’s what she meant because parental control over the body of their children versus a husband’s control over his wife’s are exactly synonymous.

“Wife, you’re grounded; go to your room after writing me an essay on why you shouldn’t sass your parents.”

“Son/daughter, you’re grounded; go to you room after writing me an essay on why you shouldn’t sass your parents.”

One of those is a joke and the other is an actual disciplinary technique; I’ll leave to the reader to decide which is which.

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**Author:** ![DSeid](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/dseid/32/20194_2.png) [@DSeid](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/DSeid)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830/123 "2009-06-22T19:33:31Z")

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> [@Dog80](#):
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> On the first study you have a group of men who were circumcised as adults report on month 24 after circ (why so late?) that sexual intercourse became more pleasurable. Why was this group of men circed? If they had phimosis then sex would be almost painful and circumcision would be a huge improvement …

My understanding (obtained by reading the abstract) is that these were “Participants in a controlled trial of circumcision to reduce HIV incidence in Kisumu, Kenya” and that “a medical indication for circumcision” (such as phimosis) was an “exclusion criteria” - at 24 months those males who enrolled who were placed in the “delayed circumcision” control group were allowed to have them, hence 24 months was the end point of the study.

Oh one more comment - you are “the owner of an uncircumcised penis”? Well congratulations on having gotten past the point where your penis owns you!

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**Author:** ![Malthus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/85f322/32.png) [@Malthus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malthus)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 7:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830/124 "2009-06-22T19:55:35Z")

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> [@DSeid](#):
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> Oh one more comment - you are “the owner of an uncircumcised penis”? Well congratulations on having gotten past the point where your penis owns you!

He (or she?) keeps it safely in a jar on his (or her) desk. 😃

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**Author:** ![gravitycrash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/977dab/32.png) [@gravitycrash](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gravitycrash)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 9:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830/125 "2009-06-22T21:07:11Z")

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Since **Dseid** , **Malthus** and others here have stated rationally and convincingly that overall it doesn’t really make a damn bit of difference one way or the other vs. the adamantly opposed who come across as just a wee bit on the wrong side of nutjob, the right answer is do what you think is best for your child.

I just asked the little guy while I was taking a leak if he missed his foreskin. He said no.

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**Author:** ![ashman165](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8e8cbc/32.png) [@ashman165](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ashman165)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 9:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830/126 "2009-06-22T21:08:38Z")

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> [@gravitycrash](#):
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> Since **Dseid** , **Malthus** and others here have stated rationally and convincingly that overall it doesn’t really make a damn bit of difference one way or the other vs. the adamantly opposed who come across as just a wee bit on the wrong side of nutjob, the right answer is do what you think is best for your child.
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> I just asked the little guy while I was taking a leak if he missed his foreskin. He said no.

I can see a new thread coming up now: who talks to his penis (and how does it answer?)

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**Author:** ![Malthus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/85f322/32.png) [@Malthus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Malthus)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 9:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/circumcision-advice-sought/497830/127 "2009-06-22T21:18:20Z")

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> [@ashman165](#):
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> I can see a new thread coming up now: who talks to his penis (and how does it answer?)

[classic grade 6] “You keep forcing me to do pushups in a raincoat head-first down a tunnel until I throw up! Bastard!” [/classic grade 6]

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