I don’t have much of an objection to what you say as the rhetoric should be dialed back by all of us. But something to keep in mind is that this is a message board, not a formal brief for academic or legal purposes. We respond informally, sometimes with curse words, and most of the times with typos. That means that things said in a moment may seem to be insensitive, but the poster wasn’t really thinking it through, was drunk, or did it in a moment of haste.
But from my perspective, it seems that we must state things with absolute precision or else be accused of the things you said. If I ever personally hurt anyone on here, it is not intended and I will withdraw the comment. I don’t participate in the Pit for reasons discussed in other threads. I agree with the idea of civility, but I’ll make a mistake here and there, and if the standard is that comments made without precise, up to date PC terminology are forbidden, then you won’t have conservative posters because we will all get banned for saying the wrong thing as I have no interest in proofing my comments.