There are lots of variations in transmissions folks.
Some will not disengage ( free wheel) if you take your foot off the gas.
Some will free wheel in D but not in 3’rd and is usually a slight down shift in gearing.
Some automatics always (free wheel) and they are harder on brakes because they have no engine braking.
Some transmissions have overdrive as an selection and those are usually a (free wheel) condition. In overdrive that is. But some were not Free wheel even then.
There is no difference nor as much strain on a tranny by shifting from neutral to drive while coasting at 50 MPH than there is downshifting from drive to second to accelerate out of a dangerous situation ala James Bond. In a properly set up tranny, you will drop two gears by just flooring it from cruising to full on the floor. trannys get plenty of fluid movement at idle to take care of a neutral to drive shift at 50.
The largest damage of trannys is people who drive around in overdrive while in city traffic where the tranny is constantly shifting up and down.
One reason for more Free Wheeling transmissions these days is the fact that cars are so small and light. An 1980 Caddy or Buick or Chevy Impala are not as likely to have free wheel in the tranny.
Just because you are young and have not driven all models is not a problem, but there are older and different cars on the road that you all seem to be totally unaware of. But I admit that is hard to say for sure of the last 5 years or so, I need to read the data plate to tell them apart. Now ask me about anything from 1948 to 1965… Bawahahahaha
About coasting… If the engine is not turned off, and the speed does not build to a point where you are speeding (against the law you know) then putting an older transmission in neutral is no more dangerous than simply driving down the hill in the free wheel equipped cars, or using the average ‘overdrive’ in most cars so equipped.
The boogie man about needing sudden acceleration is just scardykat people wringing their hands. If you can’t remember to leave the engine running, do it in bumper to bumper traffic in CA, can’t shift back into drive, then, you should not do it at all… You are to stupid to be in a car in the first place. ::: sheesh ::::