# Colibri insulting me then warning me for taking him to task.

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**Created:** [October 18, 2018, 12:56am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/colibri-insulting-me-then-warning-me-for-taking-him-to-task/823118 "2018-10-18T00:56:34Z")\
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**Author:** ![Colibri](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/colibri/32/1841_2.png) [@Colibri](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Colibri)\
**Post date:** [October 18, 2018, 2:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/colibri-insulting-me-then-warning-me-for-taking-him-to-task/823118/10 "2018-10-18T02:05:38Z")

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> [@CarnalK](#):
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> I don’t get how I insulted Colibri other than not taking him quite as seriously as he perhaps thinks was required.
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> I mean let’s get something straight, HE commented that I was doing oral sex wrong because my face often comes into proximity of my partner’s bum. Since I’ve been having sex for a while now, that struck me as a rather peculiar assertion. He refused to retract it. And my pressing the issue apparently is worth a mod note?

Deliberately distorting the exchange and what happened in the thread doesn’t help your complaint. Let’s review:

> [@When did oral sex become a common part of sex?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-did-oral-sex-become-a-common-part-of-sex/822902/111):
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> Yes, humans love sex but they are also adverse to sticking their face into fecal matter. Well, most of them anyways.

> [@When did oral sex become a common part of sex?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-did-oral-sex-become-a-common-part-of-sex/822902/112):
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> If you’re sticking your face into fecal matter when you’re engaged in oral sex then you’re doing it wrong.😉

First, the remark wasn’t directed at you personally. Second, I made it clear in further comments that “doing it wrong” referred to sticking your face in fecal matter, not “getting your face near your partner’s bum.”

These were the insulting comments you made to me made in response:

> [@When did oral sex become a common part of sex?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-did-oral-sex-become-a-common-part-of-sex/822902/113):
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> Poor guy’s never done a 69 lecturing me on sex. ☹

> [@When did oral sex become a common part of sex?](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/when-did-oral-sex-become-a-common-part-of-sex/822902/135):
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> You ducked the question, I see. You can just say you’ve never done a 69. No shame.

Now if you had said that to another poster besides myself, I would have issued a warning. I refrained only because I had been involved in the discussion.

> [@](#):
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> Let’s get this clear: he insulted my sexual prowess with an obviously ridiculous position (ha!) and I’m given a warning for politely asking for an apology, retraction or argument to explain the situation himself.

I didn’t issue you a warning, but a note. You were trolling and being jerkish throughout the thread, deliberately distorting other people’s positions.

You’re engaging in exactly the same behavior now. Trolling in response to a note for trolling isn’t going to convince anyone a note wasn’t warranted.

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