# Come on down, motherfucker, yes, that's you VC03! **URL:** \ **Category:** The BBQ Pit\ **Created:** [August 13, 2007, 6:05pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455 "2007-08-13T18:05:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 10
**Author:** ![VinylTurnip](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/b2d939/32.png) [@VinylTurnip](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/VinylTurnip)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 3:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/181 "2007-08-16T15:18:39Z")
[QUOTE=Indygrrl] It’s been a nice five years or so on here, but there’s no reason to subject myself to any and every insult that you can think of to say. Keep up with it if it’s entertaining you, but I’m logging out now. I’m glad I could provide you with a few day’s entertainment at my own expense. [/QUOTE] Hey, wait… don’t forget your cross! ---
**Author:** ![athelas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5e9695/32.png) [@athelas](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/athelas)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 3:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/182 "2007-08-16T15:44:13Z")
[QUOTE=Indygrrl] Jesus, don’t you people have jobs? I haven’t even posted in two days and this thread is going strong as ever. It’s been a nice five years or so on here, but there’s no reason to subject myself to any and every insult that you can think of to say. Keep up with it if it’s entertaining you, but I’m logging out now. I’m glad I could provide you with a few day’s entertainment at my own expense. [/QUOTE] Well done, taking your lickings and standing your ground like that. You go, “ **grrl** ”! ---
**Author:** ![Nutty\_Bunny](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d07c76/32.png) [@Nutty\_Bunny](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nutty_Bunny)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/183 "2007-08-16T15:52:20Z")
[QUOTE=OneCentStamp] Me, I hope you stay. You’re an interesting poster. [/QUOTE] Even though I disagree with her in this thread, I enjoy her contributions to the board. I never noticed an obnoxious amount of stripper references, as others seem to. ::shrug:: ---
**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 3:59pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/184 "2007-08-16T15:59:34Z")
[QUOTE=Indygrrl] but there’s no reason to subject myself to any and every insult that you can think of to say. [/QUOTE] First of all, I don’t see much insulting of you here, except from perhaps a random poster or two, much less “any and every” insult. The vast majority of responses have been rather level-headed. Persecution complex much? Second, let me get this straight…it’s okay for you to come in here and insult **VCO3** , perhaps one of the easiest pit targets, subject of pitting after pitting? The fact that most people in this thread are not agreeing with you should at least tip you off that perhaps you were being a bit rash in your rush to offense. I personally can’t remember any pit thread where the majority of posters sided with **VCO3**. That should tell you something. So, go ahead, take your ball and go home. ---
**Author:** ![Missy2U](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/3bc359/32.png) [@Missy2U](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Missy2U)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/185 "2007-08-16T16:17:19Z")
You know, I don’t have a dog in this either and I most certainly don’t have anything against you either, however, perhaps the more adult thing to do would have been to take a look at what four pages of posts are saying and admit that you may just in fact be wrong. But if you prefer the whole persecution complex thing, that’s your perogative. ---
**Author:** ![descamisado](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e480ec/32.png) [@descamisado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/descamisado)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 4:17pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/186 "2007-08-16T16:17:38Z")
[QUOTE=Duke of Rat] Hey, I never considered **VCO3** was talking about being pegged by a _female_ stripper! [/QUOTE] That’s what makes it “pegging” and not just gay sex. I think **VC03** is straight, but I forgive him for _that_. Although I don’t think it deserved a pitting, I could see how the post(s) could be read as a sly dig. And for the assertion that was made that poppers help you get through a long shift, that should have been verified before posting, because that was just way off. ---
**Author:** ![Jodi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/7feea3/32.png) [@Jodi](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jodi)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 4:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/187 "2007-08-16T16:34:30Z")
[QUOTE=Indygrrl] It’s been a nice five years or so on here, but there’s no reason to subject myself to any and every insult that you can think of to say. [/QUOTE] Aw, c’mon. This is a pretty fun place and you’re a valuable contributor. Don’t let one Pit thread that went south on you be the reason you storm off _for-evah!_ 'Cause I’ll tell you as the voice of experience that you’ll either have to come crawling back, eating crow the whole way, or you’ll sit there wishing you could come back but with too much pride to do so. When this was me, years ago, I had the pride as an appetizer for several weeks before I broke down and ordered the crow. There are issues that are important enough, and insults that are grave enough, that leaving and never coming back is really the right thing to do. But honey, this isn’t one of 'em. It just isn’t. So no need for immolation; just take a break, let this thread fall off the front page, and wander back to IMHO or another forum when you’ve cooled off. ---
**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 4:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/188 "2007-08-16T16:57:59Z")
[QUOTE=Indygrrl] I’m glad I could provide you with a few day’s entertainment at my own expense. [/QUOTE] Wait - are you talking about this thread, or the “Ask the Stripper” thread? ---
**Author:** ![Rysto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ecccb3/32.png) [@Rysto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rysto)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/189 "2007-08-16T17:19:36Z")
I hate to say it, but if Indygrrl was a doctor, this thread would have gone completely differently. ---
**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/190 "2007-08-16T17:23:29Z")
[QUOTE=Rysto] I hate to say it, but if Indygrrl was a doctor, this thread would have gone completely differently. [/QUOTE] If Indygrrl was a doctor, VCO3 would probably not be able to contribute experiences of having done poppers with other doctors when asking about it. Strawman. Cute one, though. ---
**Author:** ![choie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/choie/32/7829_2.png) [@choie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/choie)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/191 "2007-08-16T17:25:45Z")
> [@](#): > > I hate to say it, but if Indygrrl was a doctor, this thread would have gone completely differently. True. If she were a doctor, she’d look even dumber for not knowing what affects migraine. \*Edited: (shakes fist) Darn you **Hamadryad**! \* ---
**Author:** ![OneCentStamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/13edae/32.png) [@OneCentStamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OneCentStamp)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/192 "2007-08-16T17:27:25Z")
[QUOTE=Rysto] I hate to say it, but if Indygrrl was a doctor, this thread would have gone completely differently. [/QUOTE] Yup, and so would most aspects of her life, most likely. Your point? ---
**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/193 "2007-08-16T17:31:48Z")
[QUOTE=Rysto] I hate to say it, but if Indygrrl was a doctor, this thread would have gone completely differently. [/QUOTE] If she were a profession that Dopers, in general, respected, the thread would have gone very differently. Oh, I know that many will say that they have no problem with strippers, but I don’t really believe that. Especially if you read comments about how she is an attention whore for talking about her job, where the rest of us can talk about our jobs without any such label. Now, was the whole kerfuffle worthy of a pit thread? Meh. Is this thread altered because of people’s feelings about what the OP does for a living? I think almost certainly. ---
**Author:** ![Rysto](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/ecccb3/32.png) [@Rysto](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rysto)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/194 "2007-08-16T17:32:17Z")
[QUOTE=Hamadryad] Strawman. Cute one, though. [/QUOTE] Strawman? Bullshit. **Indygrrl** ’s whole point was that she’s tired of people assuming she takes drugs because of what her job is, and personally, I think this thread shows that she has a point. ---
**Author:** ![storyteller0910](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecae2f/32.png) [@storyteller0910](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/storyteller0910)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/195 "2007-08-16T17:37:57Z")
[QUOTE=jsgoddess] If she were a profession that Dopers, in general, respected, the thread would have gone very differently. Oh, I know that many will say that they have no problem with strippers, but I don’t really believe that. Especially if you read comments about how she is an attention whore for talking about her job, where the rest of us can talk about our jobs without any such label. Now, was the whole kerfuffle worthy of a pit thread? Meh. Is this thread altered because of people’s feelings about what the OP does for a living? I think almost certainly. [/QUOTE] Agreed top to bottom. ---
**Author:** ![Justin\_Bailey](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/justin_bailey/32/8792_2.png) [@Justin\_Bailey](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Justin_Bailey)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/196 "2007-08-16T17:38:47Z")
[QUOTE=jsgoddess] If she were a profession that Dopers, in general, respected, the thread would have gone very differently. Oh, I know that many will say that they have no problem with strippers, but I don’t really believe that. Especially if you read comments about how she is an attention whore for talking about her job, where the rest of us can talk about our jobs without any such label. [/QUOTE] That’s crap. While I don’t think **Indygrrl** is an attention whore, I’m convinced she mentions her profession much more than the average doper. This “Stripper’s Message Board” comes up pretty often in her threads as well. Hey, did anybody else know **lissener** really likes Showgirls and **Evil\_Captor** likes the bondage? ---
**Author:** ![Cat\_Whisperer](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cat_whisperer/32/4839_2.png) [@Cat\_Whisperer](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cat_Whisperer)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:41pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/197 "2007-08-16T17:41:29Z")
[QUOTE=Vinyl Turnip] Hey, wait… don’t forget your cross! [/QUOTE] Heh. I had a nice, scathing post all typed up, and thought the better of it. This says all I was thinking, in a nicer way. ---
**Author:** ![choie](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/choie/32/7829_2.png) [@choie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/choie)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/198 "2007-08-16T17:45:15Z")
> [@](#): > > Especially if you read comments about how she is an attention whore for talking about her job, where the rest of us can talk about our jobs without any such label. Anyone who has repeatedly referred to information about themselves (e.g. **Lissa’s** and her husband’s professions, **lissener** working in a video store, or **Lobsang** ’s former obsessive feelings for his coworker), especially when it seems extraneous or irrelevant within a thread topic, is at risk for being called an attention whore. **Indygrrl** is no different. ---
**Author:** ![OneCentStamp](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/13edae/32.png) [@OneCentStamp](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/OneCentStamp)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/199 "2007-08-16T17:47:27Z")
[QUOTE=Justin\_Bailey] Hey, did anybody else know **lissener** really likes Showgirls and **Evil\_Captor** likes the bondage? [/QUOTE] I knew about **Evil\_Captor** and the bondage. The only person on the boards I can think of who mentions her job more often than **Indygrrl** is **Mouse\_Maven**. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Hamadryad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/6de8d8/32.png) [@Hamadryad](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Hamadryad)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2007, 5:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455/200 "2007-08-16T17:47:45Z")
[QUOTE=jsgoddess] If she were a profession that Dopers, in general, respected, the thread would have gone very differently. Oh, I know that many will say that they have no problem with strippers, but I don’t really believe that. Especially if you read comments about how she is an attention whore for talking about her job, where the rest of us can talk about our jobs without any such label. Now, was the whole kerfuffle worthy of a pit thread? Meh. Is this thread altered because of people’s feelings about what the OP does for a living? I think almost certainly. [/QUOTE] WTF ever. I don’t disrespect strippers. One of the most level-headed people I’ve met in my life is an ex-stripper. (Her ex ran the joint. Now SHE has _stories_.) I think the ire about this stupid issue has a lot more to do with Indygrrl TALKING ABOUT BEING a stripper than it does with her actually, you know, being a stripper. She’s the one who, hello, started a THREAD about it, so it’s obvious she thinks - and understands - that people in general might find it unusual, bizarre, interesting, unsettling, confusing, and generally entertaining to talk about. To then declare that reference to it is _verboten_ because it’s ATTACKING her is either disingenuous, blatantly insulting, or both. Give me a break with this “You people are ATTACKING this POOR GIRL because you PURITANS think she’s IMMORAL” horseshit, though. Where the fuck do you think you are? The Idaho Pussy-Hump Tribune? We’re fine with gay\*, transgendered\*, fetishists\* and wanna-be-peg-ees\*, and you think we’re condemning her because she’s a STRIPPER? [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455.md?page=9) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/come-on-down-motherfucker-yes-thats-you-vc03/415455.md?page=11)