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No, those are two separate statements. We know for certain they have at least one daughter. However, if the outcome is either older daughter/younger son or older son/younger daughter, then there was a 1:2 chance of them telling us whether they have a daughter and a 1:2 chance of them telling us they have a son. This is wholly different from “They have a son, what are the odds they have a son” (paraphrased) as you put it.
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On reflection, let me withdraw what I said earlier. I think I see where the issue is.
The poin of this problem, and the point of the exact phrasing here, is that the two children in question are undifferentiated. As soon as you differentiate the two, the problem changes. The disconnect here is that you are differentiating them, into “the child the parents tell you about” and “the child the parents don’t tell you about.” That results in exactly the same problem as if you had differentiated the two into “the older” and “the younger.”
So, going back:
Suppose the problem were stated this way: “There is a family with two children. You have been told the eldest child in this family is a daughter. What are the odds they also have a son, assuming the biological odds of having a male or female child are equal?” In this case, the correct answer is 1/2.
Likewise, suppose the problem were stated this way: “There is a family with two children. The parents pick a child, and tell you it is a daughter. What are the odds they also have a son, assuming the biological odds of having a male or female child are equal?” That’s your re-interpretation of the problem. In this case, the correct answer is also 1/2.
But the real problem isn’t stated this way. It’s stated: “There is a family with two children. You have been told this family has a daughter. What are the odds they also have a son, assuming the biological odds of having a male or female child are equal?” And the answer is 2/3.