# Compliment, chat up, flirt with your doper of choice here. **URL:** \ **Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\ **Created:** [February 17, 2005, 3:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541 "2005-02-17T15:02:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 5
**Author:** ![Draelin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/ce73a5/32.png) [@Draelin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Draelin)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:02pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/81 "2005-02-17T22:02:56Z")
Alas, I must now depart for the traffic of rush hour and the comfort of my couch. Have a lovely evening, all you flirters, and save some of the innuendo for the morning–I’ll be bored at work tomorrow. 😉 'Night, everyone! ---
**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/82 "2005-02-17T22:07:56Z")
> [@Harimad-sol](#): > > OK. It’ll be safe with me, until such time as I’m brave enough to go after **Kythereia** or **FinnAgain** or… Oh come now! I don’t bite, much. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:19pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/83 "2005-02-17T22:19:59Z")
> [@Draelin](#): > > I go to the Sterling Forest/Tuxedo one. I don’t _think_ it’s anywhere near Woodbury, but I could be wrong, since I’m coming from the south. > > But you’re right–definitely Dopefest possiblities. Drinking, dangerous sports, and bodices. Man, I _love_ wearing my bodice. That’s the one! :smack: It’s only near Woodbury inasmuch it’s nearer to Woodbury than it is to Albany. (Can you tell my directional sense leaves much to be desired?) ---
**Author:** ![Madd\_Maxx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Madd\_Maxx](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Madd_Maxx)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/84 "2005-02-17T22:27:49Z")
Well, I’m not a pirate, but Mel Gibson in leather pants ought to do the trick. Did I mention that I speak with a convincing Australian accent? :dubious: ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:29pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/85 "2005-02-17T22:29:05Z")
> [@lel](#): > > Oh, what’s that in your eye, **Harimad-sol**? I think it’s an eyelash. Want to help me check? > [@FinnAgain](#): > > Oh come now! > I don’t bite, much. 😉 I don’t know whether to say, “Yay!” or “Darn!” about the biting, you understand ---
**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/86 "2005-02-17T22:34:14Z")
> [@Harimad-sol](#): > > I don’t know whether to say, “Yay!” or “Darn!” If you are not sure what to say, may I suggest “More” 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/87 "2005-02-17T22:45:15Z")
> [@FinnAgain](#): > > If you are not sure what to say, may I suggest > “More” > 😉 Ooh, that would do quite nicely. Why don’t you sit right here and we’ll see if we can come to some sort of agreement? So you bite…how do you feel about being bitten? If you don’t like it, I suppose I could just kiss you. ---
**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 10:50pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/88 "2005-02-17T22:50:09Z")
> [@Harimad-sol](#): > > So you bite…how do you feel about being bitten? If you don’t like it, I suppose I could just kiss you. Sometimes it’s nice to have a bit of pleasure laced with pain, but I’m generally more a fan of the type of pleasure that’s so intense that your toes curl and your muscles turn to jelly and you find yourself making strange noises you didn’t know you were capable of. Kissing would be an enjoyable enough way to start. ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/89 "2005-02-17T23:00:23Z")
> [@FinnAgain](#): > > Sometimes it’s nice to have a bit of pleasure laced with pain, but I’m generally more a fan of the type of pleasure that’s so intense that your toes curl and your muscles turn to jelly and you find yourself making strange noises you didn’t know you were capable of. Kissing would be an enjoyable enough way to start. It would indeed. ---
**Author:** ![Rufus\_Xavier](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/eada6e/32.png) [@Rufus\_Xavier](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rufus_Xavier)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/90 "2005-02-17T23:07:44Z")
> [@Anaamika](#): > > You know what, now that I think about it, I always wanted to flirt with **Ethilrist**. I love his posts, and think he’s hilarious. > > Except I only found out this week, in the photo thread I think, that “he” is a “she”! :eek: > But, if you can’t flirt with your own sex against your sexual orientation on the SDMB, where else can you do it, right? > > So, **Ethilrist** …how YOU doin’? 😃 Actually, “he” is, indeed, a “he.” And I, too, think he is hilarious. ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/91 "2005-02-17T23:08:02Z")
> [@Madd Maxx](#): > > Well, I’m not a pirate, but Mel Gibson in leather pants ought to do the trick. Did I mention that I speak with a convincing Australian accent? :dubious: Ooo, that’ll be _fine_. ---
**Author:** ![Jaade](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/dfb087/32.png) [@Jaade](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Jaade)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/92 "2005-02-17T23:16:40Z")
~runs in…then slows down and makes a graceful entrance~ Did I miss the party? ---
**Author:** ![BiblioCat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ed8c4c/32.png) [@BiblioCat](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BiblioCat)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/93 "2005-02-17T23:24:18Z")
> [@CandidGamera](#): > > Allright, then. Avast! > > _swings off with Anaamika and BiblioCat, for a ravishing that will put the ship in danger of capsizing_ Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Wow, this thread has moved fast! ---
**Author:** ![Angua](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8baadc/32.png) [@Angua](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Angua)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/94 "2005-02-17T23:26:12Z")
> [@QuickSilver](#): > > \ > AH! A ‘kin see it nooo. Shooo a bit o’ leg and yer all wantin’ to get up a block’s kilt! Ay, I see how y’arrrre! > \ ::drool:: Scottish accents. They make me go completely weak at the knees. _swoons_ ---
**Author:** ![Anaamika](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/5f9b8f/32.png) [@Anaamika](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Anaamika)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/95 "2005-02-17T23:28:22Z")
> [@Rufus Xavier](#): > > Actually, “he” is, indeed, a “he.” > > And I, too, think he is hilarious. Ohhhh…now I am blushing. :o Can I still flirt with him? ---
**Author:** ![Scumpup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Scumpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scumpup)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/96 "2005-02-17T23:31:09Z")
_Presently Scumpup heads for the door. The thread is starting to read too much like far too many mid-90’s IRC channels w/ names like hOTcHiXXonly!!!_ ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/97 "2005-02-17T23:31:24Z")
The more the merrier, **Jaade**. Pull up a chair, or a piece of floor, or a boat, or something. And now for a return to our regularly scheduled kissing… ---
**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/98 "2005-02-17T23:42:14Z")
> [@Harimad-sol](#): > > ] > And now for a return to our regularly scheduled kissing… Yay, groping! I mean, um, kissing, yay! ---
**Author:** ![Telperien](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/65b543/32.png) [@Telperien](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Telperien)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/99 "2005-02-17T23:43:41Z")
> [@FinnAgain](#): > > Yay, groping! > I mean, um, kissing, yay! Oh, I can kiss and grope at the same time. Multitasking! ---
**Author:** ![FinnAgain](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/finnagain/32/12500_2.png) [@FinnAgain](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/FinnAgain)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2005, 11:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541/100 "2005-02-17T23:58:50Z")
You get an, um… thumbs up, yeah, thumbs… for multitasking. Luckily enough I learned a while ago how to undo a bra clasp with only one hand, leaves a hand free for… other things. Now, what’s with all this talking? Let’s resume the kissing and groping 😉 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541.md?page=4) [Next page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/compliment-chat-up-flirt-with-your-doper-of-choice-here/290541.md?page=6)