# Concerning chique

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609>\
**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [May 7, 2010, 7:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609 "2010-05-07T07:05:14Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![TubaDiva](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/tubadiva/32/507_2.png) [@TubaDiva](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/TubaDiva)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 7:05am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/1 "2010-05-07T07:05:14Z")

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I have a message from one of chique’s friends.

Sadly she tells me that chique has been moved into hospice and is receiving “comfort measures only.”

Please keep chique and her family and friends in your thoughts and prayers.

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**Author:** ![Nava](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/da6949/32.png) [@Nava](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Nava)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 7:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/2 "2010-05-07T07:49:43Z")

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☹

_adds **chique** to the prayer list_

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**Author:** ![Geek\_Mecha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/ecae2f/32.png) [@Geek\_Mecha](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Geek_Mecha)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 8:47am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/3 "2010-05-07T08:47:45Z")

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I’m so sorry to hear this.

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**Author:** ![Celyn](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/9dc877/32.png) [@Celyn](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Celyn)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 8:53am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/4 "2010-05-07T08:53:55Z")

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Oh dear. ☹

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**Author:** ![Cicero](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/cicero/32/3594_2.png) [@Cicero](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Cicero)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 9:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/5 "2010-05-07T09:49:38Z")

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Thanks Tuba Diva. I guess we all expected this and hoped it wouldn’t be so.

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**Author:** ![jjimm](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/ba8739/32.png) [@jjimm](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/jjimm)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 9:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/6 "2010-05-07T09:54:58Z")

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Oh no. I knew she was suffering but had no idea that it was so serious. I’ve mentioned this over at NADS too where she was a participant.

My thoughts are with her. ☹

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 10:18am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/7 "2010-05-07T10:18:55Z")

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Not surprised, but I’m very sorry to hear it. In case anyone missed it, [here’s the thread from November where **chique** discussed finding out that the cancer had returned.](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=540300) [Her blog can be seen here.](http://ahnolds-babies.livejournal.com/) She decided to stop treatment in late March and hasn’t updated it for about a month.

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**Author:** ![chela](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/chela/32/21582_2.png) [@chela](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/chela)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 10:57am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/8 "2010-05-07T10:57:08Z")

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I have kept her in my thoughts, wondering now and again how she is doing.

Thanks for the update.

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**Author:** ![gardentraveler](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gardentraveler/32/3576_2.png) [@gardentraveler](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/gardentraveler)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 11:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/9 "2010-05-07T11:01:52Z")

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Good thoughts and prayers headed her way. Thanks for letting us know.

GT

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**Author:** ![Smeghead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f1d935/32.png) [@Smeghead](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Smeghead)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 11:19am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/10 "2010-05-07T11:19:47Z")

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chique is the only Doper I’ve ever met in real life. This is very sad.

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**Author:** ![Dangerosa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/22d042/32.png) [@Dangerosa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Dangerosa)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 11:34am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/11 "2010-05-07T11:34:14Z")

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May the rest of her days be peaceful and her passing without fear.

She’s been in my thoughts a lot.

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**Author:** ![freckafree](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/freckafree/32/3050_2.png) [@freckafree](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/freckafree)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 12:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/12 "2010-05-07T12:32:58Z")

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I’m so sorry to read this. She and her family will be in my thoughts. I hope her remaining days are passed in comfort.

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**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 1:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/13 "2010-05-07T13:34:23Z")

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Dangit. ☹  
Thanks for passing the message along.

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**Author:** ![Rasa](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/rasa/32/3578_2.png) [@Rasa](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Rasa)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 1:57pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/14 "2010-05-07T13:57:03Z")

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Thanks for posting this, **Tuba**. I’ll post any updates as I get them. I’ve asked if I can share her address, so people can send cards/notes, too.

**chique** has been a friend to so many of us for what, 10 years now?

Wow, yeah. I don’t really know what else to say.

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**Author:** ![dangermom](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e274bd/32.png) [@dangermom](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/dangermom)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 2:32pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/15 "2010-05-07T14:32:03Z")

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Thanks for letting us know. I’ll keep her in my thoughts.

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**Author:** ![joyfool](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/df788c/32.png) [@joyfool](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/joyfool)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 2:58pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/16 "2010-05-07T14:58:03Z")

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Another who is so sorry to hear this. I hope she is comfortable and at peace. I, too, will keep her in my prayers.

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**Author:** ![elbows](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/b3f665/32.png) [@elbows](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elbows)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 3:36pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/17 "2010-05-07T15:36:10Z")

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I am so sorry to hear about this, she will be in my prayers. I do hope she’ll let us send cards.

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**Author:** ![pravnik](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/8edcca/32.png) [@pravnik](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pravnik)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/18 "2010-05-07T15:52:02Z")

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Sorry to hear it.

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**Author:** ![Baron\_Greenback](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/baron_greenback/32/48_2.png) [@Baron\_Greenback](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Baron_Greenback)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 3:52pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/19 "2010-05-07T15:52:24Z")

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Oh hell no. Be at peace, **chique**.

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**Author:** ![BlueKangaroo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3d9bf3/32.png) [@BlueKangaroo](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BlueKangaroo)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2010, 4:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/concerning-chique/538609/20 "2010-05-07T16:47:00Z")

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How sad. I’d been wondering how she was doing recently.

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