Contact lenses? Seeking input from parents whose kids wear corrective lenses.

Both my kids have had disposables since pre-teenhood, (they’re now post-teens) without any problems. Care is simpler, and if they screw up and lose them it is not a big problem. My wife has hard lenses, but she’s had them since before there were disposable lenses. They seem to require more care than would be advisable for a kid to do. I have spent time diving to the bottom of a pool looking for one that popped out.

I’ve never particularly noticed the cost. As for me, I’ve had glasses since second grade, and by this point if I got contacts I wouldn’t know what to do with my hands. :slight_smile:

Thanks to you and ** Hampshire ** . But what is the risk exactly? Just losing them in the water, or is there some health hazard involved in having chlorine or salt or whatever else going under the lense?

Because if the problm is just losing them, wouldn’t it be more annoying to lose glasses?

Also, is it generally easy to lose them? ** Hampshire ** mentionned that just rubbing your eyes is enough.

I’ve been wearing glasses since I was 6 or 7, and I tried contacts at 12, but I wasn’t nearly responsible enough to wear them. Tried again at 17, wore them through most of college, but switched back to glasses because contacts were just too much trouble.

If you do go with contacts, I recommend an extra bottle of saline rinse, the all-in-one solutions irritated my eyes something awful.

I was teased maybe twice in my life for wearing glasses. It’s really not much of a worry, as long as she gets cool frames.

My fear is losing them into the water. I’ve never lost one that way, but it always seemed likely. Part of that was because I could not get disposable contacts up until a couple years ago, so losing one was a MUCH MUCH bigger deal. With Hampshire’s testimony here, I may have to give sighted swimming a try next time I go!

It is possible for contacts to absorb chemicals - I’ve ruined pairs by storing them for a long time in the same drawer with perfume; never could get the contacts wearable again. I don’t know if there would be a problem with chlorine. If they sucked up salt, they’d probably hurt like a bitch to wear, but being fairly soluble, it’s possible the salt would rinse out eventually. Again, not as big a deal with disposables.

Losing them depends on your eyes. I’ve got a hella correction, so have very curved eyes, and mine stay in pretty well. (My hard contacts popped out WAY easy due to the curvature.) When I do have problems, it’s because my eyes (and the contacts) have gotten dry - which is also when I’m more likely to rub my eyes. When they’re dry, I have problems with rubbing them into the wrong places and/or out of my eye.

I’ve always worn soft lenses. From the original ones where you get one set and clean them every night and once a week with enzyme tablets, to the ones where you clean them nightly but throw them away once a month, to the ones I currently wear where you put them in on Day 1 of a month and never take them out until day 31 (you even sleep in them).
The only problem I’ve had with the ‘30 day straight’ lenses is when you first wake up they are very dry and stick to your eyeball/lids and are uncomfortable. A couple drops of rewetting drops directly into the eye and they’re instantly fine again.

As far as swimming with all 3 types of these lenses I’ve never lost one. I used to make sure to close my eyes if going underwater. Later on I would squint underwater thinking my eyelids would be keeping them in. Still never lost one.
Then I tested a pair I was going to dispose of that day anyway, went underwater, opened my eyes as far as I could, and shook my head back and forth.
The things would not come off.
Been swimming in them ever since. Chlorinated pools, freshwater lakes, saltwater oceans.

Losing one by rubbing your eyes requires ‘really’ rubbing your eyes. Like using your fists when your tired. It usually results in pushing the lens into one of the corners of your eye. Then you have to blink a couple times to recenter it or take it out to put it back in place.

You’d think so but then again the stuff you rinse and store them in, saline solution, is basically salt water.
Chlorine (don’t quote me on this) kills bacteria. I’d think if anything it may even help clean your lenses while wearing them while swimming.

Incidentally, when did they start letting children wear contacts? I had never met a child who wore contacts until two years ago.

5th grade for me was in…uh…1984-5, I think.

I got mine when I was 12. In 1962.

Of course I didn’t actually consider myself a child at the time.

I open my eyes underwater, too, and have never lost one doing so in thirteen years of regular swiming. But if you do loose a contact in the water you’re never finding it again. If you drop your glasses in the pool you just pick them up (or have someone who can see them pick them up for you).

Actually, in most cases, it’s the law. Contact lens prescriptions are regulated just like drug prescriptions, with an expiration date and limited number of refills. I have to inform a patient of that no less than once a day.

Do a search on “acanthamoeba keratitis”.

No, soft contacts and water should never be together. While it’s a rare infection, you really don’t want it.

OK, to address the OP.

I run the contact lens department at a privately owned ophthalmology office. I’ve done Insertion and Removal (INR) Training for kids who were as young as 7, and adults as old as 70. I am not a doctor. I am a certified optician, working in a state which neither requires nor issues licenses. I’ve been an optician since 1988.

If you feel your daughter is responsible enough to wear contact lenses, she probably is. If she were mine, however, she’d spend at least 6 months wearing glasses before I’d allow her to have contact lenses. See how she does with the glasses first. Hey, maybe she won’t even need correction “full time”, just for the blackboard or just for reading or something. Glasses today are NOT the glasses of my childhood. There are a lot of really great looking frames out there, especially for young ladies. Nine West has a very lovely like for girls her age. The frames are feminine without being babyish. Many girls today ask for more than one pair, and treat them like jewelry.

Every contact lens wearer needs to have glasses. 24/7 contact lens wear is not healthy for anybody, especially a developing child. I tell my patients to leave their contact lenses out for 2 hours a day while awake, and never to sleep in them. Less than 5% of my patients have been prescribed “extended wear” by the doctor. I know people will respond to this thread about “30-day” sleep in them all month lenses, but I can assure you that more people end up with problems from that type of wear than from any other wearing schedule.

Since the question of swimming with contacts always comes up, we teach patients not to swim or shower while wearing. Acanthamoeba blinds and disfigures, and is very difficult to treat. And it can survive the chlorination of pools and hot tubs. Anyone who wants to tell you differently should just search for images of what it does to the human eye. Cases are on the increase in the US.

In our practice, Acuvue Advance lenses are typically $200 for an 8-box, 1-year supply. If she needed toric (for astigmatism), that would increase to about $340/year. Keep in mind that private practices always charge more than retailers or online sellers, because we don’t get the massive 100,000 box discounts that they get. You own the prescription, so if you want to buy them somewhere other than the doctor’s office, just ask for it if it’s not automatically provided to you. Acuvue lenses are meant to be removed nightly and cleaned, then discarded after 2 weeks of wear. You can also ask about (much more expensive, but way healthier) daily replacement, which would run somewhere in the $350 area, unless there is astigmatism needing to be addressed. The biggest advantage to daily replacement is that a fresh sterile lens is inserted every time. No more cleaning, no storing, no “real care” required. You can figure the $150 difference would about cover the “first timer” losing lenses, going through solution quickly, etc. Your doctor will determine which type of lens will work best for her, and will likely present you with options similar to what I’ve described.

I’m here for any specific questions you might have.

Bummer about the swimming… Living in Japan with a bazillion rules about everything, I have to take my glasses off in the pool which means I can see NOTHING. So I can’t get in - it frightens me when I can’t see the floor and don’t know where I’m walking, not to mention not being able to supervise my kids.

If I had contacts but did water walking and aerobics or stood in the water supervising my kids, rather than going right under the water - would that be OK?

And here’s another question - if you’ve had cataract surgery (I have on both eyes) can you wear contacts after that?

And yet another question, directly related to kids - here in Japan even if a kid comes up with defective vision in eye tests, they are not prescribed glasses but eye exercises in an effort to improve vision. I have read in other places that such exercises are hooey and I feel sorry for all my struggling students. (Of 70 kids who I teach of toddler to 6th grade, only three of them wear glasses.) Is that possible, or is this just being mean to the kids and making them struggle?

I ask because my slightly ADD son gets random poor results on his eye tests and up till now seeing as one test would result in an A grade and the next term a D we have all assumed that he just was not paying attention, but recently he occasionally says that he feels that he can’t see clearly - coming from a family of glasses/contacts wearers I wouldn’t be surprised… If he does have poor eyesight I am wanting to know if I should go along with the exercise regime or call hooey loudly and demand correction of his vision right away.

I got contacts when I was in the 7th grade, soft ones. They were okay for a while, but began irritating my eyes badly (the entire white part would be red. I looked VERY stoned) and switched to gas permeable. That took care of the problem and I’ve been wearing them ever since. I was very careful about not losing them when i was a kid because I didn’t want to be considered irresponsible. (When my mom got contacts when I was in my 30’s, she lost 3 pair in a week and apologized profusely about all the crap she gave me for losing lenses as a teen! But I digress :-). The best thing about semi-rigid lenses, IMO, is that they keep the curve of your eye constant. I haven’t had a change in prescription since I was 20 or so (I’m 41 now) - my dad was myopic to the point of blindness by this age and he wore glasses. They do get dry and aren’t always terribly comfortable and it does suck to get something in your eye when you’re wearing them. I have glasses that I wear sometimes, but I have trouble adjusting my depth perception when I have them on. I’ve also been told that my lenses overcorrect my vision so much that I would be disappointed if I had Lasik, which is fine by me because it squicks me out, bigtime.
They’re very cheap. I replace them only when I lose one, every couple years and the solutions don’t cost all that much.
Kayla will definitely be happier with the contacts, IMO. Glasses suck when you’re a teenager.

Exercise regime?! Maybe they should just have them all PRAY for better vision. :rolleyes: I’d definitely throw a fit!

This was my initial impression… It hasn’t actually changed yet.

You could tell them that you’ve been rolling your eyes at their policies for months and it hasn’t improved your vision one whit, lol.

[QUOTE=kaylasdad99Is it a good idea to get them for a ten-year old (let’s presume an advanced sense of responsibility for Michaela; whether she displays one irl or not can be fodder for another conversation :wink: )?[/QUOTE]
Our twelve-year-old son is very nearsighted. Now, I’d say he’s slightly above average in the responsibility department, by which I mean he remembers to brush his teeth (though not always equally well), pack his lunch, and wear his bicycle helmet without prompting, he remembers to call if he’s going to a friend’s house, and we trust him to babysit his six-year-old kid brother for a few hours - but he isn’t so far ahead of the curve that he always gets to school on time, for instance.

There’s no way he was ready for contacts when he was 10, in my opinion. Not a chance.

He wears glasses, and yes, they look good on him. Glasses are so much better now than when I was his age (children’s glasses in the '70s were ug-lee). He has never been teased, unless you count the fact that his nickname has become “Harry Potter”. We’ll consider contacts next summer, before he starts junior high, but for right now I think glasses are the right decision.

Do children’s eyeballs grow through puberty along with the rest of their bodies, or are they pretty much maxed out by the time puberty begins?