If you lasted 20 seconds and managed to get into forward motion, you’d have a good chance of lasting until you tried to land.
I admit my only experience is MS Flight Sim. My understanding from a number of friends who are pilots (both fixed and heli) is that MS Flight Sim is harder to fly than a real craft, with the obvious exception that since your life isn’t in danger, you’re more relaxed. But the response from the controls isn’t as immediate, and the latency makes it a lot less intuitive; your body has a harder time learning the necessary lessons. (Imagine learning to ride a bike where the response to any action came a quarter of a second later.)
In any case, with any of the helicopters I had in MSFS at the time – I think that was around 2005 – hovering was too hard for me to master. My only chance at a decent takeoff was to go up as fast as possible and shift into forward flight. Once in forward flight, the helis responded an awful lot like planes (assuming you had a good intellectual understanding of what the collective and cyclic controls do).
Bank left with a little left “rudder” and oboy, you turn left! Does it handle like a plane? uh no, but every plane is different, and it’s not that far outside the envelope, once you have a good bit of forward motion. Pull the stick (collective) back, and just like a plane, your nose comes up and you lose forward speed. Push it forward and the nose goes down and you gain forward speed. Left or right, it banks left or right.
The collective is a bit odder. If you see you’re losing altitude and your nose is in the right attitude, you need more collective (more lift). So you increase pitch. The odd part is that also turns you (to the left, IIRC). Compensate for that by what? Turning to the right using the foot pedals, much as you would on a plane. Of course, the plane has no collective, so you never need to do this for this reason. You do it for other reasons, the main one being that you thought you had the rudder centered but it isn’t. A pilot’s instincts for using the pedals should work remarkably well.
I admit the only way I could land was to land it much like a plane, but with lower forward speed (using more collective to get more lift at lower speeds) and then quickly flare and reduce collective to stop and sit down, for a bumpy landing. The right way, hovering and slowly settling down, was never in the cards for my dilettante derriere.
My hat’s off to all you helicopter pilots who learned to do the real thing! It’s an admirable skill. Even if I had the time and money to learn, I wouldn’t simply because I make enough mistakes in all my other hobbies. I don’t like the idea of combining “pilot” with “mistake”!