# Could someone explain the whole thing about ZPG Zealot?

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**Category:** The BBQ Pit\
**Created:** [January 16, 2012, 9:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731 "2012-01-16T21:24:22Z")\
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**Author:** ![Blackberry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ecd19e/32.png) [@Blackberry](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Blackberry)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/21 "2012-01-16T23:08:27Z")

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> [@Kolga](#):
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> Oh, I forgot about her belief that unmarried women who get pregnant do so deliberately to trap men, and should be forced to have abortions. If they don’t, she believes it’s justified if the father kills the baby.

Also don’t forget that if a person was somehow trapped in a situation with a crying baby and the crying was really getting on their nerves, killing the baby would be justified.

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**Author:** ![silenus](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/silenus/32/166_2.png) [@silenus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/silenus)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/22 "2012-01-16T23:16:44Z")

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> [@Blackberry](#):
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> Also don’t forget that if a person was somehow trapped in a situation with a crying baby and the crying was really getting on their nerves, killing the baby would be justified.

_Well_…

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**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/23 "2012-01-16T23:23:25Z")

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> [@Kolga](#):
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> Personally, I don’t think being an advocate of zero population growth makes one a sociopath. I think her sociopathy is separate from that belief.
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> Oh, I forgot about her belief that unmarried women who get pregnant do so deliberately to trap men, and should be forced to have abortions. If they don’t, she believes it’s justified if the father kills the baby.

She believes it justified if the father kills _the woman_ if she becomes pregnant and won’t abort.

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**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/24 "2012-01-16T23:26:49Z")

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> [@ZPG\_Zealot](#):
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> Some people get hostile when they can’t impose their beliefs on others.

**ZPG Zealot** , meet irony. Irony, **ZPG Zealot**. I see the two of you have a lot of catching up to do.

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**Author:** ![ZPG\_Zealot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e47c2d/32.png) [@ZPG\_Zealot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZPG_Zealot)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/25 "2012-01-16T23:27:31Z")

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> [@Shodan](#):
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> She is a fortune teller, and believes handshaking is a form of rape.
> 
> That’s the milder stuff.
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> She’s squirrel food, or a troll.
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> Regards,  
> Shodan

For women whose culture or religion say no physical contact with men you are not married to forcing them to shake hands with a man other than their husband is as much a physical violation as putting an object in their vagina. What’s so controversal about that? Anyway, what I actually said was any man who had a problem with a woman not wanting to shake his hand had boundary issues and that I personally would consider him more capable of rape than a man who respects a woman’s right not to be touched. Once again, what’s so controversal about that?

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**Author:** ![The\_Devil\_s\_Grandmother](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/74df32/32.png) [@The\_Devil\_s\_Grandmother](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Devil_s_Grandmother)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/26 "2012-01-16T23:28:04Z")

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The thread about offering a handshake is disrespectful to women and a man who does it is probably a sexual predator [starts here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=579187), and goes off the rails before the first page.

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**Author:** ![Sarahfeena](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/sarahfeena/32/519_2.png) [@Sarahfeena](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Sarahfeena)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:28pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/27 "2012-01-16T23:28:41Z")

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One of my faves was her assertion that adopted people have an obligation to make their adopted status public, in case they encounter anyone who has a religious proscription against contact with a person who is ritually unclean.

And no, I’m not [kidding](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=12012729&postcount=79).

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**Author:** ![ZPG\_Zealot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e47c2d/32.png) [@ZPG\_Zealot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZPG_Zealot)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/28 "2012-01-16T23:30:29Z")

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> [@mhendo](#):
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> I don’t know much about you, or why people think you’re crazy, but what’s the deal with this? Have people been saying that you should be ashamed of being Roma?

More or less for most of my life, I have had to defend myself from anti-Roma persecution.

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**Author:** ![Alessan](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/alessan/32/465_2.png) [@Alessan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Alessan)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/29 "2012-01-16T23:33:11Z")

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Not on this board you haven’t.

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**Author:** ![Zsofia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/7bcc69/32.png) [@Zsofia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Zsofia)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:34pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/30 "2012-01-16T23:34:03Z")

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You said you felt women who go around shaking hands are clearly whores.

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**Author:** ![Gagundathar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/a183cd/32.png) [@Gagundathar](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gagundathar)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/31 "2012-01-16T23:35:55Z")

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> [@Southern\_Yankee](#):
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> Her screen name also gives an obvious view of her mindset. Someone recently ( **Alessan**? If not, my apologies…) called her a sociopath. I think that nails it.

Almost certain it was Allesan.  
Good call.

Do you think she is serious? She says she is Roma.

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**Author:** ![wonky](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/wonky/32/393_2.png) [@wonky](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/wonky)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/32 "2012-01-16T23:37:08Z")

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I figured I didn’t often say the word “zealot” in the pit, and I was right.

[Here](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=593049&highlight=zealot) is some conversation about the craziness.

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**Author:** ![ZPG\_Zealot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e47c2d/32.png) [@ZPG\_Zealot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZPG_Zealot)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/33 "2012-01-16T23:38:11Z")

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> [@Kolga](#):
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> Personally, I don’t think being an advocate of zero population growth makes one a sociopath. I think her sociopathy is separate from that belief.
> 
> Oh, I forgot about her belief that unmarried women who get pregnant do so deliberately to trap men, and should be forced to have abortions. If they don’t, she believes it’s justified if the father kills the baby.

It takes two to make a child, it should take two to decide if the child is born. Seriously, I can’t understand how you believe it’s acceptable for one parent to be able to make decision to have a child, especially when the non-consenting parent could have their lives and the lives of all their family members ruined by the birth of an unwanted child. You are literally willing to destroy the lives of dozens of already born, productive, contributing people so that one baby who potential is a complete unknown can be born. That is a completely bizarre allocation of resources.

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**Author:** ![Freudian\_Slit](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/5daacb/32.png) [@Freudian\_Slit](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Freudian_Slit)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/34 "2012-01-16T23:40:24Z")

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> [@picker](#):
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> Better hope she doesn’t see this [article about a cat who adopted and breastfed a squirrel](http://knutisweekly.com/2010/02/cat-is-breastfeeding-a-squirrel/), then.
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> I’d love to shake her hand and offer my condolences on the loss of her perspective.

Seriously, if it weren’t for adoption, animal videos on youtube would be like…20% less cute.

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**Author:** ![ZPG\_Zealot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e47c2d/32.png) [@ZPG\_Zealot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZPG_Zealot)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/35 "2012-01-16T23:42:09Z")

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> [@Zsofia](#):
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> You said you felt women who go around shaking hands are clearly whores.

Actually, I think it was sluts. I actually have a lot of respect for whores who honestly charge money for sexual acts rather than give it away for free. The problem with women who go around shaking hands is that most of them are bootlickers (if not something else) that won’t stand up for their other sisters’ rights not to have men touch them unless they consent.

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**Author:** ![Marley23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/45deac/32.png) [@Marley23](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Marley23)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:42pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/36 "2012-01-16T23:42:25Z")

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> [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](#):
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> **ZPG Zealot** , meet irony. Irony, **ZPG Zealot**. I see the two of you have a lot of catching up to do.

Man, what did irony do to deserve that?

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**Author:** ![Southern\_Yankee](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/southern_yankee/32/2800_2.png) [@Southern\_Yankee](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Southern_Yankee)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:43pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/37 "2012-01-16T23:43:55Z")

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> [@ZPG\_Zealot](#):
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> Actually, I think it was sluts. I actually have a lot of respect for whores who honestly charge money for sexual acts rather than give it away for free. The problem with women who go around shaking hands is that most of them are bootlickers (if not something else) that won’t stand up for their other sisters’ rights not to have men touch them unless they consent.

See? You just have to let it talk…

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**Author:** ![Otara](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/o/a88e4f/32.png) [@Otara](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Otara)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:44pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/38 "2012-01-16T23:44:49Z")

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I wish people would quit it with the armchair diagnoses of disorders.

Just say you think she’s a poopyhead.

Otara

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**Author:** ![Bryan\_Ekers](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/bryan_ekers/32/183_2.png) [@Bryan\_Ekers](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Bryan_Ekers)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:46pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/39 "2012-01-16T23:46:04Z")

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[Kitten offers handshake, cat explains the implied disrespect](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ay2CHX9qeLA)

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**Author:** ![ZPG\_Zealot](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/e47c2d/32.png) [@ZPG\_Zealot](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/ZPG_Zealot)\
**Post date:** [January 16, 2012, 11:47pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/could-someone-explain-the-whole-thing-about-zpg-zealot/609731/40 "2012-01-16T23:47:54Z")

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> [@Sarahfeena](#):
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> One of my faves was her assertion that adopted people have an obligation to make their adopted status public, in case they encounter anyone who has a religious proscription against contact with a person who is ritually unclean.
> 
> And no, I’m not [kidding](http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=12012729&postcount=79).

Why not? It’s simple honesty and if it prevents causing someone embarassment or worse great guilt for having violated their religious tenets common courtesy would be to disclose. It’s no different then when I have guests for dinner or bring food to a potluck at work, I am always careful to label dishes that contain pork, meat, gluten whatever, so that no one violates their food beliefs. Besides if adoption is nothing to be ashamed of why do you care who knows it?

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