Sorta, yeah.
But I was thinking of this kind of situation: Let’s say there is a community that lives in a harsh enviornment. Food is scarce. The old (or ill) that cannot provide some service to the community are allowed (forced?) to starve.
To that community, that is the way it is, the nature of things. (And it makes sense, in a very Darwinian way of thinking.)
To me, that is harsh. My compassionate side says to care for the ill, the elderly.
Who is right? Neither? Both?
But more importantly, do I have the “right” to impose my moral sense of charity and compassion upon them?
Believe it or not, I think that we already have that system, more or less, in the US. We can negotiate the particulars as desired. The system is not designed to be static. It has built in methods of changing as we change over time.
We can work out the debate over stem cell research, abortion, and so on, without ruthlessly stomping on each others core beliefs, I think. At least, one can hope we can.
I am not Catholic. May I speculate? (I will, anyway. wiggles eyebrows)
The creation of life (and a new human soul) is a special event. One so special, that God takes a hand in it. “Works his will”, so to speak.
Therefore, sex is supposed to be a serious, special activity, one shared with that special life partner. It should not be seen as a casual, “hey, I’m bored. Wanna fuck?” type of activity. The casual approach may be seen as diminishing, or demeaning, to something that is considered special by God.
Condoms may be seen by some as an indication of this cavalier attitude toward sex, as well as possibly “interfering” with God’s plans for a new soul to be created.
I disagree with the policy. I think that the “show compassion and charity for the poor and ill” aspects of the church should override the anti-condom/casual sex attitudes, and the church should allow condom use to prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS.
But that is what my “gut” tells me.
I dont have the power to force the Pope to see or do things my way. I would hesitate to use such power anyway, as there are ways to get condoms into the hands of those that need them without the church’s help. So, I don’t see it as an issue that needs war declared on the Vatican, or the very nature of faith itself.