This accusation is kicked around constantly. It seems to grow with the retelling. I won’t comment on its merit, but Der’s characterization of it follows:
And here’s Der’s first post from the offending thread:
The first post at least substantiates Der’s claim. I’ll note that the thread is entitled: “What do you think about recording sex sessions?” and that Der wasn’t exactly alone in his opinion, though I assume nobody else was as strident about it. (I haven’t read the entire thread.)
Also I admit I was creeped out when I gleaned that certain posters seemed to believe that a false rape accusation wasn’t really a devastating smear.