At the end of the day the folks who say the store is OK doing this are right; nobody’s compelling the stores to do what they do. And the folks saying the consumers doing the bogus returning are wrong are also right.
The challenge is that the store assumes their theft-by-bogus-return rate is some low enough percentage where it all works. And if enough petty con artists play the game against the store, the store will change the policy.
It’s a kind of tragedy of the commons; or more accurately, out of control selfishness ruins fair dealing.
If everybody is honest, good folks who don’t try to con the stores will have a generous return policies for the rare occasions we legitimately need them. If enough folks are dishonest, the policies will eventually change and then won’t be available to honest folks.
Which realization of course causes some con men to hurry up and steal faster before the good times end.
Nothing good can come from this dynamic. And IMO the generous return policies are getting more and more limited at bricks & mortar stores all the time.
Anecdote: I rarely return anything. I’m pretty careful to not buy already-opened boxes or defective merchandise. But the other day I bought a cheap hoodie at a touristy beach goodies store near my home. Got it home, washed it, then discovered one sleeve wasn’t sown properly; the seamer had run off the edge of the fabric and there was a 4" section of sleeve that wasn’t closed.
Took it back to the store the next day. With the receipt & my local ID. The manager said it’s been washed 20 times. Accused me of damaging the shirt so I could take it back for a refund. Told him I was looking for an exchange, not a refund.
I was livid to be accused of that. But at the same time I can’t blame the guy for thinking that way. I’m sure that store gets lots of folks that stay at the nearby hotels for a week at the beach who intend to “rent” all their beach gear from his shop for a week then return it all for a full refund.
Once I pointed out I was local & a semi-regular customer he relented and said he could fix the sleeve tonight so I could pick it up tomorrow. I agreed & got it back the next day with a half-assed repair. I’m still pissed; at myself for carelessly buying a defective itemand for him being a jerk. But mostly at the thieving customer base for driving this guy into jerkitude.
And that’s how a good society of honest citizens and merchants turns into a cutthroat society competing solely to out-gyp the other guy.