# dangerously personal revelation... are you guys my friends?

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**Category:** Miscellaneous and Personal Stuff I Must Share\
**Created:** [July 26, 2001, 11:48pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dangerously-personal-revelation-are-you-guys-my-friends/73907 "2001-07-26T23:48:54Z")\
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**Author:** ![BunnyGirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/22d042/32.png) [@BunnyGirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BunnyGirl)\
**Post date:** [July 27, 2001, 7:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dangerously-personal-revelation-are-you-guys-my-friends/73907/21 "2001-07-27T19:01:19Z")

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> entry on the list of names for alternative bands - the Holy Hand Grenades!

Only for a Christian Heavy Metal band though! 😃

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**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\
**Post date:** [July 27, 2001, 7:37pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dangerously-personal-revelation-are-you-guys-my-friends/73907/22 "2001-07-27T19:37:23Z")

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Ross, it’s perfectly normal to wonder “what if?” In fact, it’s even healthy (in moderation, of course!!)

You’re married. You’re not _dead_, after all!  
Besides, if you’ve known each other for years, and you never got together, then you two weren’t right for each other, anyway. If you were “meant” to be together, no other relationships or situations would have kept you apart. In some possible future, maybe the time will be right for you to be together, but the time wasn’t right then, and it isn’t right now.

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