# dating **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [June 5, 2014, 5:26am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097 "2014-06-05T05:26:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![QuickSilver](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/quicksilver/32/7832_2.png) [@QuickSilver](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/QuickSilver)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 2:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/21 "2014-06-05T14:24:56Z")
> [@kapossible](#): > > …I would of been the next women he would of done his bs to… How many of you are there? ---
**Author:** ![PastTense](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pasttense/32/14550_2.png) [@PastTense](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/PastTense)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 2:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/22 "2014-06-05T14:30:54Z")
> [@Antinor01](#): > > You were a rebound fling. I’d have to say you probably didn’t stand a chance regardless of how awesome you might be. This is the key point. ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Bean](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_bean/32/1760_2.png) [@Green\_Bean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Bean)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 3:00pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/23 "2014-06-05T15:00:27Z")
> [@Inna\_Minnit](#): > > So you would fuck him on the fourth date. Is there something inherently wrong with fucking on the fourth date? > [@kapossible](#): > > i met this guy on a dating site, it started out very well, we went on 4 dates, he text me every morning, every night all day every day, called every night and we talked on phone for 2 hours… This level of contact is a red flag, especially so early on. Keep that in mind for the future. Good luck and welcome to the SDMB. ---
**Author:** ![Stringbean](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/d6d6ee/32.png) [@Stringbean](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Stringbean)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 3:14pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/24 "2014-06-05T15:14:43Z")
Dude was contacting you way too much and probably just wanted to boink and bounce. He sounds like a huge clowner to me, surprised you even liked him at all. ---
**Author:** ![kapossible](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/c2a13f/32.png) [@kapossible](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kapossible)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 3:30pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/25 "2014-06-05T15:30:09Z")
Thank you for welcoming me to the site. I thank you for the responses, some hilarious, some serious, but all helpful. Great people, great group! ---
**Author:** ![Grrr](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/grrr/32/146_2.png) [@Grrr](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Grrr)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 3:39pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/26 "2014-06-05T15:39:00Z")
> [@epbrown01](#): > > So many of these dating posts filter down to “why is this jerk/nutjob/asshole behaving like a jerk/nutjob/asshole?” Since that question answers itself, what’s the **real** question? I suspect it’s “why did I pick another jerk/nutjob/asshole to sleep with?” Isn’t that the real issue - he was who he was long before you made the scene. You’ve got a pretty solid list of bad qualities and red flags, so you knew all along he was trouble. Instead of focusing on what an awful person he is, work out why you wanted to be with an awful person. Because from the tone of your posts, you still sorta do. There’s a definite “the food was awful - wait, I can’t have seconds?” vibe here. Maybe that’s just me. Sometimes you just wanna get laid. I think women (in general) have a harder time admitting that. (For obvious reasons) ---
**Author:** ![pulykamell](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/pulykamell/32/3166_2.png) [@pulykamell](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/pulykamell)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 4:24pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/27 "2014-06-05T16:24:04Z")
> [@Green\_Bean](#): > > Is there something inherently wrong with fucking on the fourth date? No, and isn’t the third date the standard these days? 😉 It’s just an answer to the question in the last sentence of the OP. Which date it was doesn’t matter. He said those sweet nice things to get her into bed. ---
**Author:** ![kapossible](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/c2a13f/32.png) [@kapossible](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/kapossible)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2014, 7:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097/28 "2014-06-05T19:33:37Z")
😉 yes he did. He’s a tool [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/dating/690097.md?page=1)