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If one day someone can come to me and show me something that could explain the paranormal experiences I have had I would be nothing but grateful. Someone who could say, “Hey, you remember that dream your mom had predicting the exact date and time of your brothers death 4 days before it happened? This is why.”
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Likely reasons (without knowing the exact content of the dream):
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Coincidence. People dream about friends and family members all the time whether things happen to them or not. Sometimes things happen to people after we dream about them.
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The dream seems more specific in retrospect than at the time she actually dreamed it. Perhaps she dreamed of him, then he died, and she remembered dreaming about him, and her mind filled in some of the details (including the warning he would die and the date and time) afterward, all exacerbated by the trauma of his death. Memories of dreams (like memories in general) are very tenuous, fluid things subject to all kinds of alteration over time, and not static snapshots.
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Some entity from the “spirit world” attempted to warn your mother by revealing to her the precise date and time her son would die a few short days later (a concept which, coincidentally, has been employed as a plot device in several major motion pictures over the past several years). To what purpose is uncertain, since she was sadly unable to use her foreknowledge to save him.
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or “Hey, you know that dark haired guy you always see smoking a cigarette outside the laundry room at your friends apartment that no one else can see even if they are there and looking for him when you see him, this is what that actually is.”
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Your friends are fucking with you (maybe realizing that you’re prone to belief in the supernatural).
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You’re hallucinating due to current or past drug use, brain injury, or other mental illness.
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You are exaggerating or misrepresenting the event(s) somehow, whether intentionally or not.
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There really is a mysterious nonhuman entity who hangs around outside the laundry room smoking cigarettes, and you’re the only one able to see him. He doesn’t know he’s dead and is waiting for you to come say hello. Oh, and the dark hair is a rug, and he’s a dead ringer for Bruce Willis.