Do you honestly not get it?
Seriously?
Look at the facts.
You wish not to debate with me, because you consider a tactic which I didn’t actually use to be unworthy.
You only know that I attempted the tactic because I mentioned it.
I mentioned it in passing because I thought it was humorous and ironic the way I blundered it.
If I read your attitude correctly (and feel free to correct me if I’m wrong) because of this tactic I am not worthy of debate in your eyes, but your willing to accept limited other contact.
If that is accurate so far, consider my reaction.
While considering the tactic, I thought of it like sacrificing a pawn in chess, or a judo move, or faking down the line in tennis, or hitting cross-court, or feinting in fencing.
Such a move, making a deliberate error to expose a weakness is a valid one in most endeavors, and part of the game.
Part of the reason why I’m in this thread is that I find the tactics being used to openly and blatantly dishonest (though not by you, admittedly. I think you’ve debated well even though you’re dead wrong about what constitutes a fact.)
The extreme umbrage being taken at this admission of mine seems to me like the pot calling the kettle black.
Nevertheless, seeing as I’m arguing about honest debating technique, using a deceptive tactic to do so is probably not the best way to go about it, in hindsight. Cosmically stupid, actually, but it seemed like a good idea at the time.
Later, it seems ironic but not particularly harmful, so I point it out, and get shellacked for it.
Which is all fine.
The thing though, is that there’s really only one person here who’s admitting errors or coming clean when they make them, and that’s sad and frustrating, because there’s more than one person making factual errors and using dishonest tactics, and outright lying.
And I should know better. Those people aren’t going to change because of anything I do or say.
However, when I read from you that apparently so disgusted by my rhetorical judo move which I brought forth and admitted to poke fun at myself, that you no longer wish to debate with me and deign only to have nonsubstantive contact, I ask myself if this is an appropriate gesture within the context of the action.
What I come up with is the belief that no, it really isn’t.
It seems sanctimonious and holier than thou. More, it seems like a rhetorical trick.
If you really felt that way, and you really wished me well, as you say, why would seek to insult and injure me by stating it?
Isn’t more effective if you just do it?
I know if I no longer wished to debate somebody but wished to exchange posts of other natures and maintain goodwill, I wouldn’t tell them that I thought they were a piece of shit. I would just be friendly, but not debate. That way I don’t hurt feelings or make an issue of it.
Seeing though as your reaction doesn’t seem fitting, and you’re making a point of making it, it looks to me like you’re making a rhetorical gesture, and not a true honest reaction.
In fact, it’s rhetorical judo, and as such hypocritical.
So, I said I would prefer you stay away all together if you wish to put on such sanctimonious airs.
If you wish to debate or converse, I’m happy to do so. If you wish to make grand gestures and only deign to converse in certain prescribed circumstances, I’d prefer you spare me your charity, and the reek of your own hypocrisy.
I’m familiar enough with my own reek to recognize it on another, and frankly I think you smell worse.