# Depressed people, what's your depression anthem?

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**Created:** [June 15, 2013, 8:18pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090 "2013-06-15T20:18:06Z")\
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anything by evanescence

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Death Cab for Cutie’s [I will follow you into the dark](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Am0IFwjPyYA)

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> [@unphiltered](#):
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> Radiohead’s “Creep” is my go-to song when I’m not digging what life has given me.

This, especially the acoustic version.

I also have a couple of self-written songs that have not made it out of my head and onto paper or other media, mostly because they’re embarrassingly maudlin, but which I hum to myself in such times.

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 2:52am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/44 "2013-06-18T02:52:33Z")

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I find Joy Division’s “Love Will Tear Us Apart” can be comforting when life is really dealing me a lousy hand.

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“Mary Jane” by Alanis Morissettte  
“Save Yourself” by Stabbing Westward  
“Judith” by A Perfect Circle

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 5:14am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/46 "2013-06-18T05:14:23Z")

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Since I Fell For You - Lenny Welch (and many others), only under certain circumstances, though.

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/47 "2013-06-18T05:54:19Z")

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[24 Hours](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xiCc_mFXD3E)by Joy Division:

\*Just for one moment, I heard somebody call,  
Looked beyond the day in hand, there’s nothing there at all.

Now that I’ve realised how it’s all gone wrong,  
Got to find some therapy, this treatment takes too long.\*

What I like about it is that it’s not a quiet minor-key song, because depression isn’t always like that. The subconscious bassline keeps up the drone of depression, and the angry self-aware guitar rails against it - just like in real life.

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Soul Asylum - Runaway train  
Social Distortion - Ball and chain  
Jane’s Addiction - Jane says  
Gorrilaz - Don’t get lost in heaven/Demon Days  
Dion - Abraham, Martin and John  
The Shins - The past and pending  
Third Eye Blind - Jumper  
311 - Beyond the grey sky  
John Lennon - Hold on

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 7:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/49 "2013-06-18T07:41:39Z")

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_Anthem_ suggests the Angry Depression, for which punk becomes indispensable. I don’t think many realize how close punk and depression are related, and that the anger is more often than not - at least with the early punk bands - a kind of depression management thing. Black Flag is the best at this - [Can’t Decide,](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjGWP_iEcIs) [Nothing Left Inside,](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKJZWdrr63M) [Depression (duh…)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dFqjAZG-Mw) etc etc etc

Then there’s Elliott Smith who I can’t fucking believe he hasn’t been mentioned yet. Dude understood depression and how to communicate his frustrations with depression (as well as addiction, etc) better than any artist I’ve ever found. [Ballad of Big Nothing](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XSJlDlCirvY) has always been one of my favorite song of his.

[True Love](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2XB29zYh4gU)  
[A Fond Farewell](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsVmGz2dY1w)  
[Needle in the Hay](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pyBB7y8fDU)

ETC

Then, of course, there’s [Suicide Machine](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GyHcni_wXvg). Seemingly upbeat, right? Kind of jaunty? Well, it was one of the last things he ever worked on, before stabbing himself in the chest several times. Includes the lyrics “everybody’s trying to turn me into a suicide machine.”

Yea, I reach for the pure stuff…

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 8:27am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/50 "2013-06-18T08:27:48Z")

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[Happy With That](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aD_M6dB_PWY) by Kelly Willis, which isn’t a happy song.

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 8:55pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/51 "2013-06-18T20:55:43Z")

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> [@PSXer](#):
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> Basket Case
> 
> Green Day really understand me, man

Seconding the Green Day. For me it’s _Longview_. They don’t mince words when they talk about depression.

> [@](#):
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> Sit around and watch the tube, but nothing’s on  
> I change the channels for an hour or two  
> Twiddle my thumbs just for a bit  
> I’m sick of all the same old shit  
> In a house with unlocked doors  
> And I’m fucking lazy
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> Bite my lip and close my eyes  
> Take me away to paradise  
> I’m so damn bored I’m going blind  
> And I smell like shit

Madonna’s ‘‘Love Tried to Welcome Me’’ (I must confess instead of spring it’s always winter/And my heart has always been a lonely hunter.)

Weezer’s album _Pinkerton_.

Tori Amos’ entire album _Little Earthquakes_. Goddamn it’s depressing. I won’t even listen to it when I’m in a good mood.

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 10:01pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/52 "2013-06-18T22:01:57Z")

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**Sisters of Mercy** are my go to for existential wallowing…

_Some Kind of Stranger_:  
…Even this must pass away and  
Memories may last for years but  
Names are just for souvenirs  
Some kind of angel let me  
Look into your eyes…

_Alice_  
…Pass the crystal spread the Tarot  
In illusion comfort lies  
The safest way the straight and narrow  
No confusion no surprise…

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**Post date:** [June 18, 2013, 11:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/53 "2013-06-18T23:25:09Z")

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I third the vote for Green Day. For me, it’s “Boulevard of Broken Dreams” and “Wake Me Up When September Ends.”

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**Post date:** [June 20, 2013, 1:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/54 "2013-06-20T01:02:05Z")

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Butthole Surfers. “Girl Passing Gas.” At least that’s what I think it’s called. Off the Hairway to Steven album.

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**Post date:** [June 20, 2013, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/55 "2013-06-20T02:10:46Z")

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> [@Angel\_of\_the\_Lord](#):
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> Hm. Depends on the day, I suppose. My tried and true standards, though:
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> The Offspring - _Have You Ever_  
> Third Eye Blind - _How’s It Gonna Be_  
> REM - _Low_

Holy crap, I thought I would be the only one to post the song [have you ever](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-enWFTi_CDE) by the offspring. However only the first half is my anthem, I set the song up to just repeat the first 2:20.

Aside from that [Sia - breathe me](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSH7fblcGWM)

[Akron/family - love is simple](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBy1NUHi1I8)

[Amanda Palmer - the ship song](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynIWC3vRZW4)

Also several songs on the album ‘story of a life volume 1’ by harry Chapin and electroshock blues by the Eels.

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Showing my age here…

[Mercy Street](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zs35CBGOxbc)

Of course, it’s also really cool to listen to when I’m driving on a foggy night, or on a very quiet late night.

_She pictures the broken glass  
She pictures the steam  
She pictures the soul  
with no rip at the seams_

And of course, my all time favorite song, which if you [listen to the lyric](http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Bad-lyrics-U2/4AD385D713AEAC9F48256896002AE96C)s…

[U2’s Bad (Live)](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPyhYczii8I)

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**Post date:** [June 22, 2013, 10:59am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/57 "2013-06-22T10:59:39Z")

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I suffer from clinical depression, Seasons in the Sun, Terry Jacks.

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**Post date:** [June 22, 2013, 1:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/58 "2013-06-22T13:08:46Z")

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“Dogs” by Pink Floyd

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James Taylor, the entire JT album. My depression go-to music since I was 18.

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**Post date:** [June 24, 2013, 1:04am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/depressed-people-whats-your-depression-anthem/661090/60 "2013-06-24T01:04:06Z")

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Man…how to pick?

[It’s So Easy Not To Try—Glenn Yarbrough (from _Return of the King_)](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cGijkIwsco#t=0m42s)  
[Death is Not The End—Nick Cave and the Bad Seeds](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJXN5VPkyH8)  
[Prospero’s Speech—Loreena McKennit](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sc5WPpqn13k)…

So many more, so many worse. ☹

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