I feel like this is similar to the “black hat”/“white hat” hacking issues that come up. If a hacker finds a vulnerability and in good faith tells the company that made the hardware/software, does a company say “thanks” or do they try to have the hacker arrested?
I would be more concerned if Siri called the police.
:rolleyes:
Have you ever, or do you know someone who has, spent a few days in such a place? A dear friend of mine was sent for a weekend (fabricated claim made during an pre-divorce argument in front of her clever mother-in-law), and it was closer to hell than I’ve ever been.
After 5PM, it isn’t polite people sitting in a circle of chairs.
Oh my yes.
Not happy places at all.
I think this is the wisest comment in the thread. Way too many facts and nuances yet to make any comment.
I guess Apple must have fixed Siri’s responses. The answer I get when I tried just now is, “I don’t know how to respond to that.”
I hope the police aren’t on their way. I’ll try to check in before 24 hours have elapsed.
It sounds like exactly the idiotic throwaway, bad-taste bullshit that pretty much defined my early teenage years. Either I or my friends would be pretty much guaranteed to have thrown around equivalent offensive and off-colour concepts as a matter of course. I believe it is a fundamental property of being 13.
Of course we didn’t have an always-on information source willing to respond to our our every distasteful whim. If we did have, we would have. Expect to see many more of these non-stories. When you have technology monitoring and broadcasting your every word and deed it is unavoidable. The fact that it made it into the public domain doesn’t make it any more serious or credible than the utter bollocks me and my friends spouted when we were 13.
The most sensible comment on the thread. Some of the other comments (e.g. " he should be expelled and punished (imo) but that’s a false sense of security. Restraining orders can’t stop bullets.") were, I hope, tongue-in-cheek sarcasm.
This response is just one of many ways social norms have changed dramatically since I was a kid.
Thank you.
I’m so thankful to have the fortune of only having to have dealt with this non sensical "OMG wallet chains are weapons and your Elmer fudd t shirt has a gun on it you must be expelled and counseled for your violent behavior " bullshit.
Makes a kid think all adults are mentally defecient at best and singling you out at worst.
It’s completely counterproductive and I can see some kids going “oh, you want something to worry about”…
You know where mass school shootings don’t happen?.. In the ghetto.
Maybe we need to analyze why that is.
I’m sure it’s not that ghetto kids can’t get guns.
Amidst all this outrage that 13-year-olds, who tend to be impetuous, get in trouble for making stupid remarks, one important fact has been overlooked:
. This wasn’t the case of the school or police overreacting. Other kids were worried about his “joke.” Nobody knows what it’s like to be 13 like people who ARE 13, and his peers were not amused. They were alarmed.
And let me point out how rare those remarks are. There are 57 million kids attending school in the US. If all of 'em were so incapable of learning to keep their mouths shut, we’d be seeing thousands of arrests like the one in the OP every day. Kids can and do learn the consequences of saying stupid illegal stuff. They even understand why it’s illegal.
Assuming his social media contacts are all his age is a big assumption. Note it doesn’t say his classmates.
There is nothing to pretend; it is one hundred percent plausible a 13-year-old really won’t get it. Absolutely.
I have two kids, 14 and 13. They can be amazingly bright one minute and mind-bogglingly stupid the next. I can totally believe they or some other kid their age would not grasp how inappropriate such a thing would be.
Doesn’t mean the police shouldn’t come have a talk, of course.
And 13 year old kids are not always the best judges either.
I see it happen about once a week or so in the local news that some student in the area says or does something dumb and gets arrested for it.
Some threats:
http://www.fox19.com/2019/01/21/extra-security-western-hills-high-school-tuesday-due-social-media-threat/
https://www.cincinnati.com/story/news/crime/crime-and-courts/2019/02/11/threat-prompts-increased-security-shroder-high-school/2835732002/
Here’s a really stupid overreaction by school officials
Here’s a bullied kid acting out inappropriately.
Which apparently turned into 3 students being charged
And, even adult ex-students still can be stupid.
This is just a quick sampling I googled up really quick. There are several more than I remember reading in recent times that I did not see in this brief survey. These are all within a 50 mile radius.
Unfortunately, these remarks are not nearly rare enough.