# Did you ever have sex with a sibling?

**URL:** <https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920>\
**Category:** In My Humble Opinion\
**Created:** [November 24, 2003, 2:10am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920 "2003-11-24T02:10:01Z")\
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**Author:** ![elfkin477](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/a9a28c/32.png) [@elfkin477](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/elfkin477)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 5:21am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/41 "2003-11-25T05:21:56Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Guinastasia \*  
> \*\*What, no mention of V. C. Andrews? \*\*

It’s a shame her last book wasn’t an autobiography. I bet her family life was…interesting.

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**Author:** ![SanguineSpider](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e9a140/32.png) [@SanguineSpider](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/SanguineSpider)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 6:02am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/42 "2003-11-25T06:02:07Z")

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There is no way I’d ever touch or let my brother touch me in such a way. Cousins? Hell no! Uncle, father, grandfather… NONONONONO! If there is a blood link, no fuckin’ way (pun intended). That’s wrong… just W-R-O-N-G.

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**Author:** ![The\_Griffin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/a87d85/32.png) [@The\_Griffin](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/The_Griffin)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 10:50am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/43 "2003-11-25T10:50:32Z")

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It’s funny reading the above posts that most of the cousins who initiated the intimacy were the females. Same thing happened to me with one of my second cousins, but we never did anything.

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**Author:** ![AngelicGemma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/439d5e/32.png) [@AngelicGemma](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/AngelicGemma)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 1:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/44 "2003-11-25T13:07:41Z")

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Why the hell would I want to sleep with my brother? He’s my BROTHER! The idea is just so gross!

The same goes for anyone related to me by blood.

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**Author:** ![Scumpup](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ce73a5/32.png) [@Scumpup](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Scumpup)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 3:20pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/45 "2003-11-25T15:20:48Z")

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One of my cousins and his older stepsister apparently had a sexual relationship for a while. In all fairness, she was (is) a good looking woman and they aren’t related by blood.

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**Author:** ![hybrid\_dogfish](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/a587f6/32.png) [@hybrid\_dogfish](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/hybrid_dogfish)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 3:33pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/46 "2003-11-25T15:33:21Z")

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_shudders_ WHY did I have to go and read this? Eugh!

Anyway, just to put the matter beyond the shadow of the valley of doubt, _NO_ never, even considering such a situation makes me feel physically sick.

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**Author:** ![cowgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8c91f0/32.png) [@cowgirl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/cowgirl)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 3:56pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/47 "2003-11-25T15:56:31Z")

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I know a couple of people who have had sex with first cousins. Unsurprisingly, they don’t talk about it much.

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**Author:** ![Shade](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/2bfe46/32.png) [@Shade](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Shade)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 4:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/48 "2003-11-25T16:26:30Z")

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> \*Originally posted by ILikeMadonna \*  
> \*\*Well I know for a fact that I’ll never have feelings for my borther or sister because I DON’T HAVE ANY SIBLINGS! \*\*

I assume so, but you forgot to mention that your parents can’t possibly have any more children.

Hijack: many people see nothing wrong with dating cousins. It’s a whole 'nother debte, but I just thought it needed reminding.

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**Author:** ![Surreal](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eada6e/32.png) [@Surreal](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Surreal)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 4:45pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/49 "2003-11-25T16:45:20Z")

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I don’t understand why everybody is so ‘disgusted’ at the thought of having sex with a blood relative. I don’t think it’s a big deal at all, and as long as they are both consenting adults who do not intend to have children, who cares?

Personally, all of the women in my family are hideous looking, but if they weren’t, I certainly wouldn’t rule them out just because we’re related.

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**Author:** ![Innanna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/ecd19e/32.png) [@Innanna](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Innanna)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 5:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/50 "2003-11-25T17:22:10Z")

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## Originally posted by Innanna I once watched a documentary about people who were unrelated but raised as siblings (as well as people raised in a cummunal, long running orphanage…

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> \*Originally posted by Tangent \*  
> \*\*Freudian typo? \*\*

Well, damn. And I even previewed. That is not a good typo there, is it.:o 🙂

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 5:23pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/51 "2003-11-25T17:23:15Z")

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How is that not half the ick of sex with your Mom?

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**Author:** ![Gravity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gravity/32/14322_2.png) [@Gravity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gravity)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 5:27pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/52 "2003-11-25T17:27:49Z")

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Yeah, in VT it’s perfectly legal to marry a 1st cousin. But that’s not something I’d do, either.  
I mean, he’s an OK guy, but there’s no way on earth I’d marry him.  
Once again, objectively, there’s no reason no to (you know, other than already being married), but emotionally, it’s a definate no-go.

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**Author:** ![macabresoul](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e68b1a/32.png) [@macabresoul](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/macabresoul)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 5:31pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/53 "2003-11-25T17:31:49Z")

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> \*Originally posted by Surreal \*  
> \*\*I don’t understand why everybody is so ‘disgusted’ at the thought of having sex with a blood relative. I don’t think it’s a big deal at all, and as long as they are both consenting adults who do not intend to have children, who cares?
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> Personally, all of the women in my family are hideous looking, but if they weren’t, I certainly wouldn’t rule them out just because we’re related. \*\*

Actually there wouldn’t be anything biologically wrong if 2 siblings had children. Incest doesn’t cause widespread mutation like everyone thinks. It just increases the chance of the child getting recessive genes from both parents.

The royal family is doing ok

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**Author:** ![Gatopescado](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gatopescado/32/5711_2.png) [@Gatopescado](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gatopescado)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 5:38pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/54 "2003-11-25T17:38:25Z")

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Surreal, you have some real problems to address, if you ask me.

My sister (and brothers, for that matter) makes me sick, and I can’t stand to be in the same house with her, let alone anything else!

I’ll dig up two old sigs for this thread:

She was a mother, but not mine, so that makes it okay. And…

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She told me she loved me like a brother. She was from Arkansas, hence the Joy!

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**Author:** ![JohnBckWLD](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/d6d6ee/32.png) [@JohnBckWLD](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/JohnBckWLD)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 7:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/55 "2003-11-25T19:16:09Z")

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> \*Originally posted by E. Thorp \*  
> **…would I ever think of this topic if it hadn’t been a Dope thread? Lordy, no! Sheesh…**

Now I think I’ve seen everything, but who knows? I’m not complaining - there’s enough freedom here to discuss just about any topic.

I wonder how long it’ll be 'til we see any of the following:[ul][_]How Many Spasms Do You have During Orgam?[_]Clipped Toenails: Let Em Lie Where They Land or Pick 'Em Up?[_]Can I Use The Yeast From My Wife’s Infection To Bake Bread?[_]Snot: What’s The Straight Dope On Its Nutritional Value?[_]Are There Enough Acids In My Vomit To Etch Glass?[_]Ever Have Sex With Someone Who Has Downs Syndrome?[_]Ever See a Recognizble Shape In An Underwear Stain?[_]Afterbirth Stew. Ever Try It?[/ul]

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**Author:** ![Gravity](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/gravity/32/14322_2.png) [@Gravity](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Gravity)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 7:26pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/56 "2003-11-25T19:26:52Z")

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What on earth?

It’s not a disgusting topic, just ‘weird’ IMO.

And even then, the weird comes in to it from my own feelings on the matter, not from the thread itself.

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**Author:** ![Guinastasia](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/guinastasia/32/5751_2.png) [@Guinastasia](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Guinastasia)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 8:22pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/57 "2003-11-25T20:22:53Z")

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> Can I Use The Yeast From My Wife’s Infection To Bake Bread?

I seem to recall someone actually asking this, though I could be mistaken!

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**Author:** ![lieu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/c2a13f/32.png) [@lieu](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/lieu)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 8:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/58 "2003-11-25T20:40:19Z")

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> Are There Enough Acids In My Vomit To Etch Glass?

I don’t know about glass but there’s a concrete porch in Grand Junction that’s the worse for it.

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**Author:** ![BottledBlondJeanie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/0ea827/32.png) [@BottledBlondJeanie](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/BottledBlondJeanie)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 9:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/59 "2003-11-25T21:16:52Z")

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Ick.

Pretty sure I’ve seen this one:

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> Afterbirth Stew. Ever Try It?

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**Author:** ![Green\_Cymbeline](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/green_cymbeline/32/9244_2.png) [@Green\_Cymbeline](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Green_Cymbeline)\
**Post date:** [November 25, 2003, 10:08pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-ever-have-sex-with-a-sibling/214920/60 "2003-11-25T22:08:25Z")

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> \*Originally posted by St. Anger \*  
> \*\*I didn’t know you went to the University of West Virginia! 😃 \*\*

First of all, it’s WEST VIRGINIA UNIVERSITY, not the University of, and second, don’t bust on WVU! It’s a great school, and a majority of the students aren’t even _from_ West Virginia (like me).

Does anyone even know _why_ people make incest jokes about West Virginia?

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