# Did You Plan Your Sexual Milestones Ahead of Time, or Did They Just Happen? **URL:** \ **Category:** In My Humble Opinion\ **Created:** [March 3, 2010, 8:20am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106 "2010-03-03T08:20:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![NinetyWt](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/cc9497/32.png) [@NinetyWt](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/NinetyWt)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 2:01am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/21 "2010-03-04T02:01:08Z")
No, nothing planned, not at all. ---
**Author:** ![Autolycus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/22d042/32.png) [@Autolycus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Autolycus)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 5:49am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/22 "2010-03-04T05:49:50Z")
> [@NinetyWt](#): > > No, nothing planned, not at all. Why, I’m having one right now! Kidding. Or am I? ---
**Author:** ![Not\_a\_Platypus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/d26b3c/32.png) [@Not\_a\_Platypus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Not_a_Platypus)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 5:54am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/23 "2010-03-04T05:54:39Z")
Not really. My first was with a long-distance relationship guy that came to town and stayed in a hotel. I guess it was inevitable, really. Everything else so far just happened whenever, and the only planning in the future will be of the “I want to do X, let’s see if I need to buy anything for that” variety. ---
**Author:** ![Taomist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@Taomist](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Taomist)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 6:08am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/24 "2010-03-04T06:08:12Z")
I think the virginity thing was planned, inasmuch as I would not have been interested in the guy for any other reason. Not my type at all, but safe, in that he had \ more experience and there would be no ugly attachments after it was all said and done. It went pretty much as planned, except for the taking 5 separate occasions to finish the job, as apparantly I had the Brandenburg Gate going on in there. “When did you lose your virginity?” “November of my senior year, I was 16” “Where did it happen?” “Um…waterbed, public park, bent over a motorcycle, waterbed again, back of some big old car” Poor guy. Really killed his \ ego. 😛 ---
**Author:** ![Serenata67](https://sea3.discourse-cdn.com/straightdope/user_avatar/boards.straightdope.com/serenata67/32/10646_2.png) [@Serenata67](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Serenata67)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 12:40pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/25 "2010-03-04T12:40:31Z")
> [@EvilTOJ](#): > > Virtually all of mine have been planned in the sense I wanted to do them and I knew the details of how I wanted things to proceed, but finding willing participants was the stumbling block. I’m doing okay, baby… but the better question is how is my husband doing 😉 He’s one lucky son of a bitch. ---
**Author:** ![GreatStuffMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f04885/32.png) [@GreatStuffMan](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/GreatStuffMan)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 1:25pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/26 "2010-03-04T13:25:22Z")
I don’t really think I’ve planned anything ahead of time. I might have been thinking “It sure would be nice if we/she…”, but that’s it. ---
**Author:** ![matt\_mcl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7ab992/32.png) [@matt\_mcl](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/matt_mcl)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2010, 3:35pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/27 "2010-03-04T15:35:30Z")
It was not planned ahead of time. I would just like to say that I am probably one of the few living people on this planet who lost their virginity _because of_ Magic: The Gathering. ---
**Author:** ![MannyL](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ba8739/32.png) [@MannyL](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/MannyL)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2010, 12:41am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/28 "2010-03-08T00:41:20Z")
> [@Autolycus](#): > > Why, I’m having one right now! > > Kidding. Or am I? Put down that Ladle! ---
**Author:** ![Autolycus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/22d042/32.png) [@Autolycus](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Autolycus)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2010, 2:48am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/29 "2010-03-08T02:48:08Z")
People still remember that? Crap. And… capitalized? ---
**Author:** ![Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/e8c25b/32.png) [@Really\_Not\_All\_That\_Bright](https://boards.straightdope.com/u/Really_Not_All_That_Bright)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2010, 3:16pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106/30 "2010-03-09T15:16:58Z")
Capitalized. Considering what you did with it I think the least you can do is offer it some respect. 😉 [Previous page](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/did-you-plan-your-sexual-milestones-ahead-of-time-or-did-they-just-happen/531106.md?page=1)