# Disputing my warning/suspension

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**Created:** [September 9, 2021, 7:07pm UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/disputing-my-warning-suspension/950393 "2021-09-09T19:07:26Z")\
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**Post date:** [September 10, 2021, 3:06am UTC](https://boards.straightdope.com/t/disputing-my-warning-suspension/950393/160 "2021-09-10T03:06:00Z")

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> [@SenorBeef](#):
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> Why can’t they just avoid discussions that they could be hurt by? Why do those discussions have to not exist?

First, you don’t need to get an answer to everything. If folks who are survivors of rape tell you that it’s bothering them, you don’t need to grill them until the answer satisfies. Sometimes grownups can say, “Y’know, I don’t fully get it, but I get that it bothers you, and I can adjust. My fuck-around entertainment isn’t worth bothering you over.”

But second: the thread title is right there any time you go to Great Debates. Survivors of rape who find Funsie-Rape-Debates bothersome shouldn’t have to avoid the entire forum to avoid FRDs.

> [@SenorBeef](#):
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> their pet issues

Jesus man, can you fuckin quit it already? This is really disgusting, and it’s betraying the fundamental attitude you have toward rape victims.

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